The Magic of Asking Empowering Questions (EQ)Rather Than Worrying or doubting

Sit and let the answer come to you — Trust

In this article, I desire to share the power of waiting for the answer to come to you rather than acting on impulse when it is hard to find a solution to a worrisome situation.

Like this man sitting and pondering about a solution in the picture above, you can also do the same to attract the answers to your worries or doubts.

With spirituality comes the teaching of waiting for things to happen rather than pushing too much. You become more like water that takes all forms and changes forms when exposed to certain conditions.

In addition, water remains water in other forms by adapting to the environment it is placed in and being patient while transforming forms (Water, ice, mist). Our body is made of 70% water, which gives you the ability to be like water.

Adapt and transform appropriately to your environment, situations, or state of mind. Become life water, and you will always progress toward your goals.

Four negative feelings that transmute when using Empowering Questions to find a positive outcome:

1- Instead of worrying, ask if you can overcome it, and an example will come to you to show you that others went through the same situation and overcome it.

When worries slide in, it is crucial to look for examples of people who went through a similar path you are trying to take or going through to give you courage on your own path. Worries are a fear of the future, but remember that the future is created in the present. You create with your thoughts, emotions, actions, expectations, and faith. Ask the right empowering question, and you will be surprised that the answer to your worries was closer than you think.

2 — Instead of doubting, ask the empowering question to know if you have the ability to overcome the obstacles that are making you doubt, and it shall be shown to you.

When doubt takes over, it is imperative that you take the time to evaluate the cause of the doubts. It is usually the product of a feeling of inability to succeed, or it is caused by a lack of skill in the area you wish to overcome. Doubts come when you are unsure of the steps to take or the path you are already on. So, ask the empowering question about the reason for your doubts and set yourself to overcome the source of the doubts by learning new skills, reevaluating, re-plan, or pausing for a bit of bit for clarity to come back. Waiting for the answer is one of the most efficient ways to overcome doubts. Why? because life will show you that you can overcome your doubts through people’s messages, something you see on TV or listen to on the radio.

3 — Instead of fear, ask yourself why do you fear that person or situation and listen to your thoughts. They will tell you why you are afraid.

When fear creeps in, it is important that you understand that fear is here to tell you to prepare better. Fear is equal to the word protection. It is not intended to stop you from progressing, but to allow you to use your discernment abilities to reevaluate before acting again. When you have a fear, take some time off to review the past experiences or the sources (person, events, story) that created that fear. Then ask the empowering question to reveal the truth behind your fear. When that answer comes, you will know that the fear is not meant to harm you, but to tell you to prepare better and act with caution. Caution doesn’t mean paralysis or taking the other way around, but it asking you to still act with discernment.

4 — Instead of assuming the worst, ask the empowering question for the ideal opportunity to understand what you don’t know, and an opportunity will arise for you to understand.

When the preconceived idea of knowing about someone else comes to mind, it is always good to focus on observing their action and asking a direct question rather than assuming what you don’t know. When the preconceived idea about knowing what the outcome of a situation will be negative, pause and remember that your expectation is what will happen. An Expectation is a powerful manifestation technique. When you let your expectation become clouded by negative assumptions, pause and notice if your expectation is negative in nature or positive in intent. Then, change it to a positive expectation, and prepare for what to come with still the positive expectation. And you shall be surprised by the outcome.

Those are experiences I went through that led me to that overstanding. All negative feelings can be overcome by always asking why they are happening to you, then pausing a little for the answer to come to you. The more you do so, the better you will become good at understanding the real nature and intention of any negative feelings you have.

Become an expert at asking Empowering questions (EQ) in any area of your life, and you will be surprised by the magic those questions hold in store for you. By asking, just like a prayer, your spiritual team has the ability to act on your behalf to bring the right answers. Remember the universe / God sees all and remember all.

I leave you in peace and love. Go forth, rejoice in the overderstanding that you can overcome worries, doubt, fear, and negative assumptions by understanding the nature of your negative emotion by asking Empowering questions that will lead you to clarity.

Bonaventure Barry

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