Self Improvement
The Lesson My Grandfather Taught Me: Never Stop Struggling
What did he mean by that? Let’s understand what he means!
My grandfather was a wise man who taught me many invaluable life lessons over the years. There was one advice he shared with me that has remained deeply ingrained, in my mind; “Always keep striving.”
What did he mean by that? We should never become complacent or stop working hard towards our goals and dreams. We must continue struggling, continuing fighting, and continuously striving if we hope to achieve success and fulfillment.
My Grandfather’s Guiding Principle: Persevere Through Adversity
This lesson of never giving up and powering through struggles resonated deeply due to the adversity my grandfather himself overcame. He came from a background experienced the loss of his father at a tender age and toiled in demanding jobs to provide for his mother and siblings.
But I never saw him stop struggling in the time of hardship. He slowly built a better life through perseverance and determination until he could support his own family comfortably.
Seeing how the principle of never stopping the struggle transformed his life taught me an invaluable lesson at a young age. I knew that if I embodied his mindset and work ethic, I too could achieve my biggest dreams.
Applying My Grandfather’s Lesson to My Own Life
As I progressed through school and my early career, I often hit obstacles that made me want to quit. Getting rejected from colleges, bombing job interviews, working at an unfulfilling job — these struggles made me question whether I had what it takes to succeed.
But whenever I wanted to give up, I remembered my grandfather’s words — “never stop struggling.” I realigned to his core principle and persisted through every adversity life threw at me.
With this resilience and tenacity, I ultimately got into my dream school, landed an exciting job in my field, and found a career path filled with meaning and impact. Whenever I achieved a goal, I felt my grandfather’s spirit urging me to keep struggling for the next one.
Passing the Lesson on to the Next Generation
Now when I look at my children, I strive to pass on this lesson so they too can overcome inevitable life struggles. I remind them frequently never to stop struggling for their dreams no matter what hardships arise.
I hope that by internalizing this mantra, they will power through all of life’s obstacles and realize their full potential. Although my grandfather is no longer, with us his legacy continues to thrive through the generations thanks to this profound advice.
“Never, ever stop struggling and you will succeed beyond your wildest dreams.”
So whenever you hit what seems like an insurmountable barrier, remember the lesson my grandfather imparted to me all those years ago. Embody that persevering spirit and there is no limit to what you can achieve.
“This story is written by M Aslam Waheed. Follow me on LinkedIn, facebook, Youtube, Twitter, and Instagram.”
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