The Most Wanted Female Body Type. What It Is and Why You Shouldn’t Care
Science says so, who are we to deny it?
We all want to be sexy. Desired. Craved.
It’s not just you. It’s your neighbor, your mom, me, all of us.
It’s in our DNA. It makes your cells shiver and your atoms tremble, while an intoxicating cocktail of peptides and adrenaline rushes into your bloodstream.
The phenomenal rush of being wanted.
And of course, it’s just natural to wonder — in terms of looks, what makes you the most wanted? What is the most attractive body type?
There have been a lot of studies on the subject because let’s face it, who doesn’t want to know what’s considered hot worldwide?
I will cite here the study conducted by William D. Lassek while affiliated with University of California, Santa Barbara. You can read the study in all its vastness here or you can read the very concise summary in my article.
Until the great reveal, however, let’s go through a list of what’s more important than having the ideal body shape.
What people (of any gender) prefer in another human being:
- being treated with respect
- being seen, heard, understood
- a healthy outlook on life
- the ability to overcome life’s hurdles
- being a caring human being — to them, the offspring, family, the waiter, etc.
- being self-sufficient
- feeling like they are needed, appreciated, loved
- the freedom to be themselves.
I selected just a just a few of a plethora of reasons why you shouldn’t care that you aren’t the ideal body type.
Does it help, though? Of course! It helps tremendously.
It helps with the admirative looks, it helps with your self-esteem, it helps with your health.
It also helps with being drooled over by every pre-pubescent boy and being whistled at by an entire construction site of men. If you’re into that.
Also, it helps with being used for your body, looked at as a sexual object, and being the subject of endless wet dreams. Again, if you’re into that.
These are the perks that come with the territory of being wanted. It’s not just the good ones that want you. It’s all of them.
Desire doesn’t discriminate. Choose your struggle wisely.
In case you still decided you want to know if you’ve got what it takes to rule over loins and the reptilian brain, the study is quite extensive.
Here’s the essence:
Hip to waist ratio is key, as long as the body mass index is low.
Translated into human words, that means thin waist, wide(r) hips, and low body fat.
As an ideal example, for a 166 cm height, weight should be 54 kg, BMI — 19.6, bust — 86 cm, waist — 67, hip — 93.
Translated into American: as an ideal example, for a 5.5 height, weight should be 119 lbs., BMI — 19.6, bust — 34 in., waist — 26, hip — 37.
And for the big reveal, the most wanted body type is… insert drumroll here… the hourglass figure!!!
If you have it, congratulations!
Please be responsible and use it wisely. Don’t be strutting your hourglass all over town making us all weak now. With great power comes great responsibility.
If you don’t have it, please refer back to why you shouldn’t care.
There’s so much more to life than the ideal body shape, so much more to love than a thin waist, so much more to desire than wide hips.
Your body is just the cherry on the cake of your heart, mind and soul. It’s eye catching, but not long lasting.
Bake a glorious cake to put that magnificent cherry on!
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