What Makes a Vibrating Cock Ring such a Pleasurable Sex Toy
The male sex toy that offers pleasure to man and woman, simultaneously.
This last year I’ve been exploring with lots of sex toys. One that conquered a special place in my collection was the cock ring. It pleasures my partner while he’s using it, and it gives me powerful orgasms.
Cock rings are a win-win sex toy.
What is a cock ring?
As the name implies, a cock ring is no less than a ring that is to be worn at the base of the cock (or dildo) No surprises here.
The cock ring delivers pressure on the base of the penis, restricting the blood flow, which will then boost the man’s erection, making the intercourse last longer (and with a stronger boner.)
This sex toy comes in different shapes, sizes and material, and it evolved from being used with the therapeutic purpose (for men with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation), to also being an erotic accessory, pleasuring both partners.
You now can find the simple ring and also several types of vibrating cock rings, some include an attachment for the balls and others additional attachments for anal play.
What does a cock ring do?
Because you wear the cock ring around the penis, it will restrain the blood in it, which, as we already see strengthens the man’s erection.
The main purpose of the cock ring is to make the erection lasts longer.
Depending on the type of cock ring you choose, you’ll have distinct sensations.
Male benefits of using a cock ring
Wearing a cock ring during sex brings several sexy benefits for men. Here are some of them:
Harder erections
Restricting the blood flow in an erect penis will offer stronger and harder erections.
Delayed orgasms (aka, long-lasting sex)
Because it compresses the base of the penis, a cock ring will delay the man’s orgasm. Meaning, the sex will last longer.
Increased stimulation
When men use cock rings, their penis becomes more sensitive.
More intense orgasms
Men who use cock rings during intercourse say they experienced bigger and full-body orgasms (my partner subscribes this.)
This can be related to the fact of they are delaying the orgasm, the orgasms are build up, slowly.
Helps men with erectile dysfunction
Men with erectile dysfunction benefit with a cock ring, because it helps them to get and support an erection.
Female benefits of using a vibrating cock ring
Despite being a sex toy used by men, the cock ring also pleasures (a lot!) the woman.
Clitoral stimulation
The vibrating cock rings have a bullet (or a rabbit) vibrator attached, that is positioned to stimulate the clit during intercourse.
Vibrating cock rings are great to give women blended orgasms — through penetrative sex and clit stimulation. What’s not to love?
Harder and longer erections
Yes, this is also a benefit for women.
Men usually orgasm faster than women. We need not only physical stimulation, but our brain also has a saying in our orgasms.
Having a long-laster and harder penis to play with, will increase the woman’s chance of having an orgasm during sex (and not after the man orgasms, as so often happens.)
Distinct sensations
Because the cock ring restricts the blood flow on the penis, it will bulge the veins in the sexual organ — which offers the woman a heightened sensory experience.
Masturbation ally
The vibrating cock ring has a bullet vibrator, so… why not using it as so?
My partner and I often use this sex toy on me as a vibrator. And let me tell you, what spectacular orgasms the little guy gives me!
What you need to know before wearing a vibrating cock ring
Cock rings come in many shapes and forms. They are made of stainless steel, leather or flexible silicone.
Types of vibrating cock rings
While a non-vibrating cock ring is, literally, a stretchy ring, a vibrating one is more complex.
Usually, a vibrating cock ring has several settings for variable speeds and vibration patterns. The settings can be adjusted on the toy or remotely.
Double looped cock rings
Some cock rings come with two loops: one for the shaft, the other for the balls.
The larger stretching ring will be worn around the testicles, which, by constricting them, will add extra stimulation.
Rabbit vibrating cock rings
Instead of the bullet vibrator, this toy has two small vibrating “rabbit ears”, that will (deliciously) stimulate the women’s clit.
There is also a mix of the above two sex toys: vibrating cock rings with a bullet vibrator and rabbit ears.
Double vibrating rings (for anal play)
While you can wear “regular” cock rings during anal sex (on the penis or a dildo), there are options specific for anal play.
You can find cock rings with an attached double penetration strap-on or a butt plug. This way, the person who’s wearing it will also receive anal stimulation. Talking about upgrading your anal play!
How to choose a cock ring
Besides the material and the type, you must consider the diameter of the cock ring.
You need to make sure you buy the right fit for you: it can’t be too tight (it can hurt you) nor too loose, because it might slip.
After you decided on the aspects above, it’s time to decide what type of cock ring you want to try. In case of doubt, try several of them! I’m sure you and your partner will have a great time exploring the pleasures.
When to put the cock ring
It’s not recommended you put the cock ring in an erect penis, it will be harder to fit it (and impossible if you have a double looped one), you might cause damage.
The best is to put it before you are fully aroused. Meaning, when the penis is flaccid or on its way to being erect.
You might want to use lube, to help the ring slide smoothly to the base of the penis.
If you’re using a double looped cock ring, you start with the testicles, inserting one and then the other on the larger loop. Then you insert the head of the penis on the smaller loop, pulling back the ring.
Best positions to make the best of the vibrating cock ring
For men, this doesn’t apply, as they will have the same kind of pleasure, independently of the position they have sex. But that’s not the same for women: the position you engage will have a powerful impact on her pleasure.
The sex positions that will deliver more pleasure to a woman are those who ensure the cock ring will make pressure on her pubic bone and clit. The best positions for that are the cowgirl (woman on the top) and the missionary.
Personally, I love to use the cock ring when I’m sitting on top of my partner, especially if we’re on the sofa. There’s something about our sitting angle that always makes me cum.
Time-limit to use your cock ring: 30 minutes
Because it restricts the blood circulation on the penis, the cock ring shouldn’t be used for longer than 30 minutes, with the risk of causing damage to your penis tissue.
When using it, even if only for a couple of minutes, if you feel numbness or pain, or your penis turning blue or feeling cold, take it off, immediately.
As with any other sex toy, use the cock ring according to the manufacturer's recommendations.
The cock ring is a damn cute and powerful sex toy
I always have a great time with it, both using it as a cock ring or as a vibrator. Often, I also use it on my partner’s nipples, it delivers a wonderful localised vibration.
Sex toys are a great way to improvise on your sex life. If you allow yourself, you can have tons of pleasure and fun using them.
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