I Finally Found a Toy That Eats Me Out

A review of Lelo’s Ora 3

Lately, it seems like the whole world has been raving about oral sex toys. And I feel left out.

The problem is, all those toys are clit suckers. They apply pulsing, pressure, or suction directly to the clit to deliver what is supposed to be an amazing orgasm.

Naturally, I had to try them.

And all it made me feel was disappointed.

Well, that’s not true. I felt a lot of other things. Overstimulated. Kind of sore. Weirded out by the sensations it gave me. And jealous that everyone was having the time of their lives with these clit suckers and I could barely handle it.

I want so badly to be part of the fun that I keep trying to train my body to enjoy suction. Once in a while, I’ll ask my husband to suck my clit. Just to see.

Every time, it’s the same result. No matter how hard he sucks and no matter what shape he makes with his mouth, it feels somewhere between “okay, that’s just weird” and “woah, that’s way too much!”

So, clit sucking just isn’t for me. And that bums me out because oral sex is my favorite kind of sex, but it’s the only thing I can’t simulate with any of my sex toys.

Clit suckers didn’t work for me. I tried one that had flicking, vibrating petals that were meant to feel kind of like a tongue but didn’t feel like a tongue at all. I even once tried a wheel of silicone tongues and it felt about as weird as it looked.

I had basically given up on simulated oral sex. Maybe the technology wasn’t there. Maybe it would never be. It’s fine. Vibrators are plenty of fun even if they can’t eat me out.

But then I heard about the Ora 3.

The Ora 3 is a sex toy by Lelo that honestly doesn’t look like much at first glance. It’s a fancy-looking ring lined with silicone on the outside.

When I saw a video of one in action, though, I had to try it.

There’s a nub that pokes out of one side of the ring, pressing against the silicone. When it’s turned on, that nub runs in circles.

It looked just like the tip of a tongue and circles happen to be my favorite oral sex move. There are a lot of ways a tongue can finish me off, but running rings around my clit is one of the most reliable and satisfying ways to get me there.

It’s also closer to what oral sex looks like to me. I know clit sucking is a big finishing move for a lot of women, but when I think of eating pussy, I think of a tongue doing its work. That’s really what I want out of an oral sex toy, and the Ora seemed like it might actually be able to give it to me.

Just What My Sensitive Clit Needed

The first time I tried the Ora, I used it in bed.

It has 12 vibration and pattern settings, and controls to set the level of intensity for each of them.

The setting I was the most interested in, though, was the most basic one. I wanted to try it without vibrations. I just wanted to feel the nub going in circles and semicircles, over and over.

I applied some hybrid lube to make sure it felt wet and I got a bit more of that oral sensation.

It felt good almost immediately, but I needed a little trial and error to find the perfect location for it.

I’ve never used a toy that’s anything like this, so I didn’t have a strong sense of how to hold and place it.

I spread my lips, moved it around, and very quickly discovered which parts of my clit are the most sensitive.

Once I got it right, it gave me a hit of good feelings and I knew I was in for something really pleasurable.

The Ora isn’t a very strong toy. The stimulation I got from it was subtle. But it was enough for me. I’ve got a very sensitive clit and the toy gently circling around it was all it took to bring me to an orgasm.

I imagine most women might not be able to come just from those motions, but that’s where the vibrations come in. Those give a much stronger sensation.

The Ora was really fun to use, but it was missing some of the things you get out of oral sex. It wasn’t warm like a tongue would be. It also only acts like the tip of the tongue. It doesn’t simulate the feeling of a soft tongue lapping up and down your pussy.

But what it does, it does really well. That tongue-tip feeling is close to the real thing. Actually, it’s even better in some ways because it keeps the same speed, applies the same pressure, and doesn’t slow down or speed up when you’re about to finish.

I was already very impressed with this little ring, but I wanted to use it a few more ways before making up my mind.

