What Can We Learn From the Push-Pull Cycles on the Twin Flame Journey?
Knowing which cycle we are stuck in is the first step towards a twin-flame union.
The Twin Flame Journey is here to break down the stereotypical thoughts we have created about everything within us. Twin flame energy aims to break down all concepts and assumptions about people and liberate us from our patterns. That’s why the Twin Flame Journey treads the fine line between the real and the fake.
Our perspective on the world and even on ourselves is an illusion. When we wake up from this illusion, we realize that we don’t even know ourselves. Who are we? We have somehow come this far, but what is our purpose? To whom does our self belong, which communicates with people, enters into relationships, deals with difficulties, and is happy? When we realize that we do not know ourselves at all, the behaviors that we have brought to this day do not belong to us. It’s just a mask. Our current behaviors change just like our clothes. When we don’t feel like we belong anywhere or in any environment, we wake up from our identity illusion.
Before we stepped into our spiritual awakening, we were puppets controlled by our minds. Because we identified ourselves with our mind, our mind was controlling us. We were not our authentic selves behind the wheel. We had made a system that produced only thoughts the manager of our existence. Therefore, we had some limited judgments about the world. The reason we couldn’t expand and relax was because we wanted to fit our limitless existence into a small box.
In this article, we will talk about how we can use repetitive cycles more beneficially in the Twin Flame journey.
The biggest reason why we cannot improve ourselves is…
There are some recurring cycles in our lives. The purpose of the twin flame journey is to end these limited cycles. The reason for the cycles in our lives that we cannot close is that we do not get passing grades in these courses that we constantly take exams for. In other words, there are still issues within our cycles that we have not learned, and we insistently try to continue without overcoming these issues.
I learn a lot from the repetitive cycles in my life. When an ego problem, a fear or an obsession that I thought I had overcome returns, of course, I feel sad, as if it will collapse. But there are other things I know now.
There are a few reasons why things return in my twin flame cycles.
- By working more on the issues in the returning cycles, you can realize other shadow sides of yourself and experience greater enlightenment. Yes, you have gone through this issue and it no longer affects you enough to stop your life, but getting a 60 on an exam is not the same as getting a 90. So, if the universe sends us some subjects, it wants us to earn a higher degree and improve our lives through these subjects.
- If a cycle doesn’t end, I find that I suppress the issue here and act as if it doesn’t affect me. If a sentence from your twin flame comes to your mind and still triggers you enough to make you cry, you can’t act like you’ve got everything figured out here. You should find the ego distress that bothers you the most in their sentence and work on it.
- In twin flame cycles, the universe often presents some tests. It presents us with various versions of the same subject. If you have managed to get over an issue that bothers you, the same issue will not bother you in any other way. If the changed version of the same issue bothers you, it means you have not overcome that issue.
The important thing in twin flame cycles is to heal the issue we are having trouble with. I had some subconscious thoughts that gave me fear. The universe continued to present these issues to me as channeled messages with various people. Even though the form of the messages changed, they continued to affect me in every way.
We must not forget that thoughts create our emotions. A thought that affects it is at the core of any emotion. That’s why you need to look at the thoughts and behaviors that bother you the most in your twin flame cycles.
What are the issues that mirror our twin flame behavior to us? What can we most fail to accept about ourselves? Everything we cannot accept will continue to come to us in various emotional and human forms, because what we have to transform is within us.
Our twin flame cycles will not end unless we acknowledge and transform the issues that bother us the most. At every point we think we have transformed, it will appear before us in different ways. There are still things we haven’t learned about these issues. We are persistently trying to graduate without taking these subjects. The universe is a careful teacher. Thinking that we can deceive him is only the job of our ego mind.
Here are some things I do to close our twin flame cycles more easily
- Do not resist any emotions. Even if these emotions are very scary or worrying, they will grow even bigger if you ignore them. Try to get the point that the emotion is trying to convey. Why do you feel so sad, helpless, or exhausted? If you say you don’t know, you are in your mind. Yes, the mind doesn’t know anything about why you feel this way. Your heart knows.
- Examine your way of thinking. What kind of thoughts go through your mind on any subject? Our thoughts determine our energy in daily life. Where thoughts are, attention is there, which largely determines how we feel. When you examine your way of thinking, you find what you don’t want to do and how you don’t want to do it.
- The mind says, “I don’t feel like doing anything today.” The mind wants laziness, the mind always undermines our productivity with excuses. Studying these will make a big difference to our long-term development. Because your past fears, concerns, and experiences have shaped your current way of thinking. The way you think now continues to shape your future. Don’t let your future self be influenced by your past self.
- Keeping track of where your thoughts go also tells you where your triggers appear. If you have an untrained mind, your thoughts will fly here and there and there will be no unity among these thoughts. This is equivalent to everything that comes to your mind having an impact on you. You are more influenced than usual by other people’s thoughts. You give your precious energy to every thought that passes through your own mind. It is not possible to think about “why” each of our thoughts is there. Thoughts come and go. Realizing their volatile nature saves us from a great loss of energy.
The reason why twin flame cycles continue is that we don’t stop checking and looking for evidence of everything we experience. If we can’t even have full control over our own thoughts in life, what can we control? The twin flame journey is a journey of believing, trusting and experiencing unconditionally in ourselves and the universe. Anything we do outside of these emotions will distance us from our true essence and prolong our current cycle.
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Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about the mind, hard feelings, and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams. Thank you for taking the time to read my article.
