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The Number 1 Skill You Need To Create The Life Of Your Dreams

How boring actions create an exciting life

Photo by Fabio Comparelli on Unsplash

Hard choices, easy life. Easy choices, hard life.

In this day and age, we are constantly distracted. We are 24/7 just one click away from the next dopamine high.

I have just had to fight with this again. I wanted to start writing the last 30 minutes but somehow a new interesting Youtube video or a notification on Instagram kept getting in the way.

I had a choice: do the easy thing and keep procrastinating or make the hard choice and get myself to work.

It is a choice between what feels good at that moment and what is rather boring at that moment. The latest exciting Youtube videos are of course more exciting at that moment and give more dopamine.

But it’s also the choice between what moves me forward and what keeps me from fulfilling my potential and achieving what I’m capable of.

Photo by Avel Chuklanov on Unsplash

To live an exciting life full of freedom, I have to be successful and earn money. To achieve this, I have to get work done, which means doing things that might seem boring at the moment. In other words, I have to delay gratification.

However, if I constantly remain a slave to my pleasures, which means I continue to stay on Youtube, Instagram, Tik Tok, or porn sites instead of actually working, this would just plunge me into a boring life. I would be forced to work in a job I don’t want to do and I would hardly have any free time. My life in general would be boring.

These are exactly the things that have just crossed my mind and motivated me to write this article. In short, this is the realization that came to me:

To be able to live an exciting life you have to be able to do the boring things. Conversely, a search for the next quick high condemns you to a boring life. The ability to delay gratification is essential if you want to be successful.

Thanks for reading!

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