I Was Shocked When My Husband Suggested I Pursue A Sexy Hotwife Experience
Much to my surprise, this experience wasn’t just for my benefit
This story was inspired by a Bukake challenge proposed by the always creative mind of Jeff Ehren. While I must admit I’m a Bukake virgin, his suggestion did make me reflect on how a subset of hotwives use cum in our relationships not for humiliation but for mutual pleasure and satisfaction.
I’ve also decided to borrow a technique Keeva Black employs in her writing when she refers to her husband. In my case, I’ll call my husband Mr. du Journey.
Sex, sexuality, ethical non-monogamy, and hotwifing have been my focus for the past few years. At our house, many Friday night conversations with Mr. du Journey touch on these topics.
In fact, it was during one of these conversations, Mr. du Journey suggested I consider trying a hotwife experience. He thought a hotwife experience would empower me to meet other men.
Little did I know, I wasn’t going to be the only one to reap rewards from this experience.
As you can see read in this definition of a hotwife, the married woman often pursues extramarital relationships with the awareness of her husband. This is true in my case. While my Mr. du Journey suggested I consider trying a hotwife experience, it was fully within my power to refuse.
Even when I was younger and single, I’d never accepted any of the sexual advances from older, married men. I never wanted to be the other woman. Doing so would go against my ethical principles.
While some of these might have had a positive effect on my career, the thought of using my sexuality to get ahead was distasteful to me.
Ethical Non-Monogamy
Prior to our discussion about hotwifing, I’d informed Mr. du Journey monogamy wasn’t in my nature. He accepted that I needed a variety of men in my life. My intellectual and sexual needs would never be satisfied by one man.
Long before we met, Mr. du Journey had had a relationship with an older woman. A psychologist, she’d introduced him to the swinging lifestyle. These experiences taught him a lot about female sexuality and made him the man he is today.
I enjoyed sharing tales of my sexual adventures.
At this point in our marriage, we’ve been swingers for nearly a decade. While the swinging lifestyle satisfied some of my need for sexual variety, I still wasn’t fully in control. At parties, I’d often disappear to have sex with other men but I’d always return to Mr. du Journey. I enjoyed sharing tales of my sexual adventures with him.
I suspect it was from these experiences, Mr. du Journey thought I needed to orchestrate my own sexual adventures.
Hotwife seeking sexual adventure
At first, when Mr. du Journey first suggested I use Tinder as a way to meet men. I didn’t really know what to think. Was he suggesting we go our separate ways? Or, was he really letting me explore independently of him?
After a few more conversations and some nudging and encouragement from Mr. du Journey, I realized the hotwife experience was something I had to do solo.
Flying solo
Initially, I carefully sifted through images on Tinder. Swiping left more often than right.
My rules of engagement were pretty simple. If the man shared the same name as my son or Mr. du Journey they were immediately eliminated. Others, I texted with briefly trying to determine where they lived. If they lived in my community, they were also nixed.
I always listened to my intuition and learned from my experiences.
Because of my commitment to ethical non-monogamy, I spent a fair amount of time trying to determine if the men on Tinder were really single. Some pretended to be single but really weren’t. Others pretended to be in open relationships but really weren’t. Eventually, I discovered the easiest way to find out was to ask if they could host. If they couldn’t, they were out.
But, like everything in life, I always listened to my intuition and learned from my experiences.
Eventually, one of these right swipes looked promising. We talked on the phone. Then, we met for a drink. Shortly after, we met in his apartment.
The was the first time I’d had sex bareback with a man other than my [husband] in years.
Did we have sex? Yes.
Was it earth shattering? No. But the first time with anyone rarely is. This was the first time I’d had sex bareback with a man other than Mr. du Journey in years.
While I was used to having my pussy filled by Mr. du Journey, this somehow felt different. There was something really empowering about having another man’s cum in my pussy. I felt like I’d made a conquest. I felt like a goddess.
In his book, Insatiable Wives: Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them, Clinical Psychologist and Author David J. Ley, devotes an entire chapter to something he calls the “fecund fluids.” His usage of this term can be attributed to D.H. Lawrence’s book The Rainbow.
A large number of men find semen erotic.
Ley references research conducted by Uri Wernik who was surprised to discover a large number of men find semen erotic. In particular, they were turned on by another man’s semen being in or on their wife. They found this idea to be very stimulating.
But wait a moment, this story is about to get a lot more interesting.
As I began my drive home, I called Mr. du Journey. Making this call is part of my rules engagement. For personal safety reasons, I always do.
For some reason tonight, I felt the need to share some of the naughty details of my evening with him. Perhaps it was instinct or intuition. I thought he’d like to hear about my first experience as a hotwife.
As we started talking, I told him how much I enjoyed being fucked by this other man. I described in detail how he touched me differently and how much I’d enjoyed it.
Then, I began telling him about my wet pussy. I told him how I wanted him to take me when I got home and fill my pussy with his cum until it overflowed.
I expected them to fill my pussy with cum
At the time, I didn’t know Mr. du Journey would be turned on by the graphic details of my hotwife experience. Call it female intuition. But it certainly defined many of my future experiences. Some of my regulars knew if they wanted to fuck me I expected them to fill my pussy with cum so I could be fucked again at home by Mr. du Journey.
When I arrived home, Mr. du Journey was waiting for me. As I walked in, he grabbed me in his arms and pulled me tight against his body. I could feel his powerful erection against my body.
He loosened his grasp and led me up the stairs to our bedroom. Standing in the darkened room, he lifted my blouse off brushing his hands lightly over my nipples.
My erect nipples were crying for more attention as he moved his hands to unbutton my leather jeans. As he slid his hands under my waistband, my zipper gave way. He shifted my body to the bed where began peeling my jeans down the long length of my legs.
Once I was naked, Mr. du Journey stepped out of his jeans. I took a deep breath. That’s what I wanted. My pussy needed to feel Mr. du Journey inside me. I wanted him to thrust his cock forcefully inside my pussy until his cum explodes into every crevice.
At the start of my hotwife adventure, I thought it was going to be very one-sided.
It is only at this point when both of us could relax in each other's arms and feel content. At the start of my hotwife adventure, I thought it was going to be very one-sided. I think this is the aspect of it that made me feel uncomfortable. I’m still not sure exactly how and when this experience shifted from being solo into something that brought us closer together but it did. All I do know is that I’m very happy it did.
While Mr. du Journey is the strong, silent type who has never articulated exactly how he feels when I come home with my pussy filled with another man’s cum, I now know it turns him on. In fact, as I’m driving home after a hotwife adventure, I always call to tell him my pussy is filled. I know that he’ll spend the next half hour fantasizing how his cock will replace the other man’s cum in my pussy.
It is this dominance over my pussy Mr. du Journey now enjoys talking about. He has also read Ley’s book. While I’m now past my fertile years, I know I’m part of a small percentage of women who demand immediate intercourse with my husband after I’ve had sex with another man.
When one of our female swinging friends recently asked Mr. du Journey, what he gets out of my hotwife experiences, he just smiled at her and said nothing.
But as his hotwife, I know differently.
© Copyright, Belle de Journey 2021
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