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r home. Be courteous and act like an adult. No excessive intoxication or illegal drugs will be permitted.</li><li>Only approved couples may attend our events.</li></ul><h1 id="f21b">What To Wear</h1><p id="1f6a">House parties can range from very casual to formal. Read any media associated with the party in which to attend. Is there a theme? Is it a casual or black tie? If you can’t find the answers to these questions ask the host!</p><p id="409a">If there’s a theme hit Amazon for whatever you may need. For sexy attire, <a href="http://www.yandy.com">Yandy</a>, <a href="http://www.adameve.com">Adam & Eve</a>, and <a href="http://www.spicylingerie.com">Spicy Lingerie</a> are great options for hot outfits for both men and women! It never hurts to keep a stash of party outfits in a tote somewhere in your home so that you have stuff on hand for any occasion.</p><p id="b0b7">If there’s no theme, then go for the sexy/classy look. Don’t show up to a house party looking like a slob! Wear something that makes you feel confident, but will draw others towards you. You will want to be comfortable, but use this as an excuse to get dolled up a bit.</p><h1 id="cb5d">What It Looks Like</h1><p id="c0d4">When you first arrive at a house party, usually the host will greet you. If not, ask for someone to point you in the direction of the host or hosts. They will be your first point of contact in order to start your night. If you are going with a couple that’s already been, then they may also act as your initial guide. With many house parties that my husband has attended, the hosts have given us a guided tour and explained rules and general considerations for attendees.</p><p id="1ac1">The host couple will set up semi-private and private playrooms somewhere in the house so that attendees can connect, flirt, and well, fuck. This can be done on beds, furniture, air mattresses, or outside spaces. There is usually plenty of common socializing areas within the home. Occasionally, parts of the home will be roped off or locked, so be sure to be respectful of that.</p><p id="e7b7">Playrooms will usually have condoms, lube, and tissues for guests to use. A common practice is to replace sheets on any beds when you are done having sex. Therefore, you may see a stack of clean sheets and a bin to put used sheets in. This provides a level of cleanliness to shared play spaces. In the bathroom, you should find individual mouth wash bottles, hand sanitizer, and other toiletries.</p><h1 id="3f9f">What Kind of Activity To Expect</h1><p id="b6ac">House parties

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are a good mix of socializing and sex. Many couples will work the room and meet lots of people at once. Others show up to just hang out and fuck their own friends. Like any kind of party, all different types of people will be present. Some house parties we’ve attending, we’ve seen people practicing different forms of BDSM, people walking around in various shades of undressed and others just carrying on regular vanilla conversations in front of the snack table.</p><p id="0bc9">Every house party is different. Each one has a different feel to it and the people that attend those parties set the tone of it. More often than not, house parties start much like a regular party, with drinks/snacks/dancing/mingling then as the night progresses and inhibitions loosen, the heat gets turned up gradually. Some couples will take off to go have sex at other locations, or they will head off to the various playrooms throughout the house. Others will simply leave and go home. Mr. Black has described this change as “almost as if a cloud of smoke comes over the house and the entire mood changes.”</p><p id="f63a">You will have to decide if you intend to play or simply go home.</p><p id="33a4">The swinging community is generally one that is quite warm and welcoming. House parties tend to be an extension of that. The fact that a couple is opening up their house for people to gather and have sex in is a testament to that in itself. Always be gracious to your host! Remember to shake their hand and thank them for inviting you! This will get you invited back.</p><p id="a012">House parties also are a great way to meet a bunch of couples at once. You can put faces to screen names and potentially meet new matches that you can connect with at a later time. The sexy atmosphere is fun, exciting and a great place to let loose. These types of events also are a great stepping-off point for more intense swinger events such as a hotel takeover or lifestyle resort trip.</p><p id="6551">By following these suggestions and doing a little more tailored research on the event you wish to attend, you and your partner should have a night to remember. As always, keep each other at the forefront of the experience and keep an open mind as you take in the event. If you do this, you never know what kind of sexy times you might have at a swingers' house party.</p><p id="cbc6">© Keeva Black, 2021. All rights reserved</p><p id="0c29">Like this? Check our more swinging tips, trick, and advice on <a href="https://medium.com/modern-swinging">Modern Swinging</a>.</p></article></body>

Swinging 101: House Parties

What to expect, what to wear, and what not to do

House parties are one of the most popular forms of gatherings within the Swinging Lifestyle. These gatherings offer swingers a chance to meet other like-minded couples in a comfortable setting, and if the mood strikes have sex. More often than not house parties are the mid-range between meet and greets and total hotel takeovers. Without venturing down the road of exotic swinger vacations, house parties can be a good jumping-off point for couples that want to start mingling with more than one couple at a time.

