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The web content discusses the societal pressure to constantly anticipate the next holiday or event, advocating for the importance of slowing down and appreciating the present moment.

Abstract

The article titled "The Pitfalls of Rushing" reflects on the rapid passage of time, exacerbated by the relentless push from advertisers and marketers to prepare for upcoming seasons and holidays. It humorously points out the absurdity of seasonal promotions occurring out of sync with the actual time of year, such as seeing Halloween decorations before summer has begun. The author emphasizes the need to resist this rush and savor life's moments, suggesting simple acts like drying hands properly, pausing at a yellow light, or enjoying a latte without haste. The piece concludes by reminding readers that time moves forward regardless of external pressures and encourages them to follow the author for more contemplative stories.

Opinions

  • The author critiques the commercial practice of prematurely promoting seasonal events, which contributes to a blurred perception of time passing quickly.
  • There is a call to action for individuals to engage in mindful activities, such as meditation or observing nature, to counteract the stress of constant anticipation.
  • The piece suggests that society's focus on planning and saving (both money and time) has led to a neglect of personal well-being and sanity.
  • The author expresses a yearning for a culture that values enjoying the present over preparing for the future.
  • A gentle humor is used to underscore the disconnect between societal expectations and the natural progression of seasons and holidays.

Tomorrow becomes yesterday

The Pitfalls of Rushing

Slow down and smell whatever turns you on.

Photo by Richard Haddeman on Unsplash

It’s no wonder the years are going by so fast.

Advertisers, marketers, promoters, Hallmark, they are constantly pushing us into the next season.

Mattresses haven’t even gone on sale yet for Memorial Day, signifying the start of summer, and the college across from my house has a banner promoting Fright Nights.

I still need to get a new bathing suit (which could a frightful sight) for my first swim of the season. But seriously? They are referencing a holiday which takes place when the leaves change colors and the public pools haven’t even opened up yet. .

Every year is the same.

The holiday lights are still on their way to the garage, and the stores are covered with red hearts and candy.

The minute Cupid leaves the building, it’s time to celebrate our mothers and then our fathers.

While fathers are still wondering why more money is spent on gifts for the child-bearing sex, a bigger, grander party, complete with fireworks is in the making.

In the heat of it all, before the last burger is flipped on Labor Day, costume stores pop up all over the place.

And then it’s a straight shot to the Turkey, followed by holiday lights, gifts, latkes and Santa Claus.

What happened to enjoying the moment?

I know there needs to be some planning. College applications need to be in by a certain date. Taxes filed on time. Preparing for meetings and exams. Or planning for a dinner party.

Buy now in order to save..save…save.

What about saving our sanity by slowing down?

Take those thirty seconds to dry you hands under the bathroom air dryer, instead of wiping your hands on your pants as you leave the bathroom.

Stop at a yellow light instead of speeding through.

Drink your latte while sitting in one spot instead of rushing down the block to the next meeting.

Meditate in your favorite spot.

Enjoy long walks.

Sit on bench and watch a bug crawl.

Do nothing.

Tomorrow becomes yesterday, without any help from the media.

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