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Summary

The article discusses the misconception that vaginal tightness is an indicator of sexual quality, emphasizing that the pleasure of sexual experiences is not determined by the size of the vagina but by the sexual skills and emotional connection between partners.

Abstract

The author of the article shares personal experiences to debunk the myth that a tight vagina equates to better sex. They highlight that vaginal size is a matter of genetics and not a result of sexual activity. The article argues that sexual compatibility and technique are far more important than the tightness of a vagina, citing examples of satisfying sexual encounters with partners of varying vaginal sizes. It also touches on the fallacy that a loose vagina is a sign of overuse, explaining that normal sexual activity does not permanently alter vaginal tightness. The author concludes that love and skillful use of one's anatomy are the true determinants of good sex.

Opinions

  • The size of a vagina does not dictate sexual satisfaction; it's a genetic trait, much like penis size.
  • The myth that a loose vagina results from overuse is unfounded; vaginas are resilient and do not stretch permanently due to average sexual activity.
  • Sexual encounters with a size mismatch can lead to discomfort and less frequent sexual desire, regardless of tightness.
  • Emotional connection, such as being in love, significantly enhances sexual experiences.
  • Skills, such as knowledge of tantric sex and sexual expertise, contribute more to sexual pleasure than vaginal tightness.
  • The quality of a sexual partner is not determined by the size of their genitalia but by their sexual ability and emotional intimacy.

The Hype of Tight Pussy is Overrated

It’s not how big or small a vagina is, it’s how you use it

Image by Reno Omokri

The first time I had sex was with a girl with a large vagina. It looked like a normal pussy from the outside. She was of average height and average weight, but her pussy was abnormally large.

I was told it was hard to get it in the first time. I had no problem. Wherever I stuck my penis, there it was.

At the time I didn’t know it large. Maybe it was me that had a size problem. I thought her vagina was what a vagina was.

I lost my virginity at sixteen and didn’t get laid again until I was nineteen. My fears about having a little dick were alleviated with my next set of sexual experiences.

The common myth is that a loose vagina is a symptom of overuse. Stretching is a thing, but your average or even above average sized penis will not make a permanent difference in the tightness of their partner’s vagina. It’s more like a muscle where if you work it, it gets stronger. Not whatever the hell this guy is trying to say.

Spoken like a dude who’s not getting any action bitching about not being able to find a pure woman. Why do these people always have blue checkmarks? Image by #renosanugget

Vaginal tightness isn’t determined by normal wear (tearing could make a difference.) It’s the same as how some dicks are larger than others. It’s genetics, not how many penises a vagina has had in it or how many times.

Another common myth is that tight pussy is better. I say no. It’s not how big or small your coochie is, it’s what you do with it and how you use it.

There’s real disadvantages when there’s a size mismatch. Even with lube, my smaller partners were sore the next day. Resulting in less frequent desire on their parts. I like to have sex frequently and for longer than is necessary. The pussies on the smaller side can’t keep up.

The best sex I ever had was with a girl who was into fisting. Needless to say, she had a large vagina. But she had studied tantric sex and had previously been the personal assistant for the sex expert who hosted Sex Box. She had had more sexual partners than I had. And wasn’t ashamed to tell me.

We would have crazy mind blowing sex for hours. Most importantly we were in love, which always makes sex better.

It turned out the first vagina I ever had was the largest vagina I’ve ever had. I slept with a woman who gave vaginal birth to four kids with a tighter vagina.

I’m currently forty three years old and have slept with around a hundred women since I was sixteen. I’ve had two pussies that were exceptionally tight and two that were notably large. For the other ninety something the difference was indistinguishable.

What makes a woman good in bed isn’t her diameter of her vagina, but how she uses it.

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