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d="7dfd">The third reason is I cannot fake it at all. I am not a happy soul. I have been sharing stories of my personal experiences with all of you. Half of the healing has already been done. Trust me. Acceptance of everything that goes inside my head and writing it here has healed me in many ways. I am thinking of taking a different route rather I am seeing it taking the shape of the brave journey once again.</p><p id="b940">Fourth, if you always have something great to share with me, please ignore to approach me. I belong to people but only when I see their miseries and pain. I cannot be there for your happiness but I will be there for you when you are disappointed and need someone to hear you out. I am not going to ignore your hurt because it needs more attention than applause that millions of others could get to you.</p><p id="d861">Fifth, I am thankful for my depression and sensitivity towards others else I wouldn’t have been a writer. Being with someone as a wife or mother could be a great feeling but I always wanted my identity to be something beyond the confinement of social culture. So here I am as an author and a person who doesn’t hesitate while writing her heart out. I have become fearless with time, and I will be dying like a courageous soul.</p><p id="61c2">Also, I equally detest people who are adding comments like don’t be a crying baby, have some faith, and blah blah. Who the hell are you to tell someone about their miseries when you aren’t even behaving like a human being? Please stop doing this thing right away because that shows me you need therapy. Moreover, someone else would go through it because of you.</p><p id="070d">I follow a strong mantra in life. And that is you don’t have to hide behind a fake smile to crack a conversation with me. Write out to me what kills you from inside and we may turn out to be best friends. My time is precious and I cherish real conversations. I intend to hear you out because your story could heal me too.</p><p id="0456">I hope my article makes sense here to those who are also sailing in the same boat of life as me.</p><p id="1286">Thank you so much for reading my words. I hope you find comfort in them.</p><p id="7311">Read more from me:</p><div id="a025" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/next-time-64e4b7474027">

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Too Positive Is Too Fake

Inspired from true events

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A few days ago I apologized to one of my sweetest friends about not being able to write to her consistently because I was down with depression and anxiety. I was thrilled to hear her words.

She said, ‘Just be real because too positive is too fake’ and since that time I knew I wanted to write about it.

If any of you are reading this article because you are seeking inner peace please stay away. I am not peaceful from inside all the time, so I cannot preach to you the same. For that, you can go ahead and be in touch with a tarot card reader. Here is the link to my article.

Do you want to know why I believe this theory of too positive is too fake just like my friend?

Well, problems don’t ever end in life. I would rather concentrate on being realistic and expecting the worst in life while preparing myself for the best. This way I wouldn’t be lying to myself which is far more important than gaining the confidence of anyone else in this universe.

My second reason is I cannot ignore my consciousness because it tells me everything with the right intention and I ruin it by giving more chances to people than they truly deserve. I don’t want to ignore that voice. If it is telling me to throw you out of my life I would do that. That’s my way to deal with a negative situation or a person for not losing my sanity again.

The third reason is I cannot fake it at all. I am not a happy soul. I have been sharing stories of my personal experiences with all of you. Half of the healing has already been done. Trust me. Acceptance of everything that goes inside my head and writing it here has healed me in many ways. I am thinking of taking a different route rather I am seeing it taking the shape of the brave journey once again.

Fourth, if you always have something great to share with me, please ignore to approach me. I belong to people but only when I see their miseries and pain. I cannot be there for your happiness but I will be there for you when you are disappointed and need someone to hear you out. I am not going to ignore your hurt because it needs more attention than applause that millions of others could get to you.

Fifth, I am thankful for my depression and sensitivity towards others else I wouldn’t have been a writer. Being with someone as a wife or mother could be a great feeling but I always wanted my identity to be something beyond the confinement of social culture. So here I am as an author and a person who doesn’t hesitate while writing her heart out. I have become fearless with time, and I will be dying like a courageous soul.

Also, I equally detest people who are adding comments like don’t be a crying baby, have some faith, and blah blah. Who the hell are you to tell someone about their miseries when you aren’t even behaving like a human being? Please stop doing this thing right away because that shows me you need therapy. Moreover, someone else would go through it because of you.

I follow a strong mantra in life. And that is you don’t have to hide behind a fake smile to crack a conversation with me. Write out to me what kills you from inside and we may turn out to be best friends. My time is precious and I cherish real conversations. I intend to hear you out because your story could heal me too.

I hope my article makes sense here to those who are also sailing in the same boat of life as me.

Thank you so much for reading my words. I hope you find comfort in them.

Read more from me:

Gurpreet Dhariwal is the author of “My Soul Rants: Poems of a Born Spectator.” Her eBook is now available at Google PlayStore, Amazon, and Kindle. Connect with Gurpreet on LinkedIn, Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, or Youtube

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