MFW I Am A 40 Under 40 Nominee
Hoooooooooly shi — !

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I’ve been nominated for my university’s 40 Under 40

I am the university’s second transgender nominee. The first nominee (and winner) was Raquel Willis in 2021. I would be their second transgender winner.
Note: a previous version mistakenly referred to myself as the first nominee for University of Georgia, but I am delighted to learn of Raquel Willis and all they have done
Despite the whole thing being historically unprecedented for the university, it’s far from a guarantee I’ll win.
Remember when the first out transgender Oscar nominee from 2016 wasn’t invited to perform with the other nominees? They invited Dave Grohl instead. And I love Dave Grohl, but he wasn’t even nominated LOL.
That joke will never stop being funny to me…

I am just a disabled white girl, but I am also trans and neurodivergent. My memoir collection First I Was A Girl gets into the details, but basically, I was raised in a cult in Mississippi in the 80s, put through trans conversion therapy in the 90s, and then saw my identical twin brother turn into a kind of evangelist for cisgender male horn-dog grievances. He utilizes a variety of fake identities (eg Daryl Wakeham, James the Argumentative Penguin, Alison the Celtic Chameleon, etc etc) to spread his message. I’m unfortunately one of the many women he has violated over the years.
If nothing else, his long history of violence toward me and other women motivated me to volunteer every year for the annual Writers For Hope charity in support of sexual assault victims.

Admitting to the world that I am not just an identical twin but a transgender identical twin means there is now a sudden interest from researchers specializing in studies on identical twins. To say me and my sibling went different directions would be an understatement. Simply telling my story has made a meaningful contribution to research on identical twins and all gender non-conforming people.

I later became an editor for best-selling and award-winning writers, a pop culture critic bringing attention to trans and gender non-conforming representation in media throughout history, and most recently returned to activism by writing memoir and activist pieces for outlets like Xtra Magazine, Translating Everything, and An Injustice.

But wait, there’s more
Thanks to people like acclaimed pop culture critic and writer for Entertainment Weekly Michael Lee Simpson, I’ve participated in roundtable interviews with “holy shit that person is amazing” people throughout a bunch of storytelling industries.
I don’t know if I’ll ever make a movie again — once you’ve made Highlander: the Transgender Series (starring me as Connie MacLeod), there’s no mountain left to climb — but I once got to gush over the virtues of Stephen King with Jeffry Reddick (creator of Final Destination) and Diana Ossana (screenwriter for the film adaptation of Brokeback Mountain).

Another time, Michael helped me go full Rocky against other filmmakers like David Seth Cohen, (founder of Legitimate Rascal Films) and Ricardo Cordero (writer, actor, and director for The Escape, Pretend, and the Suicide TV series) to debate whether the new Lord of the Rings series was going to suck.
And y’all, I fear I’ll forever be known as a ****ing nerd instead of a 40 Under 40 Nominee, but one of my favorite accomplishments was I did an article for Script Magazine in which I interviewed Ron Wasserman, who is the composer for the themes to Mighty Morphin’ Power Rangers, X-Men: the Animated Series (recently rebooted into X-Men ‘97), and pretty much every other 90s theme song you can’t stop singing.

I mean the article ALSO interviewed Colin Aguiar, the Oscar-winning Indian-Canadian composer for Life of Pi. But, like, I can’t help it. I’m a ****ing nerd.
Here I Am

I spent most of my life feeling lesser than. Unworthy. Hopeless.
Until recently, I didn’t know how to respond when the most kindness I’d ever received was someone telling me sure I’m smart, but obviously I can do better.
I don’t know if I will win the 40 Under 40, but at the end of the day, that stupid “I’m already a winner” platitude says it all.
How many people really care whether you’re an Academy Award Nominee vs Academy Award Winner?
Yep. That’s right.
Now and forever, I am a 40 Under 40 Nominee.
PS. Aaaaaaaaaaand this is my face when my friends tell me if I don’t win, they will burn the university to the ground LOLOLOLOLOL

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