What Do You Mean Not Everybody Giggles While Orgasming?
The gifts laughter has brought me
My laughter tends to get me into trouble. Oh, don’t worry! I’m adorable when I guffaw; it’s a mix of joy and musicality. Add to that, if you tell me a really good joke, I might throw in a bit of snorting at the end. It’s so cute.
However, on occasion, it comes when it shouldn’t. I have tried to control this wild cackle of mine, and sometimes I succeed…others, not so much.
For example, for reasons I cannot understand, sexual arousal tends to turn me into a giggling mess, a fact that doesn’t always work in my favor.
Arousal makes me too giggly.
Sex gives me a severe case of the chuckles. Really, I can’t stop. The more aroused I am, the more difficult it becomes to contain them, especially if there’s some nervousness too.
Now, for me, it just feels like fun. However, this can prove to be very confusing for the person on the other side of my pussy. After all, most people expect moans and groans once things get going…not giggles.
Hearing your partner snicker during sex can be adorable. You know, a bit of laughter here and there is a sign of intimacy. However, hearing nothing but an endless stream of LOLs might make you wonder whether or not you are doing something wrong. I can only imagine the inner dialogue, “Goddamn it, I thought I was tongue fucking her, but it seems I’m tickling her.”
The solution? Communication.
I have prepared a little speech.
To help deal with this matter, I have decided to prep a little speech. It’s just a brief message to avoid any sort of confusion.
“Hey, you know? When I get horny, I tend to laugh. It has nothing to do with you…I mean, yes, it does because you are the one bringing the nice feelings. Please, do understand the giggles are a good thing. They will fade away as we get to know each other better, and my anxiety dies down. Okay?”
Usually, that does the trick. Just a bit of healthy dialogue, and we can carry on with the sexy fun. However, on occasions, a guy who is insecure in himself gets the wrong message and, despite my reassurances, assumes I’m just making fun of him.
Happily, confident guys end up adoring my sexy giggles and see them as another way I communicate my level of excitement.
Science holds the answers.
In my search for the truth, I asked St. Google to help me. I found a report proving that some serious scientists are on the quest to discover everything they can about peri-orgasmic phenomena. These are “unusual physical or psychological symptoms subjectively experienced by some individuals as part of the orgasm response, distinct from the usual or normal orgasm response.”
Cue scientific quote in italics:
Case studies of peri-orgasmic phenomena were reviewed, including cases describing cataplexy (weakness), crying, dysorgasmia, dysphoria, facial and/or ear pain, foot pain, headache, pruritus, laughter, panic attack, post-orgasm illness syndrome, seizures, and sneezing.
Mmm, it seems I’m not the only one dealing with this kind of issue. Maybe the notion of a “normal” orgasm response is just an illusion.
For a moment there, I considered buying the above scientific report to indulge in all of the information. However, I’ll wait until this article has made a gazillion bucks so I can write a sequel.
The gifts laughter has brought me.
I know my sensual snickering is not something to be ashamed of. Instead, it is a mix of nervousness and horniness finding their way out of my body.
I guess you could say it helps me measure who is a suitable sexual partner for me. Do they mock me and try to embarrass me? They are out.
But when they are willing to engage in healthy conversations to improve the sexual chemistry, when they are open to learning from me and letting me get to know them, that’s when I’m confident the sex will be good.
After all, few things are hotter than a partner who finds joy in my laughter and is more than ready to find the best way for us to have some fun. Lots of fun.
Now, if you excuse me, I’m off to indulge in some giggles…