Many Men Want a Bigger Dick But More Men Want a Bigger Load

Do women even care? Is it even possible?

We live in a world where BIG reigns supreme; Men want bigger cars, bigger shoes, bigger accounts, bigger dicks, and now bigger loads. A study published in the Journal of Translational Andrology and Urology showed that men who were dissatisfied with the size of their load experienced high levels of performance anxiety, sexual dysfunction, and relationship stress.

I had the pleasure of asking some men why they preferred a bigger load? These were their answers:

• If a woman is doing anything sex-related with you, she wants to know you’re having a good time; a bigger load is physical evidence of how much she turned me on.
• When I ejaculate in her, I’m giving her a part of me. The more of me (semen) I can give her, the more intimate the act of sex is.
• I love blowing my load all over her; it excites me on a primal level. This happens only when I have enough jizz in my balls.
• More semen equates to more sperm which means a higher chance to impregnate women. As men, we’re wired to want to sow our wild oats even if the goal of sex is not pregnancy.

As entertaining as the answers were, I couldn’t help but notice the importance men put on semen. Some use it as a metric for great sex, and others equate it to manliness.

I further did a quick Google search and found forums across Reddit threads where men were advising each other on what to do and what worked. I also encountered websites dedicated to increasing your load, with enticing names like biggerloads.com and howtoshootbiggerloads.com, respectively. They all promote pills, supplements, and folk medicines that promise to give the biggest, ropiest, milkiest, thickest cum loads. Some even post testimonies of how their dribble turned into a fire hose.

If I had a penis, I too would fret about the size of my ejaculation if I was subjected to subliminal messages and innuendos suggesting bigger is better. If I was told that my junk should be producing more than usual to appease a woman. If I was listening to rappers, bragging about filling women up with cum and making it rain on “dem bitches”. Or if every porn showed men spurting out semen like a goddam watering can… look, I get it!

I’ll keep it real with you; it’s all just a placebo. There is no clinical research proving that any of these pills work. Nothing on the market can increase your cum load. I’ll go a step further and add that there won’t be anything for the foreseeable future… Do you know why?

Scientists, Specialists, and experts in male reproduction aren’t concerned about the size of your load. We’re concerned about the contents of your load, specifically the quantity and quality of your swimmers.

A low-volume ejaculate could still have millions of sperms, and a high volume ejaculate could have a low sperm count. In other words, The volume of your semen doesn’t influence your sperm count. Fertility depends on the health of your swimmers, which is a product of your lifestyle choices.

If you take too much tobacco, consume too much alcohol, excessively workouts and spend too much time in any warm tub, the quality of sperm will decrease. But if you remain relatively fit, eat more leafy vegetables and fruits high in antioxidants, the quality of your sperm will naturally improve.

To further show you that we care, the is research dedicated to improving the quality of your sperm. This study here shows the effectiveness of oral antioxidant supplements in improving the health of sperm… you can thank me later.

Shift your focus from semen to sperm. But nothing is written in stone.

You can still make your fantasy a reality.

If you tell me you like the visual appeal of finishing sex off like a pornstar or that you dream of making it rain like your favorite hentai character, I get you.

If you tell me you enjoy drowning your partner in jizz, and watching her gag and cough as your semen comes out from her nostrils and mouth. I don’t get it. No judgment here.

The point is you can increase your load beyond the average teaspoon.

The sure-fire way to do it is to give your balls a break. Your testes produce sperm and store it in a reservoir called the epididymis situated behind the testes. Repeated ejaculation over a short period will naturally lower semen volume. Give yourself at least two to three days for semen to build up.

What women think about your ejaculation

A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine looked at the importance of male ejaculation on female sexual satisfaction. They found that 30% of women never focused on semen volume, 65% said volume did not affect their orgasm intensity, while the remaining 35% reported having stronger orgasms when the was more semen on the table (or the photo-frame, or headboard or the ass as the case may be).

Relax; you don’t have to live under the tyrannical knowledge that the volume of your cum is under scrutiny.

A whopping 60% of women said the intensity of their orgasm was directly related to how intense their partner’s orgasm was. They based it on “strong thrusting” and “loud moaning.

When women bedded men that were more expressive, or if they had a feeling that their partner’s orgasm was more intense they were more likely to say, “it felt like a big load.” Perception became a reality.

So If you’re thinking of holding out sex to increase your reserves … DON’T. Women aren’t obsessed with semen to the point that they would skip a few days of sex just to be hosed down with a load of it.

We want toe-curling earth-shattering passionate sex.

If I had a piece of advice, it’s this; women want to please you because pleasing you increases their pleasure. So cum like you mean it. Enthusiasm goes a long way even when your cum load won’t (no pun intended).

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Women don’t like fucking men who are quiet during sex

13 interesting facts you may not know about semen

©Dona Mwiria September 2021