j.j. wolfe: everything you don’t need to know about me
hi, i’m j.j. wolfe. 🖤
i once met a man in starbucks who told me he had recently retired and he had no idea who he was after living an incredible career filled with travel and excitement. he was struggling with how to make sense of the new unoccupied time and space.
he was lost.
we all get lost from time to time.
sometimes we find ourselves lost through loss, love, loneliness, heartbreak, job changes, breakups, divorce, infidelities, illness, death, motherhood, fatherhood, caregiving, aging, menopause, mid-life crisis, job loss, career restarts, empty-nesting, or loss of identity.
damn, getting lost can hurt and feel overwhelming.
i’ve loved hard and i’ve lost big time. i’ve known wild successes and epic, soul-crushing failures.
i’ve lost myself in others. i’ve found myself in the quietness of being alone.
i’ve lost people i’ve loved and trusted, including people i thought were impossible to lose in any capacity. i’ve gained new loves. i’ve learned that trust is well placed when i place it within myself.
what i do
writing keeps me found when i’m lost.
i’m a freelance writer who writes about love, sex, relationships, vulnerability, raw truth, and self-love. i also write erotic instapoetry.
i believe we are here to live our best lives, to create, love hard, and to inspire others to be better and feel more fulfilled in all they do.
i hope my writing inspires you to choose magic and what feels right for you every damn day.
thank you for being here.
where i spend my time writing
i spend a lot of time writing in cafes and coffee shops. i love to write when the morning sun is coming up almost as much as i love writing when my windows are filled with darkness.
my favorite hot, caffeinated beverage: cappuccino
my favorite city on the planet (so far): paris, france
where i live now: france
where i was born & raised: East Coast, USA
what’s in my closet: a box of dusty framed degrees
what i wish i had done sooner: taken my freelance writing career more seriously
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j.j. wolfe 🖤
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