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Summary

The article discusses the unique habits and sources of joy for writers, emphasizing the importance of deep appreciation and connection with fellow writers.

Abstract

The article titled "What Makes a Writer Happy?" delves into the unconventional lifestyles and happiness-inducing quirks of writers, citing examples from renowned authors like Agatha Christie and Charles Dickens. It suggests that writers find joy in the act of creation and in the profound appreciation from fellow writers, as opposed to material wealth. The author shares a personal anecdote of feeling "super happy" upon receiving thoughtful engagement from a fellow writer, John Ramos, who left multiple notifications of appreciation on their Medium account. This interaction underscores the author's belief that writers are inherently impractical, seeking fulfillment through their craft and the validation that comes from genuine peer recognition. The article concludes with a call for kindness, quoting John Ramos's recent article, and invites readers to connect with the author on social media and through their publications.

Opinions

  • Writers often engage in unconventional behaviors to stimulate their creativity and find happiness in their work.
  • The appreciation from fellow writers is particularly meaningful and can lead to profound happiness for authors.
  • Writers are portrayed as individuals who prioritize the pursuit of their art over practical or material concerns.
  • The act of writing is seen as a way for writers to make sense of the world and their place within it.
  • The author values deep engagement with their work, considering it a form of appreciation that goes beyond surface-level acknowledgment.
  • The article suggests that a sense of community and mutual support among writers is crucial for their emotional well-being and motivation.
  • The author expresses gratitude and admiration for the kindness and support shown by John Ramos, reinforcing the importance of positive interactions within the writing community.

What Makes a Writer Happy?

It’s Not What You Think It Is

Credit: Wikipedia

Writers live an unusual life.

From the unusual things they think about to the unusual things they do to make themselves happy, everything about writers is unusual.

Normal people may call them weird, but it is those eccentricities that make them special.

Agatha Christie, Charles Dickens, Virginia Woolf and William Shakespeare are four of the world’s most celebrated writers who did strange things to make themselves happy.

  • Agatha Christie ate apples in the bathtub to envision murder mysteries.
  • Charles Dickens slept facing north to improve his creativity and writing.
  • Virginia Woolf wrote at a standing desk to occasionally step away from her writing to get a different view.
  • William Shakespeare included suicide 13 times in his plays to make his plays more lively

Normal people don’t do such things because they think it is impractical.

But that is the very essence of being a writer.

A writer is an impractical creature trying to find his place in a practical world.

Writers are day dreamers. They dream about all possible emotions known to mankind and all different angles to an unborn story.

While normal people are running after money to fulfil their materialistic desire, writers are chasing their own thoughts to materialise them into words.

Don’t get me wrong. Writers love money too.

But once they commit themselves to the art of writing, they are pretty much stuck in that rabbit hole for the rest of their lives. Every day is spent trying to write something that makes sense to them.

And they do strange things to make themselves happy in the process.

I dare say I have the audacity to compare myself with the likes of Agatha Christie, Charles Dickens, Virginia Woolf or even William Shakespeare. But, I do confess I too have my own strange secrets that make me happy.

And, when I say happy, I mean not just happy. I mean super happy.

That’s why when I say appreciation, I don’t just mean appreciation. I mean appreciation at a deeper level.

When someone reads my writing and leaves a thoughtful comment, that appreciation makes me happy, no doubt.

But, when a fellow writer spends considerable time reading my writing, and commenting on it, I genuinely feel that appreciation at a deeper level.

Today I felt such appreciation at a deeper level when I opened my Medium account and saw 21 notifications.

Screenshot taken by Author

I must have read one notification before taking the screenshot. Hence, 20 notifications.

I wondered how many writers engaged with my content.But, to my surprise, it was just one writer- John Ramos.

This gentleman dropped 21 notifications on my account. It looked something like this.

Screenshot taken by Author

I know some of the notifications were from his replies to my comments on his articles.

But still, to see such a beautiful sight one fine morning on a seemingly sunny day was all I needed to make me happy.

Dear John, thinking of you spending a considerable amount of your time engaging with my content just made me smile. And, that’s when I thought I needed to do something to make you smile.

And smiling you are! says my telepathic power.

Thank you John. Thank you for being a good friend.

And, for everyone reading this right now, I have three words for you.

Always be kind.

I stole these words from John’s recent article. The link is below. I hope you will enjoy it. I did.

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