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you discover <b>you are enough just the way you are</b>.</p><p id="2346">There are always things and people we can be grateful for. Having a roof over your head. Having a job. Sometimes, any job. Having clothes to wear.</p><p id="fc51">A gratitude list shifts your perspective from “<i>I don’t have enough”</i> into “<i>I am enough”.</i></p><p id="4351">Gratitude changes your energy. <b>And how you feel, you attract.</b></p><p id="189d">When you start feeling better, you make better decisions. You don’t focus on the ugly but get mesmerized by the beauty of this world. Your entire life shifts.</p><blockquote id="1cba"><p><b>The only way we can change our lives is to change our energy — to change the electromagnetic field we are constantly broadcasting. In other words, to change our state of being, we have to change how we think and how we feel.</b></p></blockquote><blockquote id="e1a4"><p>― Joe Dispenza</p></blockquote><h1 id="2673">Change criticism into gratitude.</h1><p id="7fbd">Criticism will not get you far in life. It is toxic.</p><p id="4d66">Your relationships will deteriorate. Your self-esteem will plummet. You will destroy, everything you have worked for in your life.</p><p id="cdbb">While criticism ruins your life, <a href="https://readmedium.com/5-easy-ways-to-attract-unlimited-blessings-into-your-life-a21d211bd5de"><b>gratitude levels it up</b></a><b>.</b></p><p id="0f72">Nobody likes to be criticized. It is pointless. It may give you a short-lived satisfaction, but in the end, it wreaks havoc.</p><p id="1c79">When you judge, your life lacks love, satisfaction, and happiness.</p><p id="ecc1">When the habit of criticizing kicks in, take a deep breath. Calm down your thoughts.</p><p id="6be4">Remember all the nice things that person did for you.</p><p id="fd2f">Appreciate their existence in your life.</p><p id="41af">Better yet, express gratitude out loud to that person. <a href="https://readmedium.com/5-uncomfortable-truths-that-improve-your-relationships-bd1375aa2bce">It will make the relationship stronger.</a></p><blockquote id="63f8"><p><b>The pleasure of criticizing takes away from us the pleasure of being moved by some very fine things.</b></p></blockquote><blockquote id="fb29"><p>– Jean de La Bruyère</p></blockquote><h1 id="afcf">Give thanks for every obstacle.</h1><p id="fc16">We have learnt to perceive failure and challenges as undesirable.</p><p id="1807">When things go wrong, we panic, complain and avoid taking responsibility for our mistakes.</p><p id="ca49">It is the opposite behaviour of successful people.</p><p id="2277">One of the hallmarks of successful people is<a href="https://readmedium.com/5-simple-hacks-to-a-simple-life-33c3686d611d"> <b>the ability to handle ambiguity</b></a>.</p><p id="e203">Business sharks don’t approach challenges as hardships but as an opportunity.</p><p id="3c68">Shying away from failures will present you with perfectionism, avoidance, and missed chances.</p><p id="931d">But when you approach every event as an opportunity to learn and get better at something, your life soars. All because you have changed how you perceive obstacles.</p><p id="a823">There’s nothing more powerful that will arm you to fearlessly face the world like giving thanks for every challenge that comes your way.</p><blockquote id="17ed"><p><b>Embracing each challenge can turn it into a privilege.</b></p></blockquote><blockqu

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ote id="a9ee"><p>― Tonmoy Acharjee</p></blockquote><h1 id="82b4">Gratitude promotes an abundant mindset.</h1><p id="304c">Gratitude is the primary form of receivership.</p><p id="f8fa">It keeps you focused on what you still do have.</p><p id="91d4">You may have lost a loved one or a job. You may have hurt somebody.</p><p id="d644">Those events don’t make your life meaningless. There is still so much to smile about.</p><p id="2826" type="7">With every loss comes an opportunity to focus on the things you do have.</p><p id="e73f">People love being appreciated. <a href="https://readmedium.com/3-simple-yet-powerful-habits-that-attract-money-c972eb8b7571">Money thrives on gratitude</a>. <a href="https://readmedium.com/are-you-ready-to-boost-your-immune-system-25cf11c9afa2">Your health gets better when you give thanks</a>. Those things represent abundance in its purest form.</p><p id="d4e0">Don’t waste your days thinking about all the possibilities your life can grow wrong. Focus on those aspects that make you fly.</p><blockquote id="861b"><p><b>Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.</b></p></blockquote><blockquote id="84cc"><p>— Epicurus</p></blockquote><p id="48e2">You are fortunate to be alive.</p><p id="d753">You are lucky to be here on Earth, with us.</p><p id="cead">You can use your energy to get better every day instead of complaining.</p><p id="4f19">You get to love and share your kindness and laughter with others.</p><p id="1a5b">Gratitude works because it makes you feel better. When you feel better you take care of yourself; your body, mind and your relationships. Your health thrives. There is no complicated science behind it.</p><p id="0f96">Gratitude is simple and it makes your life effortless.</p><blockquote id="d348"><p><b>If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, “thank you,” that would suffice.</b></p></blockquote><blockquote id="98df"><p>— Meister Eckhart</p></blockquote><p id="e14f"><i>I appreciate you being here, — Kate</i></p><div id="bb02" class="link-block"> <a href="https://kaportka.medium.com/membership"> <div> <div> <h2>Join Medium with my referral link - Katarzyna Portka</h2> <div><h3>Have unlimited access to my thoughts (and thousands of other writers on Medium). Your membership fee directly supports…</h3></div> <div><p>kaportka.medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*RdXwst4XO16BARvt)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="e11d" class="link-block"> <a href="https://kaportka.medium.com/your-ordinary-life-isnt-the-problem-the-culture-is-11a78f8c90f4"> <div> <div> <h2>Your Ordinary Life Isn’t the Problem. The Culture Is.</h2> <div><h3>How to turn your ordinary life into an extraordinary one.</h3></div> <div><p>kaportka.medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*BIqZhuGrser9E2FIiQKBOw.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

If You Want to Manifest a Better Life, Start With This One Ritual.

