I Found a Gap in the World of Porn

Where’s the JOI porn for straight women?

Until recently, I had no idea JOI porn existed.

JOI is short of Jerk Off Instruction and they’re videos of porn performers (usually amateurs) walking the viewer through a masturbation session. They’ll give step-by-step instructions and some verbal and visual encouragement. And if you’re into it, there are videos where the performer will humiliate you throughout.

Naturally, I got to wondering if there are JOI videos for women. If so, I wanted to try one out. A guided masturbation session should be quite an interesting experience.

As far as I could tell, there were only upsides.

It would be a fun way to get off.

It would be interactive, which is cool.

It would feel more personal than your run of the mill jill off material.

Having someone tell me what to do while I’m getting off would also appeal to my submissive side.

And it was just something different that I hadn’t tried yet. As far as I’m concerned, that’s a good enough reason on its own.

All I had to do was actually find some videos.

Slim Pickings

Since these videos provide masturbation instructions, the performers tell you what to do with your junk. So, it matters that you have the right junk for the right video. I’m not sure I could get into the experience if I was listening to some woman tell me to slowly rub the head of my cock, y’know?

I looked for JOI videos specifically women.

I’d say there were slim pickings but that really doesn’t do justice to how little of this stuff is out there.

I tried every search term I could think of.

Jill off instructions.

JOI for women.

Female JOI.

Female masturbation instructions.

It didn’t matter. I could barely find anything.

I found two videos. Two. That’s it.

The first one was by a Scottish man who jerked himself off while talking dirty. That’s fine, I guess, but he didn’t give any instructions. If I was going to jill off to this, I’d have to freestyle and that’s just not what I was looking to do.

That left me with one video. One dude who was kind enough to walk me through my solo session.

So, I got comfortable and loaded the video.

I didn’t bother skimming through it or checking out the quality ahead of time. If I was going to have the JOI experience, it would have to be with this dude. Quality be damned — I’m doing it for science.

The video starts and I find out that my jill off instructor has a screen partner: a Fleshlight with panties on it.

Oh boy. Here we go.

He talks to the Fleshlight, saying things like “Oh yeah, baby, you look so good in your panties.”

(I know. I’d normally close the browser at this point, too.)

He spends a while touching the Fleshlight through its underwear. Eventually, he slides the panties aside and I see that the Fleshlight is already lubed up and wet.

He rubs it, plays with its clit (well, where its clit would be), and fingers it while talking dirty.

I realize at this point that the JOI in the title is a misnomer. This guy isn’t going to tell me what to do, either. But I’m a woman, so I’m used to settling and I keep watching.

Then, the video takes a turn. After playing with it for a while, the dude I’m watching decides to lick the Fleshlight. And he’s really slurpy about it, too.

I feel the need to tell you that this didn’t exactly do it for me. Guys fucking sleeves and pocket pussies is hot. Guys licking them? Not my thing.

But I was already fingers deep at this point. There was no turning back. I was determined to see this thing through to the end.

At this point, I was just getting off to the dirty talk. I focused on that instead of watching him lick silicone.

I got there. By the end of the video, I had made myself come. But I couldn’t help feeling disappointed. I was planning a deep dive into the world of JOI for women. Instead, there was barely enough for me to wade in.

It was just me, some dude, and his Fleshlight, wondering why the hell there is so little of this material online.

Guys, Give Us a Hand Here

Until recently, I had no idea JOI porn existed. And no wonder. It’s practically a desert out there when it comes to JOI aimed at women.

It’s a really weird feeling to look for porn and find out it doesn’t exist. I thought the whole point of porn is that there’s porn of everything. If I can search for “Bowsette” and find multiple videos, I should be able to find JOI for women.

JOI for women isn’t even that weird of a concept. And I really can’t be the only one who wants this kind of stuff.

There must be an audience of women who would like men to walk them through their jill off session. Whether they’re doing it commandingly or encouragingly, there’s a lot to like about the concept.

I can’t imagine it’s a demand problem. That means there’s an issue with the supply. The amateur male performers out there just aren’t making these kinds of videos.

So, come on guys. Don’t leave us wanking ladies hanging. Turn on your cameras, tell us what to do to ourselves, and make our self-love feel a little less lonely.

Since writing this article, I’ve discovered porn aimed at women that has a very nice JOI element to it. Check out my review of it here.

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