What Happens When the Twin Flame Chaser Stops Chasing?
When chasers stop this behavior, they first feel a huge emptiness inside, but then…
In the twin flame journey, chasing and running are natural processes. The chasing energy (this is often the divine feminine) can’t stop wondering about their twin flame. And this cycle continues for months until the pursuer turns inward and looks at their feelings. Running energy often thinks it might be possible to try to forget.
If the divine feminine stops chasing for a moment and realizes that everything flows according to divine time, whether they chase or not, this will make the self-improvement process smoother. But feminine energy twin flames are heartbroken. Moreover, the intense sadness of abandonment makes them intense stalkers. They keep chasing until the heartache inside them finally tires them out.
In the twin flame journey, when I first entered the dark night of my soul, I thought the twin flame running and chasing phase was the twin flames communicating with each other. Later I realized that this was a mental “self-discipline” period rather than a physical communication effort.
In the twin flame journey, “chaser energy” is the search process until you realize that the main mission is to focus on your development. Twin flames with chaser behavior go through long and intense processes on this journey to understand how their wounds affect them. Here they realize that chasing is just an old trauma behavior.
In the twin flame journey, the feminine energy continues to pursue the twin flame that it thinks has injured it, rather than the wound itself. The wound is internal. Therefore, there has been a separation between the twin flame of the divine feminine and its physical form. More communication will create more wounds
When the twin flame feminine stops chasing, it doesn’t happen overnight. This requires, after a long process of acceptance, a lot of renewal in the feminine’s core values and the ever-flowing emotional sea. But when the chase stops, that power will return to the divine feminine in much more creative ways.
When the divine feminine focuses on her own emotions, the presence of masculine energy does not go away but rather returns to the feminine energy as love energy in a more healing form.
The first thing to understand on the twin flame journey is what our own emotions tell us. Emotions often feel like they take orders from the mind because we can’t process them properly. You know, the mind says something, and suddenly we feel bad. This depends on how seriously we take what goes on in our minds.
During the twin flame journey, the only thing on our mind is the physical presence of our twin flame, which prevents us from communicating with their energetic presence. This delays the chaser before they realize why they need to stop chasing energy.
Our twin flame connection is there whether we think about it or not. So this is not just an energy that is there when we perceive this connection. The energy of this connection is already our essence. That’s why chasers will not need to chase when they realize their energy and work on their core self. Because everything the chasing energy is looking for is within.
When the chasing energy stops maintaining this behavior, they first feel a huge emptiness inside. When I first tried to draw my energy from my twin flame, I was trying to create a new routine in my life. There were some improvements in this routine, such as taking more time for myself and understanding my self-love.
As I spent more time with myself and valued myself as I would a friend, I felt a new and powerful energy flow in my solar plexus chakra. It was like there was a burning ball in my stomach. This new value stream did not come to me from outside. I just changed the direction of my thoughts.
It is not healing for the chasing energy to end this cycle. There is no “healing” in the twin flame journey. There is a return to one’s own version day by day. Every time we step into our version of ourselves, we shed a shell we don’t need. We release the emotional reactions we have accumulated. And we continue to manage our reactions as we wish.
What is called “healing” in the twin flame journey, but which I interpret as taking one’s power, is that the twin flame feminine no longer tries to attract the attention of the masculine energy. When the divine feminine focuses on her own emotions, the presence of masculine energy does not go away but rather returns to the feminine energy as love energy in a more healing form.
Why do we chase after our twin flame without first helping ourselves, knowing that twin flames are one soul? This is a question that the divine feminine energy must ask itself repeatedly.
Twin flame chasers stop chasing when they choose themselves. But how can feminine energy stop the chase? Of course, there is no clear order to this. One morning, tired of all the difficult emotions, crying, and thinking about the same things, the twin flame female is forced to think about herself. If we think that the subject we are least curious about is ourselves, it will be challenging to stop chasing.
There is no “healing” in the twin flame journey. There is a return to one’s own version day by day.
When the divine feminine energy stops obsessively wondering about its twin flame and turns all the energy within itself to itself, the real twin flame journey begins. We begin to move forward by combining our full potential, our dark and light features.
The best thing we can do for ourselves on the twin flame journey is to not demand the love of our twin flame from the outside. Every second we look for this love outside, we are wasting our energy. But we came to this world to reveal the wisdom of our soul and live the life we desire. For this, all we have to do is point the mirror at ourselves.
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Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about the mind, hard feelings, and self-love. Thank you for taking the time to read my article. If this article was useful to you, I would be happy and motivated if you applauded.
