I’m At The End Of My Rope. Ok! I’ll Try Yoga.
After my train-wreck sized life crisis, I gave in and tried Hot Yoga. And I’m so glad I did.

No matter if you caused the mess in your life yourself or if someone else did, you can find immediate relief and you can silence your inner critic when you attend a yoga class.
Heartbreak Sized Stress
My understanding; stress, traumatic stress and PTSD are different magnitudes of the same, genetically coded, automatic response from the brain and body — to cope with danger and difficulty.
Each of these responses can be quantified, not only through my personal experience but also through advanced brain scanning technology that offers an objective look into the state of our minds.
When activated, the stress reflex kicks in our “high-beta-brainwave” state of hyper-attentiveness, and it also releases stress hormones like adrenaline, cortisol to pump up our body for the emergency.
The Role of Yoga in Anxiety and Stress Relief
My world was in ruins and I needed a good workout—for one thing, the guided hot yoga class was the only way I would make myself do the full hour workout.
And another thing, hot yoga was a voluntary way for me to submit myself to a ‘forced meditation’ to help overcome my raging anger and my broken heart.
An hour of hot yoga helped me to ease the high-beta state that I was locked into because of the extreme stress in my life.
Some days I needed two yoga classes before I could change my traumatized mind towards a more calm, composed low beta or alpha brainwave state.
Knowing intellectually that mindful movement and breathing in yoga was supposed to speed my recovery, I focused on this concept desperately as I repeated yoga daily to help cope with my heartbreak, anger, depression and anxiety.
Optimal Yoga Poses for Anxiety and Stress Relief
There are a lot of moves in yoga, and after a thousand plus classes, I began to find that certain pose sequences stand out for their direct effectiveness in stress relief.
I focused on the energy center in our solar plexus area, and I found best effect for clearing the emotional memory centers was using a series of body bends and twists.
In other words, it was the core body focus, with long slow breaths: the forward and back bends, the side to side bends and core twisting left and right.
Working the abdomen and heart centers through their full range of motion, while attending to breath, combined to help produce the most profound emotional shifts.
Choosing the Right Yoga Classes and Courses

At the peak of my stress, I needed a guided yoga class followed by a guided meditation at home afterwards. I needed the in-person yoga class in a ‘silent room’, with a group of people.
Doing yoga from an app or an video just didn’t cut it at all.
If I try to do a session of yoga at home, I never get the same workout intensity. I never stick at it for the full hour… and I just don’t work the poses as deeply when I’m doing yoga alone.
Fortunately for me, I live in a center where we have several different large and successful yoga studios. I moved two blocks away from a yoga school with many different teachers and about 30 classes per week to choose from.
Embracing Change Through Yoga
Yoga is a way to change my brain waves so I can actually meditate on the emotions of gratitude and joy. In the tranquil post-yoga state, the mind opens, creating fertile ground for rehearsing feelings that promote healing and acceptance.
At first, the post-yoga bliss was fleeting. With every practice, I cleared out the emotional toxins from my body and rehearsed new emotions.
KNOWING Is Not Enough
Changing my thinking with new knowledge was not enough… I read self help books for decades and continued to struggle.
Instead, I learned that I must feel the emotions of those new thoughts and I must teach my body by rehearsing these new feelings and new intentions at the end of every yoga class.
Yoga, breathwork and emotional rehearsal meditations work together to train the entire ‘brain orchestra’ at the same time.
We Need To KNOW HOW

If you are feeling overwhelmed and at the end of your rope… try a yoga class at a studio near you. Find a big one so you can grab a spot in the silent room - and just move and breath with the group. And just as surely as you gain in fitness, you’ll feel relief after class.
It may be the first time you have felt relief from your anger in a long while. Try it. Prove to yourself that you CAN change the way you feel from within and soon the stresses from the outside loose their power.
Keep at it, and you’ll start to notice that you can maintain the post-yoga state of ease, that you can silence that incessant inner critic for longer and longer periods after the yoga class!