How To Get In the Door

Typically, a local couple will host a group of swingers at their own house. There is usually a screening process to eliminate any outsiders that might not be members of the swinging community. In my experience, most couples that want to attend a house party have to be vouched for by another couple.

Hosts usually require that you belong to one of the more reputable swinging dating sites such as Kasidie or SwingLifeStyle. This gives them an idea of how serious of a swinger you are and can help them gauge your authenticity. Nobody at the party wants regular Joe Schmoes off the street that are just there to be nosey.

Answer any questions that the hosts may have of you. Be genuine in your responses. Keep in mind that hosts are just trying to find couples that will be a good fit for their parties and protect their privacy — remember you are going to their home!

Sometimes house parties have an entrance fee. We’ve gone to some that charge an entrance fee to cover things like cleaning costs, condoms, lube, food, and drinks. This can vary but always be prepared to pay a cover charge just in case.

House parties usually have a standard list of rules such as this:

Ask first to touch and play with other couples/singles!
No means no!
Please don’t drink and drive!
Be respectful of our home. Be courteous and act like an adult. No excessive intoxication or illegal drugs will be permitted.
Only approved couples may attend our events.

What To Wear

House parties can range from very casual to formal. Read any media associated with the party in which to attend. Is there a theme? Is it a casual or black tie? If you can’t find the answers to these questions ask the host!

If there’s a theme hit Amazon for whatever you may need. For sexy attire, Yandy, Adam & Eve, and Spicy Lingerie are great options for hot outfits for both men and women! It never hurts to keep a stash of party outfits in a tote somewhere in your home so that you have stuff on hand for any occasion.

If there’s no theme, then go for the sexy/classy look. Don’t show up to a house party looking like a slob! Wear something that makes you feel confident, but will draw others towards you. You will want to be comfortable, but use this as an excuse to get dolled up a bit.

What It Looks Like

When you first arrive at a house party, usually the host will greet you. If not, ask for someone to point you in the direction of the host or hosts. They will be your first point of contact in order to start your night. If you are going with a couple that’s already been, then they may also act as your initial guide. With many house parties that my husband has attended, the hosts have given us a guided tour and explained rules and general considerations for attendees.

The host couple will set up semi-private and private playrooms somewhere in the house so that attendees can connect, flirt, and well, fuck. This can be done on beds, furniture, air mattresses, or outside spaces. There is usually plenty of common socializing areas within the home. Occasionally, parts of the home will be roped off or locked, so be sure to be respectful of that.

Playrooms will usually have condoms, lube, and tissues for guests to use. A common practice is to replace sheets on any beds when you are done having sex. Therefore, you may see a stack of clean sheets and a bin to put used sheets in. This provides a level of cleanliness to shared play spaces. In the bathroom, you should find individual mouth wash bottles, hand sanitizer, and other toiletries.

What Kind of Activity To Expect

House parties are a good mix of socializing and sex. Many couples will work the room and meet lots of people at once. Others show up to just hang out and fuck their own friends. Like any kind of party, all different types of people will be present. Some house parties we’ve attending, we’ve seen people practicing different forms of BDSM, people walking around in various shades of undressed and others just carrying on regular vanilla conversations in front of the snack table.

Every house party is different. Each one has a different feel to it and the people that attend those parties set the tone of it. More often than not, house parties start much like a regular party, with drinks/snacks/dancing/mingling then as the night progresses and inhibitions loosen, the heat gets turned up gradually. Some couples will take off to go have sex at other locations, or they will head off to the various playrooms throughout the house. Others will simply leave and go home. Mr. Black has described this change as “almost as if a cloud of smoke comes over the house and the entire mood changes.”

You will have to decide if you intend to play or simply go home.

The swinging community is generally one that is quite warm and welcoming. House parties tend to be an extension of that. The fact that a couple is opening up their house for people to gather and have sex in is a testament to that in itself. Always be gracious to your host! Remember to shake their hand and thank them for inviting you! This will get you invited back.

House parties also are a great way to meet a bunch of couples at once. You can put faces to screen names and potentially meet new matches that you can connect with at a later time. The sexy atmosphere is fun, exciting and a great place to let loose. These types of events also are a great stepping-off point for more intense swinger events such as a hotel takeover or lifestyle resort trip.

By following these suggestions and doing a little more tailored research on the event you wish to attend, you and your partner should have a night to remember. As always, keep each other at the forefront of the experience and keep an open mind as you take in the event. If you do this, you never know what kind of sexy times you might have at a swingers' house party.

Like this? Check our more swinging tips, trick, and advice on Modern Swinging.