Reflecting On 2022 — A Year Of Change

This was a year unlike any other. Dear God, did my life change this past year?

A year ago, my life was very, very different. I was single, freelancing was just a far-off dream, I started bartending and was surrounded by the same friends and family.

Suffice it to say all that has changed.

I’m no longer on speaking terms with said family members. All my close friendships fell apart, and I was forced to find a new place to live.

As tragic as that sounds, new beginnings are a beautiful thing.

I finally moved out and became independent. Proving to myself I was strong enough to make it on my own.

I’m also in a thriving and growing relationship with a bright future.

I started freelancing and pursuing making money online.

My career is finally heading in a direction where my purpose is being met.

And more importantly, I have grown and evolved.

I have a better sense of self-worth. I’m learning how to establish proper boundaries and keep the promises I make to myself.

I’m slowly but surely becoming the woman I want to be and creating the life I’ve always wanted.

The saying ‘nothing worth having comes easy’ played like a broken record in the back of my head throughout the last few months of this year.

I’ve faced work challenges, difficult family circumstances, friendship breakups, and health challenges, yet I feel the most joy and accomplishment ever.

Perhaps it’s because, for once, I decided to stop listening so much to other people and decided to do what I believe is best for me.

I stood up against the grain. And although I got beaten down, I stood back up and continued forward.

I, of course, give all the credit to God, who set all of this in motion, because I know he has a purpose for my life that will be met.

I remember years ago praying and praying for God to show me the way. To guide me on the path he wants for me.

I never imagined it would be this chaotic; regardless, I know he’s walking next to me, showing me the way each day.

It will not be easy, but I know it will be worth it.

I’m already living in indescribable joy.

So much of what I had been yearning for and dreaming of came to fruition this year.

For the longest time, I remember wanting to be in a relationship. And although it hasn’t been easy by any means, I have to say I’m blessed to be with a man that loves me beyond measure.

A man who sees me as beautiful the way I am. Who makes me feel good about myself, whether I’m fresh out of bed or dolled up from head to toe.

A man who is loving, caring, and protective.

Yes, our relationship is not perfect. However, he’s my ideal partner because he’s willing to work with me to improve, learn about our shortcomings, and change them to create a healthy relationship.

As I mentioned earlier, I became independent.

Although I was forced to find a new place to live, I’m beyond grateful to God for the difficulties I faced because I’m living a dream I’ve had for a long time — to be on my own.

I always thought that finances were the problem. I realize now the real problem was my sense of self-worth and belief.

I didn’t believe I could make it on my own. I didn’t think I was strong, resourceful, or good enough to deserve it.

But God pushed me past my comfort zone.

I stopped doubting myself and instead focused on how to make it happen, and I did. It’s been almost eight months since I’ve been on my own, and I’m so proud of myself.

I’m also thrilled to have my own space and room to make my own decisions. To live according to my values. It’s truly a feeling unlike any other.

I’m thankful for the rollercoaster that was 2022 — truly a year of change.

It taught me I’m way more capable than I realize.

It taught me that nothing is permanent.

It taught me that settling is dangerous because it can stop you from meeting your life’s purpose and moving forward.

It taught me there’s a high price to pay if I want to live according to God’s will for my life.

But I’m more than happy to pay it because after all that’s happened, my life is the best it’s ever been.

God knows better than I do. No need to question his judgment.

I’m looking forward to 2023 and what I will accomplish this new year.

It will be another year of change, and I’m hoping it’s massive.

I want to take my career to the next level and dedicate myself to what I believe I’m meant to do.

I want to be able to replace my income by doing what I love — writing and creating content.

I will figure out a way and make it happen in 2023.

Stay tuned because I will be sharing the journey with you!

Tell me, what have you learned, and what have you accomplished in 2022?