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tural limitations are very real, but they cannot control your mind, or stop your personal growth if you do not let them. The world is your oyster — whatever that may mean, coming from this vegetarian.</p><p id="4d37">Ways to travel the world even when you cannot afford it include not only watching amazing and educational travel shows, but also reading — reading books about different places, different times in history, fiction or nonfiction can really transport you to anywhere. I am big on books, obviously.</p><p id="7bad">Also finding the world here, where you are — you are in the world too. This town we live in has some diversity, your town might too. Take advantage of what is where you are. Support the world around you. Be in it, with it, and open to it in ways that are respectful, caring, and mutually beneficial.</p><figure id="65f3"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*yeLa1HVECmrA0yNG"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@pillepriske?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Pille-Riin Priske</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><p id="554f">All of my life I have surrounded myself with people from other places and countries. My roommates in college were all from Japan and Mexico. My time spent with these girls was life changing in every possible good way. I hung out with friends from India and Germany. I spent most of my time with the International Students Club. I have taught ESL in person, online, on purpose or by accident. I have attempted to learn other languages in the same ways. It has not gone that great for me, but I try and that I think, is an honest and kind way of being open to the realities of the diversity and vastness of this world.</p><p id="067f">I have been a Girl Scout leader whose one claim to fame was writing a grant that let me take my tiny troop of inner-city Milwaukee teen girls to a different restaurant every month with the express focus on exploring the world through food, and also, the secret focus of addressing the massive food insecurity (aka hunger) these girls were living with. We ate Italian food, Mexican food, Chinese food, African food, Thai food, and I had the owner of each restaurant come and talk to my girls. And then I had my girls write them a thank you letter telling them what they loved best. We can have magic right here.</p><p id="4509">I have also signed up with an organization to be a host mom for the summer. I was a mom for months to teen girls from Taiwan, France, and Italy. I packed their lunches, showed them around the city, helped them with homework, and most of all, learned from them and supported them while they navigated this new place so far from their homes. I am still in touch with them today, all of them grown up adults who still call me their American mom. What a blessing!</p><p id="c734">And yet, that longing to travel and see things and ‘live life’ as my fiance would say — a life that is not just work, home, bills, work, home, bills well it is just so hard to quiet this desire to walk cobblestone streets with a baguette, explore ancient ruins and beautiful museums, and my personal dream, to drink all of the coffee and wine in every major coffee and wine city that exists.</p><figure id="781a"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*yHtRqennmz9AKPpZ"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@jlhopes?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">David Edelstein</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&amp;utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><p id="4574">Other things we can do to travel the world from home until we can, maybe one day travel the world include cooking global dishes in ways that are respectful, sustainable, and fun for the whole famil

