Semen Retention: Why & How to Explore Your Prostate for a Super ‘O’(gasm)
Delve into the taboo subject of men’s prostrate stimulation

“Stick my finger where? Are you gay?” a surprised lover blurted out.
There is a lot of misinformation about exploring and stimulating your prostate.
Let’s set the record straight so you can experience a Super O.
Benefits of a prostate massage
You all know the benefits to semen retention.
Accessing sexual pleasure by stimulating your prostrate has many benefits:
- Increase in sexual pleasure.
- Increase blood flow to the prostate.
- A deeper, stronger orgasm compared to your traditional ejaculatory access.
- Orgasm without the release of semen.
- Release of repressed emotions.
- Increase in ability to move through fear.
- Deepen your connection with your body.
- Deepen your connection with your partner.
- Releases of built-up sexual tension.
What is the prostate?
The prostate is a gland about the size of a walnut. It’s located in front of the rectum between the base of the penis and the bladder.

The prostrate releases fluid into the urethra to allow for an easy passage for the semen to exit the penis. This is the clear fluid you may have noticed that exits the penis immediately before ejaculation.
Entrance this way
There are 3 ways to access your prostrate:
- Solo — Insert your finger into your anus. When your finger is inside, press the end of your finger forward to feel the prostate.
- Partner — Have someone else do the above.
- Device — Insert a prostate sex toy. They designed these types of devices They designed these types of devices to access and stimulate the prostate.
Tool of the trade
The easiest and most effective way to have a prostate orgasm is using a prostate sexual device. The most popular is the Vice 2 from Aneros. They have a very active online forum.
When using the Aneros toy, try: for the first 5–10 minutes, use your breath and allow your muscles throughout your body to relax. From there, you can start consciously contracting you’re your muscles (pelvic floor, buttocks, quadriceps.)
You can also do the micro-orbit and big draw during your session to bring on an orgasm.
People in the Aneros forum call a prostate orgasm a “Super O”. As the prostate orgasm is a deeper and more powerful energetic experience compared to an orgasm from penis stimulation.
Unpacking misunderstandings
There are a number a lot of misunderstandings surrounding gaining sexual pleasure from massaging your prostate. The typical ones we will address now.
Are you gay for wanting or liking your prostate stimulated? No. A prostate massage doesn’t determine your sexual orientation. Like my lover, she was told this by her boyfriend and she took it as gospel.
You will turn gay? No. You will not start liking men if you like having your prostate massaged. This misconception like the above one is drawn from how men connect sexually. Massaging your prostate is about stimulating your body and has nothing to do with your sexual orientation.
You will cause yourself an injury? No. When you do insert your finger apply soft pressure to the prostate and ensure your fingernail isn’t long. Be sure to use a natural plant-based lubricant on your finger or sex toy. This will prevent tearing or cutting the anal wall.
Final thoughts
It’s normal to experience nervousness when deep diving into this type of exploration. Don’t let any misinformation discourage you from exploring your body and sexual energy.
A man that has control and embraces their sexual power is very attractive to a woman. Learning to love your own body is the fast track to being able to share the love with your woman.






