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Spiritual Awakening — Signs You Are In The Spiritual Void
Signs and tips for those in the hermit phase of the awakening process.
What is the spiritual void (or hermit phase)?
The hermit phase is a step in awakening when an individual withdraws from the external world. This is done so that you can focus on yourself, heal, and develop.
Once I entered the void phase, I was puzzled. Many articles say the hermit phase happens right after the dark night of the soul, but that was not true in my case. We must remember that everyone’s spiritual journey is unique to them. Since I am currently in this phase, I thought it would help to share my experiences.
The Signs
If you are lost, disoriented, and every remaining friendship seems to be fading away, you are probably entering the void. Before I realized I was in the hermit phase, I was a bit concerned. Mostly because I lost all desire to socialize or do anything I usually did. Interestingly, I was totally alone, but I wasn’t at all lonely. I went from a social butterfly to an introvert (and absolutely loved it).
Once I noticed my behavioral changes, I began to worry and asked my spirit guides, “What is going on? Am I doing something wrong?” I mostly asked this because I was not receiving the signs and synchronicity I was used to; they totally stopped. The little birdie had been kicked out of the nest. I was suddenly left alone to figure out where, when, and what to do next.
Note: We sometimes become dependent on signs, synchronicity, angel numbers, or tarot readings. While it is nice to have these things as a guide, ultimately, we must learn to trust our own inner guidance. So it makes sense (at some point) that you will need to begin to trust yourself. Eliminating signs and synchronicity (in this phase) is done to help you develop and remove self-doubt and dependency on external guidance.
Other signs: You might have quit your career, exited a relationship, or cut off family members. You might feel lost and unsure of where to go, and what to do next. You are probably on an emotional rollercoaster. Basically, your old life is crumbling right before you. I wish I was exaggerating, but this is the truth; the old life must die. These things happen to prepare you for the spiritual void.
I’m in the void, now what?
Once I discovered I was in the hermit phase, I asked my guides, “What am I supposed to be doing then?” And their response was, “Just be.” So, from that day on, I surrendered to just being. Once I let go, I experienced an unexplainable peace. I feel gratitude, love, and kindness flowing through my being. I am constantly healing old wounds and learning about myself. I can easily spend a week in my room reading, dancing, and sitting in silence. This leads to my next point.
Don’t get stuck in the void.
I can see why someone might want to stay in the hermit phase. You are healing, happy, and at peace. You are isolated, evolving, and cut off from the craziness of our external world. But my loves, be very careful here. The main idea of this isolation is to go within and heal and develop self-awareness. That spiritual growth is preparing you for the next chapter of your life. This is the time for spiritual evolution; when the caterpillar becomes a beautiful butterfly. So, there will come a time when you need to turn the page to the next chapter in your life story.
Closing Thoughts.
Since entering this phase, I have noticed many changes both on a personal and spiritual level. I have very little desire to drink or be in large crowds. If I do have a beer, I instantly get a migraine (this is new). I have little urge to mix and mingle with others. Not because I think I’m better, I just don’t want to. The social butterfly I once was is no more.
On a spiritual level, I have noticed an increase in spiritual downloads. I have been remembering past lives and healing deeply rooted traumas. There are traumas arising I didn’t know existed. So the healing of the inner child is ongoing. There are many changes, but these are the main differences. When you enter the void, surrender. This is a spiritual retreat, so take advantage of the benefits. Spend time with yourself, sit in silence, connect with your higher self and spirit guides, and fully embrace each moment.
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