avatarLisa Bolin

Summary

The website content reflects on the theme of solitude, contrasting its potential discomfort with the enriching experience of self-discovery and connection with oneself, as inspired by a visit to St Nectan's Glen and the prompt "alone" by Brett Christensen.

Abstract

The article delves into the dual nature of solitude, acknowledging that while being alone can bring about unwanted and painful thoughts, it can also be a source of comfort and self-awareness. The author shares their personal appreciation for solitude and the balance needed between time alone and human connection. Highlighting the historical significance of St Nectan's Glen in Cornwall, the author ponders the solitary life of Saint Nectan and the broader human experience of isolation, questioning how individuals cope with extended periods of aloneness. The piece concludes with a note of gratitude to Brett Christensen for the inspiration behind the poem "A poem," which embraces the positive aspects of being alone as a means to find oneself and feel less alone.

Opinions

  • The author enjoys solitude and has sought it out during their life, suggesting a personal preference for periods of introspection.
  • There is a recognition that humans require both solitude and social interaction, with an imbalance in either potentially being harmful.
  • The author views isolation as a form of punishment and torture when prolonged, indicating a belief that humans are not meant to endure long-term solitude without human contact.
  • The historical example of Saint Nectan living in seclusion near a waterfall is used to illustrate the spiritual and personal growth that can come from solitude.
  • The article implies that finding oneself and achieving a sense of inner connection can mitigate feelings of loneliness.

Inside

A poem

Image by pasja1000 from Pixabay

I met you. Right here Where you always were. Inside. I’m never alone.

Being alone can be uncomfortable sometimes. Thoughts and feelings can seep in, unwanted and painful. I enjoy being alone. At times in my life, I have craved it. Finding the balance between having time alone and being connected with others can be difficult. I think as humans, we need both. Connection with others and time to ourselves. Too much of either can, perhaps, be detrimental.

I have had the amazing fortune to be able to visit St Nectan’s Glen in Cornwall. This amazing waterfall has been a place of spiritual pilgrimage for people for hundreds of years. Saint Nectan had his hermitage here — he lived alone with the waterfall, the spray, the beautiful ferns, and trees, and apparently rang a bell in stormy weather to help ships avoid the perilous cliffs.

What was it like for him to live alone? How have people coped with long periods of time alone? In isolation. Sometimes in the dark. It is no wonder people have used isolation as a form of punishment and torture. I don’t think we are meant to be alone, without human touch and connection, for long periods.

Thank you to Brett Christensen for his prompt ‘alone.’ I chose to use the word in a positive way, in connection with finding myself and feeling less alone because of it.

~thanks for reading!~

Lisa writes poetry and other things from her home in Finland. She loves to read and write all sorts of things and is currently working on a songwriting project with a friend, as well as a photo & poetry collection.

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