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Summary

The author reflects on their personal relationship with food, its role in family traditions, social gatherings, and health consciousness.

Abstract

The article "What Does Food Mean to Me?" delves into the author's evolving connection with food, from childhood lessons of gratitude and the significance of not wasting food, to the enjoyment of buffets and cultural celebrations. The piece highlights how food transcends mere sustenance, becoming a central part of family traditions, social interactions, and milestone events. As the author matured, their perspective on food shifted to include its role in health and well-being, prompting a more conscientious approach to dietary choices. The narrative also touches on the act of sharing food as a form of gift-giving and appreciation, while acknowledging the challenges faced when dietary restrictions necessitate a bland diet. The author concludes by emphasizing the multifaceted meanings of food and invites readers to contemplate their own relationship with what they eat.

Opinions

  • The author was taught to appreciate food and not waste it, recognizing the privilege of having access to abundant food sources.
  • Food is seen as both a means of survival for the less fortunate and a source of enjoyment and celebration in the author's life.
  • Regular family outings to various restaurants, including Hometown Buffet, Chinese restaurants, Souplantation, and Korean BBQ, underscore food's role in creating family memories and traditions.
  • In the author's college and post-college years, food became more than sustenance; it was integral to social life, used to celebrate important events, and served as a means of expressing care and appreciation through gift-giving.
  • The author acknowledges that certain health conditions can make food bland and restrictive, yet there is still an appreciation for taste and the temptation of less nutritious foods.
  • With age, the author has become more health-conscious, comparing food labels to make better dietary choices, recognizing that one cannot eat without considering the consequences.
  • The author believes that food universally holds meaning, regardless of individual circumstances, and encourages readers to reflect on their personal connection to food.

What Does Food Mean to Me?

My Relationship With Food

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Growing up, my parents taught me not to waste food.

I should be grateful and eat everything on my plate, because there are hungry children in third world countries.

Those who are less fortunate don’t have that luxury. Food to them is a means for survival.

I’ve been fortunate to be able to eat to live and to live to eat. I got to eat at buffets and restaurants.

Food became a part of my family’s tradition or celebration.

Almost every month there was a birthday or holiday like Lunar New Year, Easter, Thanksgiving, or Christmas to celebrate with food.

In the early 2000's, I remember almost every week I would eat with my family or extended family at either Hometown Buffet or a Chinese restaurant.

Kung Pao Chicken — Photo Credit: CatHERine

Then, we started going to Souplantation, and I ate a lot of muffins and chicken noodle soups.

In 2017 and 2018, we went out and ate Korean BBQ frequently.

Korean BBQ — Photo Credit: CatHERine

During my college and post college years, the meaning of food has evolved to something more.

Food was part of a social gathering outside of school and work to hang out with classmates and coworkers and maybe to celebrate an important event like a birthday, wedding, or graduation.

Buying food or drinks was an act of gift giving to express that one person cared for or appreciated another person.

Food can be bland and limiting when your body is sensitive to certain foods.

Food with little or no nutritional value can be tasty and tempting.

Lately, when I go to the supermarket, I’ve been comparing food labels and trying to opt for the healthier alternative, because I am not as young as I was, and I cannot eat as much as I want or whatever I want without repercussions.

Key Message: Regardless of the circumstance, food has meaning.

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