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Red Flag Women Personalities

There doesn’t need to be a second date.

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Women aren’t the only ones who aim to change their partners.

Men hear ladies make alarming blanket statements. Yet, proceed with commitment and dating. It would be great if your love restores a woman’s faith in relationships.

But if she doesn’t have an open mind, you have set yourself up for a Mount Everest task. The lady’s mind wants to be correct. Women often want to be right. Soon she will say “all men are the same” about you.

#1. All men are trash

How do you ignore statements like this? I’d be so offended. Your crush didn’t even give you a chance to prove you are different. How do you even respond to a statement like this one?

Even if you were to respond, “Am I trash?”. The female’s reply would be a sarcastic, non-committal no. You’re signing up to change her views on men from the first encounter. That’s plenty of pressure.

#2. Toxic

Humans are toxic — we cut corners, cheat, and use people. The profession or appearance doesn’t matter. Toxicity is a quality people release with time and healing. The primary issue with women manipulating a man? She will turn around and make you feel like a creep, penny pincher, or pervert.

So, you not only become a victim of manipulation. But you might internalize negative labels about yourself, behavior, and money. Unless you want to be a sugar daddy or you love competition. Try to spot and avoid women who:

Play power games.
Cannot trust you.
Make everything a competition.
Only want you for your money.
Shift all blame onto you.
Control all things around you.
Belittle your gifts or actions.
Make you work hard to help her.

#3. The princess

When you move in together, your lady friend isn’t a maid. Nor is she a princess. In the early days? It is hard to know if you are a caring gentleman or if she is taking advantage of your kind nature.

This behavior?

It tests your beliefs about money.
It tests your feelings about reciprocation.

Do you treat her like a princess? How does she treat you — like a prince or servant? If servant, you know what you need to do.

#4. Expectant

Have you ever had a woman look at you with a duh face? Yet there you stand, confused with a blank stare. You are not a mind reader. You can only read her body language. That’s it.

You are heading into plenty of drama. This woman cannot express her needs or give simple instructions. Did you think not knowing what she wants to eat is annoying? Wait until she uses telepathy to tell you something, and you don’t do it.

#5. Control

It’s all about preference. Some men dislike social scenes because they are shy. If so, you won’t mind a woman taking the lead in conversations.

But your love for this quality drops if she talks over you or interrupts you. She can also decide how you spend your time without consulting you. If you sit with these feelings, your emotions may grow into resentment.

It’s healthier if she encourages you to step outside your comfort zone. Or better if she helps you find the perfect guy for a bromance.

#6. Crazy

Women jump to conclusions. Lash out when angry. Plus, have several mood swings per day and dislike apologizing.

Imagine a lady friend (proudly) saying she is crazy. She won’t see anything wrong with her actions when she calms down. You will get forced to play peacemaker and firefighter for burnt bridges.

#Takeaway

What is the primary similarity between these behaviors? The woman wears them as a badge of honor and calls it having high standards.

I understand why you stick around. The women who behave this way are super attractive. Dolled up or messy bun, their looks make you swoon. Who knows, once upon a time, you had jerk tendencies. But now you want a good relationship. Are you ready to settle down? Avoid women with the above personalities.

Thank you for reading this post.

Hey, I am Annie, a relationship and side hustle writer. For just $5/month or $50/year, you can unlock articles to help you achieve your income and love goals. This membership fee will support your dreams. Unlock the content with this link.