How Do You Know If You Are “Enlightened” on the Twin Flame Journey?
Enlightenment is not about coming to unity, but about truly understanding yourself.

Have you ever wondered why twin flames are so rare? I thought a lot. A person must have a powerful soul to take on the twin flame mission. The fact that the soul has many experiences and wisdom by coming to the world many times gives the soul more experience and insight. On Earth, we find that inexperienced souls have a much lower level of consciousness. As a human being, our purpose in coming to this world is to improve ourselves and our souls.
Someone who has been able to educate themself and their entire egoic being enables much more light to emerge. It increases luminous, high-vibration energies. That’s why Twin Flame Enlightenment is a true inner journey.
When people start to know themselves, they wake up from a big dream by becoming aware of themselves. This also means getting closer to your soul, your essence. Becoming a twin flame is one way to bring yourself back to your core. But this journey better explains moving from duality to unity because it identifies with a person with another will. We think that our distraction on this journey is the “physical” presence of our twin flame. But actually, it is our ego that distracts us.
On the twin flame journey, our ego numbs us to our pain, and our weaknesses, to prevent us from going deep enough within ourselves. We think our thoughts are our reality. We think that dealing with physical things will distract us from our real problems. But they are all temporary painkillers. The root of the pain is still within us, and it grows stronger every day, waiting for the moment to attack us.
In this article, we will talk about the stages of enlightenment on the path to the Twin Flame Union.
What does it take to become enlightened on the twin flame journey?
In the twin flame journey, enlightenment is born in its strongest form when there is no light around. To reach this enlightenment, it is necessary to go through a lot of shadow work and low-frequency emotions such as shame, fear, and guilt. Enlightenment is a little light we find after going through the dark night of the soul many times and drowning in the darkest parts of ourselves. Over time, this light becomes our biggest sun, our source of energy.
Being able to sit with our dark emotions, as well as feeling them, is the first step to enlightenment. Most people stay at this stage. When people talk about their emotions in therapy sessions, they have difficulty staying in that emotion. Because telling a memory brings out an emotion. We have difficulty speaking and staying in the moment because we experience those emotions over and over again while explaining something. It is not difficult to reveal our emotions. The important thing is to walk through that feeling as if you were walking in a dark tunnel.
I have been walking through the issues that cause me the most pain in the twin flame journey for a long time. At first, this pain was as intense as walking on fire or touching something hot. To avoid feeling this pain, I always walked around the things that scared me the most. But when I realized that doing so increased my obsessive behavior even more, it was time to jump into my ocean of fear. Of course, there is a lot of pain and things I ignore here. So I swallowed a lot of water at first. But I didn’t let my past pain swallow me.
The first thing to consider in twin flame enlightenment is to not allow the effects of your pain to burn your current existence. You left that pain behind. Although the effects of pain can still linger to this day, you went through that pain and are much stronger now.
When we separate from our twin flame, we experience a mental breakdown, and this breakdown brings us from physical pain to emotional understanding
The phase that not only twin flames but all people have the most difficulty in is when they confront their darkness and pain. Since this confrontation was postponed, it has now grown too much and has become even more frightening than before. It is the mind that scares us with our pain. Because we have never tried to understand our feelings and fears. We are always afraid of what we don’t know. If we do not know our mind and emotions, we are now afraid of them, too. We are afraid of our thoughts, which cause us emotional torment every day.
Fear is an important part of the twin flame awakening. Fear is there because it continues to eat away at us. After all, we are strangers to ourselves. As we begin to understand our emotions and inner world, fear will begin to lose its effect. As our hearts are enlightened, fear loses its ability to thrive. Fear only survives in darkness and the unknown. This is why we feel relieved once we do something we fear so much. We see that it is not that scary. However since uncertainty does not turn into an experience, it will always continue to carry some fear.
The relationship we try to maintain on the twin flame journey is always the one with our twin flame. We are so unsuccessful in our relationship with ourselves that we think we will only feel good if we get along with someone else. Unless we understand ourselves, our relationship with our twin flame becomes worse. Because we have failed in mental and emotional communication with ourselves. Then, our physical communication with our twin flame weakens after a while. Unless we understand ourselves, we cannot understand our twin flame.
There are many layers to Twin Flame Enlightenment. When we separate from our twin flame, we experience a mental breakdown, and this breakdown brings us from physical pain to emotional understanding. As we reach towards ourselves from the bottom, we look at everything we have accumulated in our entire existence, with our light and darkness. Physical union is the final stage in twin flame enlightenment. Because until we come to physically become one, we need to look at other areas within ourselves.
Being spiritually sound means not believing the stories of the mind. When you realize that you are the main manager of the mind, your mind starts to work with you. After making the mind, which is our biggest blockage, a loyal assistant to ourselves, you can now approach your emotional burdens more compassionately. You need to save yourself from sabotaging by cooperating with your mind.
The mind exists only to think. The ego is only there to protect us. When these two think they can rule our lives, it is captivity for humanity. Human is a spiritual and emotional being. Thinking of ourselves as minds dulls the nurturing parts of ourselves that are spiritual and emotional.
Twin flame enlightenment will reach its highest point when you break down all the traps in your physical life, and when you identify with your spiritual being, spiritually and emotionally. This is where the twin flame union takes place. When we become one with our entire being, we experience a twin flame union.
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Hi, I’m Bensu. I write about the mind, hard feelings, and self-love. If you enjoyed my articles about surpassing yourself and achieving your dreams. Thank you for taking the time to read my article.
