What Happens When Your Twin Flame’s Conscious Self Is Not Ready For Union?

Your twin flame has intense inner work and karmic lessons to complete

We know that twin flames are born for a specific purpose. Although twin flames crave unity, they have a lot of inner work to do first. I understand that the energy of our twin flame works best for us, but the main thing is the journey of discovering what is within oneself.

Even if the twin flames complete all the work, divine order makes the final decision. The conditions under which the union will take place are communicated to our higher selves. And our higher selves begin to train us to unite. Not being able to hear the higher self is a big problem for twin flames because the voice of our higher self is designed to make us feel less alone on this journey.

We hear the voice of our mind very clearly. Nobody denies this. The voice of the mind is dominant, cold, and constantly criticizing. But few discover that there is a caring and guiding voice within. That voice is the voice of our higher self, our ideal and divine self. If you hear it, you know it will pick you up even if you fall in your way. Because the voice always talks to us.

The merging of the twin flames is also dependent on a broad enlightenment along with all the inner work done. Now you can love yourself more deeply, but your triggers continue and you have realized that you are not actually that forgiving. Each limiting belief or unenlightened part we experience in ourselves will affect our twin flame’s unpreparedness for unity. If you feel that you have come a long way in the journey but see no light of unity, then you have a way to go.

Twin flames, mostly feminine energies, think they are ready for the union. In fact, the way the universe tells us “No, you’re not ready” is pretty obvious. We still see numbers everywhere. We still think our twin flame has forgotten us. Among the twin flames approaching unity, these feelings and thoughts are over. Because twin flames who fully accept themselves are no longer waiting.

In this article, we will talk about the preparation processes of our twin flame’s consciousness for the twin flame union.

How is the consciousness of our twin flame preparing for the union?

I am currently preparing for the enlightenment phase. I can feel it very clearly in my dreams and in everything I watch. The messages still keep coming because my faith is still not enough to build an empire alone. I’m trying to build my own empire of love. Here are the things I love, myself, and my life. Staying with the flow requires it. Know the value of what you have. You can’t live for a future gift.

I think the enlightenment phase in the twin flame journey is as painful as separation. Because here we face the challenge of finally bringing into consciousness all the information we have gathered during the twin flame phases. When I understand why I am experiencing what I am experiencing, I cannot put some pieces together with the excitement of the moment.

But the enlightenment stage is a very different process, here I feel that my twin flame is working with me now. It’s like the process has been sped up. The more low-vibration energies are cleared, the faster it closes the karmic gaps between us.

The twin flame journey is a journey that begins in the spiritual realm and awakens our souls firmly. It can be moved to our 3d world later, but this is not always necessary. It can take quite a long time for the twin flame energy to come into consciousness. The divine feminine energy has a great share in the process of transferring this energy to the consciousness of the two twin flames. The more the divine feminine energy works tirelessly on its own emotions and patterns, the more this great twin flame energy is brought into the consciousness of the divine masculine.

Realizing that your twin flame’s consciousness is not ready for unity is often like turning a large mirror on ourselves. I always look at myself through a magnifying glass. I’ve been looking at my own triggers again lately. My disbelief patterns came out of my hiding place again and started telling me that I didn’t deserve to be loved. I have a few more patterns of doubt about my twin flame and myself that I can’t clear. It is out of the question for me to think about unity while these works are going on. Because I continue my duty and I cannot receive my award without submitting this project.

I am happy to know that my twin flame is doing a good job right now. How do you know this? He now takes more responsibility to improve his own life. Now I know you’re not doing your due diligence. He is redrawing the boundaries he has set for others and no longer treats everyone with infinite tolerance. I am less triggered during the day and I can reach happiness in a short time. I know it’s getting stronger as I no longer allow my mind to invade our lives.

One of the healthiest results of the twin flame journey is that both twins are stable and responsible in all aspects of their lives, emotionally, spiritually, and financially. Our emotions should not lead us astray and should not be the most important factor influencing our decisions. Or, likewise, we should not accept a job just because of the financial aspect. If this project is going to wear me out spiritually or healthily, I can find many more ways to take care of myself.

As a result, there can be many reasons why your twin flame’s consciousness is not ready for unity.

1- You expect them to come back to you without doing the necessary work on yourself

2- Your twin flame has intense inner work and karmic lessons to complete.

3- Your twin flame is aware of everything and they choose to work for themselves and agree to work with you.

If the divine feminine manages to continue on with its own life, the divine masculine will also be able to take care of itself. The keyword here is always self-acceptance. The divine feminine has to accept that they is wonderful alone and with their own energy.

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Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about the mind, hard feelings, and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams, you can start your medium subscription from this link