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y. Or making special weekly dates to try local restaurants that are owned by immigrants from all over the world.</p><p id="cffc">Supporting the world that is here means valuing the people who bring that world to us.</p><p id="5e97">We have to value the world and we have to value the people we share it with. Making sure we support government policies and leaders who value the world, not just the environment of the world, the planet itself, the trees and dirt and water and air, and who strive to actually fight global warming, yes, but who value the world in terms of education, embracing diversity, and encouraging peace is also a way to travel the world from your couch. Voting with your dreams, perhaps. And also, your empathy for the fact that traveling the world is only possible when there is a world of people and places left to travel to.</p><p id="c9e8">The world is big. Not one of us will ever see it all. But we can embrace the spirit of travel and strengthen the sense of connection, learning, global unity and peace right here, right now via opening our minds to all that exists and all that might be possible. TV shows are wonderful, books are always wonderful, cooking and eating are both necessary and wonderful. And supporting those who are the world in your own communities is a wonderful, meaningful, and vital way to ensure the benefits of being a global citizen flow in every direction.</p><p id="c1c6">We are all connected, know it or not, like it or not for some, and rising up to a level of respect and appreciation for people and planet is something we can all do no matter where we are or if we have a savings account.</p><p id="bed3">©<a href="https://medium.com/@jennyjustice">Jenny Justice.</a> All Rights Reserved.</p><p id="cffd"><b><i>Jenny Justice</i></b><i>, Poet. Author of Love in the Time of Climate Change and Reveal. You can read more of her poetry at<a href="https://medium.com/justice-poetic"> Justice Poetic.</a></i> <i>Sign up for her newsletter <a href="https://jennyjustice.substack.com/p/coming-soon?r=2jhb2&amp;utm_campaign=post&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_source=copy">here</a>.</i></p><div id="3606" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/upon-learning-that-planets-make-sounds-5e67380eeda1"> <div> <div> <h2>Upon Learning that Planets Make Sounds</h2> <div><h3>A Poem</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*6CEUev4srRU4dN4m)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="88dc" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/paycheck-to-paycheck-parenting-ad0ff5ae85aa"> <div> <div> <h2>Paycheck to Paycheck Parenting</h2> <div><h3>Some reflection, some ideas</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*2rc-byDpZjqTse_P)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="bcb6" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/fraggle-rock-and-deep-environmental-philosophy-ab047d906ee6"> <div> <div> <h2>Fraggle Rock and Deep Environmental Philosophy</h2> <div><h3>The Trash Heap Has Spoken</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*f47IxXmh-rGbCycA)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

Stop Wasting Time Playing Video Games

How I quiet video games and you should too

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Are you struggling to find a balance between playing video games and getting things done? Do you find yourself putting off important tasks to play “just one more level or game”? It’s time to stop letting video games control your life.

In this blog, I will teach you how to set boundaries and prioritize your time, so you can enjoy gaming without sacrificing your productivity and progress. I quit almost all my time playing video games. I only play sometimes with friends.

The Problem with Excessive Gaming

There are two problems with excessive gaming physical and mental. a. Physical health effects

Physical effects are that you don’t move enough per day and get lazy. You can get tension in your body if you play for long times, especially in your neck. You should also generally have a good office chair to work on. I for example have one without a backrest. b. Mental health effects

Mental effects are that it feels not fulfilled if you play for a long time and don’t get lots of things done. Another effect is that some people get very angry while playing if they lose a game. I heard from a friend that he destroyed his controller while playing FIFA because he lost a match.

It impacts productivity a lot if you play video games in the morning. I experienced that also in the past. I played in the morning video games that lead so to don’t have lots of motivation to do something else later.

Setting Boundaries

If you are now convinced to reduce your time playing video games I want to give you some tips to reduce it.

You should make a schedule that you first do your tasks and then one 1 hour in the evening in the calendar only for this.

Use timers or alarms

You should also activate timers or alarms so that you don’t play longer than the dedicated time. Playing sometimes video games is okay, but it should be in your control how long you play.

Reduce the time over time

I would recommend reducing your video game time every day until you have your dream time. If you play today for 3 hours and want to get to 1 hour you should make every day 15 minutes less. This is more likely to work than you do directly for 1 hour and then play longer than you want.

General I would only do video games if you have completed everything for the day that you need to do. In the past I often didn’t do this. I learned the lesson and hope you don’t make the same mistake.

Alternatives to Gaming

Doing more physical exercises is a great way to get a balance in life. I experienced that also that sport gives you a balance between work or studying. b. Creative hobbies

Having a creative hobby like YouTube is also great to use the timer for. If YouTube is too difficult for you, you can also start writing a blog from zero for free on Medium.

Learning a new skill or language

Learning new skills or language is always useful to do for work and personal life. I discovered a short time ago a platform called Coursera. It has free courses from universities like Yale, you only pay there for courses if you want to get a certificate.

https://www.coursera.org/

For language learning apps like Babble are great. You can also do a language trip if you are more advanced in the language and want to get to a new level.

Doing alternatives to gaming a for sure better than playing. You also work with alternatives to a long-term goal. Gaming gives you only short-term fun.

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