The Jollification of You
How do we find our joy as women?
Jollification is such a jovial word.
It is defined as merrymaking or a lively celebration with others. But it’s not a term used in everyday language.
I was in Canada visiting with my dad when he used the word in reference to a group of women applauding and hugging one another for some unknown accomplishment at a local park. As he used the word more than once during my trip. It made me think about jollification and women. And how we should commemorate our achievements and not wait for others to do it for us.
Let’s call it “The Jollification of You!”
You may be a low-key person who dislikes drawing attention to yourself. Your days are filled with too many responsibilities to think about the jollification of anything.
But why not? What’s wrong with finding time to recognize and appreciate you? I’m not saying you should walk down the street with a megaphone saying, “Hey world! See me! Love me! Celebrate me!” But it’s important to treasure the remarkable individual you are.
How do I do that?
Did I get your attention? Are you contemplating the best ways to honor yourself?
No need to overthink it. It doesn’t have to be a parade (though it sounds fun!) It can be as simple as saying a positive daily mantra or being consistent with self-care. Treat yourself to dinner or an ice cream cone. Go to a play or a movie. Buy that snazzy outfit or those colorful leggings that make you smile during Zumba class. Visit a spa or do your own aromatherapy treatment at home.
Check out a bucket list destination or enjoy a day trip. Purchase those tickets to see your favorite band in concert or pull out a lawn chair and immerse yourself in the sounds of opera or jazz in your backyard or at a community garden.
The options are endless.
Stand up and applaud yourself.
There are so many ways to pat yourself on the back. No need to wait for someone else to give you your props. Be proud of all your success. The things that took so much courage to do. Of the words that were so difficult to say or to write. The steps you have taken to make that significant change in your life.
Hug yourself tight and know that you are worth it. Embrace the jollification of you!
Until next time, extraordinary ladies!
Sharon-
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Sharon Mitchell is from Richmond, Virginia, but was born and raised in The Big Apple. She’s a freelance creative writer actively working towards publishing her first novel.
