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The website content reflects on the uncertainties of life and the pursuit of individual understanding amidst societal pressures to conform.

Abstract

The article "If I only knew then ... what I know now…" delves into the complexities of human experience, acknowledging that life is often akin to a guessing game where each person is trying to find their way. It criticizes the historical tendency of humans to impose their beliefs and systems onto others, often under the guise of 'knowing best.' The author argues that while order is necessary in society, it should not come at the expense of individual opinions and paths. The piece questions the certainty of knowledge and the authority of traditional figures such as teachers, political leaders, and spiritual masters, suggesting that personal discernment is crucial. It encourages readers to recognize the validity of their own opinions and to navigate life on their own terms, advocating for kindness and acceptance in the process.

Opinions

  • Life is a guessing game where everyone is trying to find their own way.
  • Historical exploration and cultural imposition have been driven by individual agendas and the desire for control.
  • Societal rules and laws are necessary for order but should not diminish the importance of individual opinions.
  • Traditional figures of authority, such as teachers, political leaders, and spiritual masters, may not have all the answers.
  • Personal discernment is more valuable than blindly following societal norms or doctrines.
  • The expectation to conform to certain behaviors and beliefs is pervasive but not mandatory for personal fulfillment.
  • The author emphasizes the importance of accepting others and respecting boundaries while maintaining one's own path.
  • The article suggests that no one truly knows what they are doing, and thus, individuals should prioritize finding their own way in life.
  • The piece promotes a message of peace, love, and the acceptance of diverse perspectives.

If I only knew then …

what I know now…

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Life is all a guess. Maybe a game- who knows?

Now, I clearly see everyone is just really trying to find their own way.

People hold a diverse amount of information.

However, no one really knows what the * they are doing.

Throughout history, as humans, we have explored- slaughtered cultures- and shoved our philosophies and religions upon others.

Individual agendas are often at the forefront. Many attempt to gain “control” of others and maintain that they know best. Whatever “best” is… On the other hand, maybe some simply do not want “control”. However, the agenda is pushed and then pushed some more. Sometimes shoved…

This is clear in politics, parent/ child relationships, marriage, employment, love connections, and even academic studies. We create “rules”, “laws” to have some assembly of order in society. I get it. We need some order in civilization.

But, why are your opinions more important than mine? Or anyone else.

Does anyone really know anything for sure?

What may be the path for you and your opinion may not be the path for others. The best we can hope for is the skill of discernment. The ability to navigate our world — this time around- to serve our purpose and meaning.

So often we take what others say and think we should do or be as a god-given doctrine in our lives. Why? I guess because it is what we are sculpted to do. Many do not have the courage to deviate from that path. Please get it out of your mind that I am speaking of deviant behavior or outright rebellion. I am not, I am just referring to the fact that no one knows what the * they are really doing — we just try our best each day to make our way- whatever that is for us. ( I placed the grammar “rules” aside for emphasis :0)

I can clarify with some solid examples to make my point:

Did those teachers I had in my early life ( and looked up to) really know anything about life/ love and navigating our world? Sequestered nuns in a convent.

Did the past or current politics of the United States implement a secure future for any of us? No, but it surely provided a great divide.

Did my family ever care what I had to say? The youngest knows the least.

Do my employers really know who I am? I am only judged on my performance and current demeanor.

Did my marriage only serve a purpose because that was the expectation? Yes.

Does the spiritual master really “see” what is beyond? Who knows?

Write this way,

talk that way,

dress this way,

behave that way.

Follow what I say.

Follow what I do.

I know best.

Follow the stars/ numbers/ chakra points?

Why? To fit in?

I don’t. I don’t fit in. I am good with that.

I understand boundaries and I believe they are important constructs. I do not infringe on anyone and accept. Just accept. That is my point in this piece.

Find discernment and realize your opinion is just as important as anyone else.

No one knows what the * they are doing- so, just find your way.

Be kind in the process.

Peace/ love and all that Hippie Shit.

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