What Is the Twin Flame Runner Most Afraid of the Twin Flame Chaser Knowing?

Twin flame runners often try to create a fake life to suppress their emotions.

When a runner's twin flame begins running, it brings with it great uncertainty. Runners find themselves in this connection. When they feel uncomfortable, they think the discomfort is because of the intensity of the connection. Something in their twin connection is overwhelming them. Twin flame runners do not realize that this is due to their blockage.

Let us now recall the twin flame feminine energy. Before embarking on the twin flame journey, feminine energies had gone through a spiritual awakening, ego destruction, and enlightenment known as the night of the soul. I don’t want to say that the twin flame feminine went through the awakening phase before the connection. Still, until the separation phase, the feminine energy knew much more about itself than the masculine energy. And the ego had destroyed the feminine energy numerous times.

For the masculine energy, the reason for breaking away from the feminine energy was much different. They were afraid that they would not be able to handle this love that was so heavy that they had never felt before. They had both spiritual and material changes to make in their lives. Masculine energy cannot handle such a big shock of reality and decides to run. But the masculine energy will realize much later that running away can never kill the love within, and that running away is just trying to hide.

In this article, we will discuss the things that runners are most afraid of being known about themselves during the Twin Flame journey.

Fragile feelings

The runner party in the twin flame journey is most afraid of their fragile and deep feelings for their twin flame. Because this is a love for which they are willing to go to any length. But they believe that knowing this is a weakness.

Runner energy can display typical avoidant attachment traits. They want an intense feeling of closeness, but they also get scared and flee when they get it. This love that grows throughout the separation begins to squeeze them in the twin flame journey. They cannot be certain that their twin flame feels this love, and this becomes their greatest fear.

Twin flame runners often try to create a fake life to suppress their emotions. They do not leave their secure environment. These may externally give the feminine energy a “don’t care” message about their twin flame. But in fact, the masculine energy has no such purpose. They are trying to prove to themselves that their lives are not destroyed by feminine energy and everything is going just fine.

The role of feminine energy is big here. The more the feminine energy works on its wounds and fragility, the more it recognizes its anxieties. This confronts the masculine energy with its own deep emotions. Because the masculine energy, seeing that the feminine energy can continue its life, realizes that it is itself that is stuck in the same place.

They suffer because of this connection.

Twin flame runners go through a lot of pain as their twin flame journey progresses. They are unable to feel this pain because they are afraid of the chaser’s influence over them. Because, even if the chaser is unaware, it has such a strong effect on the runner that it will trigger, if not initiate, the change that the runner has been avoiding for years. It is a first for the runner to consider making this change in their lives, both personally and financially.

They do not understand at first that the energy that changes them so radically is “love”. They are also afraid of being under the influence of something they cannot understand. Thoughts like my twin flame thinking I cast a spell on him at the beginning of the connection are also possible. I still laugh a little when I think about it, but I understand that his analytical mind is so afraid of this connection.

That’s why they don’t realize that it’s their ego that’s causing them pain. They are afraid of being discovered to be suffering because, as previously stated, suffering is a very fragile emotion. There is no control where there is vulnerability.

A runner’s greatest fear is losing control. They can’t stop thinking about their twin flames everywhere they go, and when they try to sleep at night, they may have nightmares about them ruining everything. And being the one to ruin everything is excruciatingly painful for runners. Because runners have spent their entire lives believing that everything is perfect. Being in a state of mind that dispels this illusion begins to transform them.

Masculine energies feel very worthless

Both masculine and feminine energy see themselves as superior to each other during the twin flame journey. While feminine energy perceives masculine energy as the savior of all, masculine energy perceives feminine energy as brighter, smarter, and more talented than itself. What both parties admire in each other is their characteristics. Only one party thinks that they do not have what the other has. Wherever we have inadequacies, this is our vulnerable point. Because we came to the twin flame journey to transform these points.

The efforts twin flames put into their internal transformation will affect each other in direct proportion. Feminine’s courageous approach to their own pain influences masculine men to look at their own unhealed wounds. But since masculine energy is always in the mistake of being strong, it accepts its shadows and pains later. And they don’t want the feminine flame to know the things they don’t like about themselves.

This behavior of the masculine occurs when the fear of worthlessness is triggered. Masculine energy thinks that feminine energy will not accept it with all its features. But feminine energy has already been trying to deal with similar wounds and traumas as masculine energy for years. Another reflection of a shadow that the masculine energy has is also present in the feminine twin flame. Accepting each other is possible by being willing to go through their own darkness.

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