Saying ‘thank you’ is simple and super effective.

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One simple action can change your life.

Discovering the power of “thank you” had an epic impact on my life.

My life is not perfect, but gratitude made it so.

I used to wake up thinking, What can I give more today? What is the next step I need to chase? As a result, I felt depleted, unappreciated and unhappy.

Once I got serious about expressing gratitude and finding my life enough the way it is, everything has changed.

Gratitude helped me find the meaning of life.

If you contemplate whether gratitude can change your life, I can assure you it will.

How can you incorporate gratitude into your days?

Make it a morning habit.

Gratitude is a skill you cultivate. It is not a given. You need to build the habit from the ground up.

If you are a fan of writing, buy a beautiful journal, the one that will please your eyes when lying on your desk.

Create a morning ritual to write down five things, people, and events you are grateful for today or every day.

Think of people who have done something nice to you. That friend who bought you a cupcake for your birthday, even though you haven’t been in touch for a while.

Think what a privilege it is to experience the mesmerizing colours of the fall, get cosy in your favourite sweaters and enjoy morning coffee on the porch.

List little things that come to your mind.

Five things are enough to glorify your day and help you start it off right.

The secret is to never lose sight of the simple, everyday miracles in life. Good food, literature, laughter, music, compelling conversation, nature, and art. Look for them in every day, and even when it feels like your whole world is unravelling, you will never be too far from a needle and thread.

— Beau Taplin

Having a tough time? Make a gratitude list.

When you spiral down into negative thoughts, it is crucial to stop the momentum from rolling down the hill.

It is easy to get caught up in pessimistic thinking, especially in the era of glossy social media. One negative thought fuels another.

Gratitude is the perfect way to break the loop.

The habit of gratitude wipes out the comparison from your life. Instead of chasing to become more, you discover you are enough just the way you are.

There are always things and people we can be grateful for. Having a roof over your head. Having a job. Sometimes, any job. Having clothes to wear.

A gratitude list shifts your perspective from “I don’t have enough” into “I am enough”.

Gratitude changes your energy. And how you feel, you attract.

When you start feeling better, you make better decisions. You don’t focus on the ugly but get mesmerized by the beauty of this world. Your entire life shifts.

The only way we can change our lives is to change our energy — to change the electromagnetic field we are constantly broadcasting. In other words, to change our state of being, we have to change how we think and how we feel.

― Joe Dispenza

Change criticism into gratitude.

Criticism will not get you far in life. It is toxic.

Your relationships will deteriorate. Your self-esteem will plummet. You will destroy, everything you have worked for in your life.

While criticism ruins your life, gratitude levels it up.

Nobody likes to be criticized. It is pointless. It may give you a short-lived satisfaction, but in the end, it wreaks havoc.

When you judge, your life lacks love, satisfaction, and happiness.

When the habit of criticizing kicks in, take a deep breath. Calm down your thoughts.

Remember all the nice things that person did for you.

Appreciate their existence in your life.

Better yet, express gratitude out loud to that person. It will make the relationship stronger.

The pleasure of criticizing takes away from us the pleasure of being moved by some very fine things.

– Jean de La Bruyère

Give thanks for every obstacle.

We have learnt to perceive failure and challenges as undesirable.

When things go wrong, we panic, complain and avoid taking responsibility for our mistakes.

It is the opposite behaviour of successful people.

One of the hallmarks of successful people is the ability to handle ambiguity.

Business sharks don’t approach challenges as hardships but as an opportunity.

Shying away from failures will present you with perfectionism, avoidance, and missed chances.

But when you approach every event as an opportunity to learn and get better at something, your life soars. All because you have changed how you perceive obstacles.

There’s nothing more powerful that will arm you to fearlessly face the world like giving thanks for every challenge that comes your way.

Embracing each challenge can turn it into a privilege.

― Tonmoy Acharjee

Gratitude promotes an abundant mindset.

Gratitude is the primary form of receivership.

It keeps you focused on what you still do have.

You may have lost a loved one or a job. You may have hurt somebody.

Those events don’t make your life meaningless. There is still so much to smile about.

With every loss comes an opportunity to focus on the things you do have.

People love being appreciated. Money thrives on gratitude. Your health gets better when you give thanks. Those things represent abundance in its purest form.

Don’t waste your days thinking about all the possibilities your life can grow wrong. Focus on those aspects that make you fly.

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.

— Epicurus

You are fortunate to be alive.

You are lucky to be here on Earth, with us.

You can use your energy to get better every day instead of complaining.

You get to love and share your kindness and laughter with others.

Gratitude works because it makes you feel better. When you feel better you take care of yourself; your body, mind and your relationships. Your health thrives. There is no complicated science behind it.

Gratitude is simple and it makes your life effortless.

If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, “thank you,” that would suffice.

— Meister Eckhart

I appreciate you being here, — Kate

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