Unmasking False Notions Of Love
Distinguishing the genuine article from its counterfeits leads to fulfillment

It’s absolutely essential we differentiate between real love and its deceptive counterparts, foremost among which, is infatuation.
Even though it can produce sparks that mimic love’s intensity, infatuation, is usually based on idealized projections and not true understanding. As such it rarely survives the passage of time and level-headed explorations of shared values and character.
Another scoundrel is dependency which is characterized by an emotional neediness stemming complete reliance on a partner for happiness. Real love should allow for your personal growth and nurturing of your identity alongside the relationship.
Your guiding light
Know that at the heart of real love lies, self-love. It’ll empower you to see past infatuation’s allure and dependency’s pitfalls, and with self-love you’ll be able recognize and nurture genuine connections. And you wont settle for less!
So, cultivate and practice self-love and it’ll be your guiding light toward:
- healthy relationships;
- preserving your autonomy;
- avoiding disillusionment;
- reducing emotional turmoil in your life; and
- finding long-lasting fulfillment.





