PERSONALITY
5 Signs You Might Be an Ambivert
You might be surprised to learn which personality type you match
“I’m both: Introvert and extrovert. I like people, but I need to be alone. I’ll go out, vibe and meet new people but it has an expiration, because I have to recharge. If I don’t find the valuable alone time I need to recharge, I cannnot be my highest self.” — Sylvester McNut III
My brother suggested the topic for this essay since he presented a Toastmasters speech on the distinctions between introverts, extroverts, and ambiverts several years ago.
I had never heard the term “ambivert” before he introduced it to me.
However, after researching the term, I believe it is reasonable to claim that many individuals, including myself, fall under this personality type.
Based on their characteristics, there are three personality types.
In this essay, I will offer a brief overview of each one.
Three Personality Types
Introverts
- Introverts value their alone time.
- They draw energy from solitude.
- They are not compelled to be continuously surrounded by friends.
- They focus on one-on-one activities.
- They use polling techniques to gather information and make decisions.
- They need time to reflect before replying and making decisions.
- Famous introverts: Mother Teresa, Bill Gates, and Hillary Clinton.
Extroverts
- Extroverts dislike being alone.
- They acquire energy from being around others.
- They are highly social persons who are happiest when they are in the company of others.
- They concentrate on the outside world, the objects, and the people.
- They respond promptly and without extended pauses for thought.
- They demonstrate excitement and energy.
- Famous extroverts: Marie Antoinette, Steve Jobs, and Bill Clinton.
Ambiverts
- Ambiverts appreciate quiet and solitude, but not for long periods.
- They prefer spending brief periods in the company of others.
- They replenish their batteries by alternating between social activity and alone time.
- They are more concerned about working efficiently.
- They may spend a significant amount of time thinking and self-reflecting before presenting their alternatives to friends.
- You not only make sound judgments, but you also avoid wasting money.
- Famous ambiverts: John Lennon, Angelina Jolie, and Princess Diana.
The Meaning of Being An Ambivert
An ambivert is a person who falls somewhere in the middle of the introvert/extrovert spectrum.
According to Ronald E. Riggio, Ph.D., an organizational psychologist and professor at Claremont McKenna College,
“People in the middle are moderately enthused by interacting with others, and moderately ‘drained’ by it.” “Those on the extremes will shun or be drained from social situations or be attracted to and energized by socializing.”
Psychologist Adam Grant estimated in the Wall Street Journal that ambiverts comprise one-half to two-thirds of the general population.
Five Clues You May Be an Ambivert
According to Healthline, here are five signs you might be an ambivert.
- You recognize when to speak and when to listen.
- You may modify your approach to meet the individual or the scenario.
- You are at ease both in social situations and when you are alone.
- You have natural empathy.
- You have the ability to balance the social dynamic.
Takeaway
You may be an ambivert if you are a good listener with exceptional communication skills.
This distinct personality type assists the individual in striking a balance in order to live a fulfilled life.
If you believe you could be an ambivert, you can find out by taking Daniel Pink’s ambiversion test.
Which personality type best describes you? Please share your thoughts in the comments.
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