I Wish We Could Talk

Summary

The author expresses a longing for the return of civil discourse and the ability to engage with differing opinions without division or hostility.

Abstract

The author reflects on a time when political differences did not lead to division but rather sparked open and respectful discussions. They recount an instance where a Facebook friend, also known in real life, requested to be unfriended by anyone who voted differently. The author complied but regrets the loss of diverse perspectives, emphasizing the importance of lively yet civil debates and the mutual growth that comes from sharing ideas without fear of attack. The piece also invites readers to consider what they miss in the current divisive climate and offers the author's personal reflections on the power of words and their novel on forgiveness and reconciliation.

Opinions

The author values diverse opinions and regrets the loss of civil discourse in the face of political differences.
There is a concern about living in an echo chamber and the stifling effect it has on personal and societal growth.
The author believes in the constructive nature of discussions where differing viewpoints are expressed and considered.
They miss the ability to express opinions freely without the fear of being attacked or censored.
The author sees the sharing of ideas as an opportunity for mutual persuasion and finding common ground.
They advocate for

On election night, a Facebook friend (who I also know in the real world) told me to unfriend her.

Not me, specifically — her message was directed to anyone who voted for the candidate she opposed.

I obliged.

It saddened me because I don’t want to live in an echo chamber. I don’t want to interact solely with people who share all of my opinions.

I miss lively but civil discussions with people who don’t have the same points of view or life experiences.

I miss being able to freely express my opinion to those who disagree with me without fear of being attacked (an insidious form of censorship).

I miss sharing ideas and, in the process, persuading others and being persuaded myself.

I miss finding common ground and moving forward on that foundation.

I miss giving and taking time to process information, to grow and evolve in some cases, to be validated and stand firm in others.

What about you? What are you missing in these divisive times?

Here’s a little more about me:

My novel, Choices, is a story of forgiveness and reconciliation.

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Photos by Jerry D. Clement; text added by Jacquelyn Lynn

I Wish We Could Talk

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