4 Things You Can Do to Make Her Pussy Juicy Before Sex
The easiest way for her to want sex with you
“I don’t know what to do, my wife doesn’t seem to enjoy sex with me.” Or she says “I’m not enjoying sex with him.”
I’ve heard these complaints over the last few months again and again and it gives me anxiety. These complaints scream despair and hopelessness. It saddens me to learn that many couples are frustrated and unsatisfied with their sex life. Sex should be fun, joyful and pleasant if you just let go and surrender to it.
I’ve written many tutorials to help men please their partner but the message doesn’t seem to sink in. So, I’m going to write another tutorial about how to blow her mind away and make sex enjoyable for both of you.
You can make her — and her pussy — happy. How can you make her pussy juicy? With patience and intention. Be playful and creative and start by practicing how to please her before she takes her panties off.
Now let me remind you again: the secret to making her pussy happy is that the female body is not just breasts and a vagina. There are other pleasure points you can explore.
So let’s get started with 4 things you can do to make her pussy juicy before sex.
#1: Building the momentum
When it comes to sex, men are more visual than women. That is why men enjoy watching sports, video games and porn. Women on the other hand need their brain to be stimulated.
To turn a woman on, first you need to turn on her mind. Women like words, a story and the romance to unfold, just like a good book with a beginning, middle and end.
Start by building the momentum. As you go off to work, give her a deep passionate kiss. Keep her thoughts on you during the day. Set the scene on what is to come with sexy text or voice messages. Surprise her with a small gift. It could be flowers or her favorite perfume.
#2: Setting the mood
Now that you have spent the day getting her attention, don’t let the momentum slip away. First of all make sure that there are no distractions. You don’t want her thinking about laundry or making dinner. Have dinner ready or order takeout. Plump up those cushions on the couch and do a quick tidy of the space.
The art of seduction should include five things that awaken her pussy senses:
- Change the feel of the room by adding candles or dimming the lights;
- Put on some background music to set the mood;
- Smells evoke memories so splash on some cologne, use essential oils or incense;
- Have some champagne and strawberries as a sexy snack;
- And lastly touch — now this is where the fun starts.
#3: Getting started
Once you have created the right mood, invite her to join you. Start slowly with a simple embrace. Cuddling creates a sense of intimacy and a feeling of safety. Once she starts to relax, use gentle pressure against her body. Use your hands to explore where her erogenous zones are.
Try to synchronise your breathing and make sure you connect by looking into her eyes. Run your fingers through her hair and massage her head. Use your breath against her neck and blow softly in her ears. You should now be in a rhythm to release those feel-good-and-happy hormones called oxytocin.
#4: Pussy play, let the fun begin
Her body will be reacting to your touch. Now is the time to turn up the pleasure and put her pussy into play.
Before her panties come off, move her to sit in the lotus pose. This is where she is sitting on your lap, facing you, with her legs wrapped around you. This is a fabulous position to increase her wetness and lubrication. It also allows her to grind against you and give you visual and vocal cues.
Touch her through the fabric of her panties. Rub her pussy slowly with thoughtful movements. This creates friction that in turn will only make her pussy dripping with desire. Gradually increase the pressure and speed of your touch. Her pussy should now start to purr and those panties will definitely be coming off.
There are a lot of things you can do before you get to taste the most delicious parts of her. But first, it’s important to cultivate love and connection with your partner so that she can easily surrender to you. It will be easier for her to surrender to sex if she trusts you and feels safe. So, make it a priority to bond and connect before anything else. Keep your communication honest and open — you’ll surely make her pussy juicy.
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