More Fun Than a Rubber Ducky

The Ora 3 is waterproof, so I brought it with me the next time I took a bath.

Using sex toys in the bath is always a little trickier because I can’t use lube.

Water-based lubes (including hybrid lube) just melts into the water. Silicone-based lube works, but I can’t use it with silicone toys (and all my favorite toys are silicone toys). And because water washes away natural lubrication, using sex toys in the bath feels quite dry compared to using them in bed.

But I still insist on it because my bath time is when I’m most relaxed. It only makes sense to jill off during that time. So, lube or no lube, I find a way.

I filled the tub with warm water, settled myself in, played some choice audio porn on my phone, and turned on the Ora.

I wasn’t sure the toy would do well in the bath, but I was pleasantly surprised. It worked even better in the water than it did when I used it in bed.

I think it’s precisely because there was no lube. The extra friction actually worked in its favor. I could feel the motions better and my clit got more stimulation from it.

This time, I really noticed the work it was doing. The nub wasn’t touching my clit directly, but as it passed around, it kept hitting a sensitive spot. Each time, it was like it flicked against my clit, which felt really fucking good.

This session with the Ora ended with an amazing orgasm. It was stronger than the one I gave myself using it the first time, and stronger than I can normally get when jilling off in water.

It worked so well that the Ora is my rubber ducky now. It’s the only toy I play with in the bath.

Exploring Its Full Potential

A toy that simulates oral sex is fun for when you can’t get it. But it might be even more fun to use with a partner.

I’ve used a thruster with my husband before. I wanted to see what it was like to get fucked while he went down on me.

It’s top notch, by the way. 10 out of 10.

I wanted to see if the reverse would be fun — being fucked by my husband while getting oral from a toy.

When our foreplay session was coming to a close, I brought out the Ora. While Mr. Austin’s fingers were rubbing my clit, I turned on the toy, without vibrations again, and pressed it to my nipple.

It felt so much better than I anticipated. And there was something really satisfying about the sensation of his fingers and the toy running the same circles on me, only on different parts of my body.

The fingers on my clit and the toy on my nipple combined to give me a really good, blended orgasm.

And then it was time to see just how much action I could get out of these two.

Mr. Austin kneeled in front of me and held my legs up by the ankles. He thrusted his cock into me slowly, leaving me plenty of room to hold the Ora to my pussy and find the right spot for it.

He increased his speed, thrusting faster while the toy worked diligently.

The Ora kept going steadily the whole time, which is not unusual for a toy but is for a human.

One of the tricky things about double stimulation is that I love getting my clit rubbed while I’m being fucked, but I need the clit play to be slower and less intense than the fucking.

Asking my husband to do that is kind of like asking him to pat his head while rubbing his stomach. He tries, but it’s hard for him to fuck me harder without getting more vigorous with his fingers, too.

Using the toy meant I didn’t have to worry about that at all.

It was really hot and it was just yet another confirmation that getting eaten out while being fucked would feel absolutely amazing. I’m not sure I’ll ever get to experience that with two partners, but the Ora gives me a way to live out that fantasy (and come really hard while I do).

Keep Your Man, But Get a Great Oral Toy

Every toy that claims to simulate oral sex has disappointed me, except for this one.

The Ora is also the only toy I really enjoyed using the vibration patterns on.

Usually, I can’t get off with a vibrator unless the vibrations are steady. But there’s just something about the way the Ora combines the circling with the vibrations that just works no matter what setting I use. Even though the vibrations would stop, the circling still gave a lot of continuous pleasure. And the contrast of the two kinds of stimulation playing against each other was incredible.

Vibrations aside, it’s the most accurate simulation of oral sex I’ve experienced.

Don’t get me wrong, it doesn’t feel exactly like there’s a man between my thighs, lapping at my pussy. If I closed my eyes while using the Ora, I wouldn’t get confused about what’s happening down there.

But I’m impressed by how close it comes to it.

So, don’t throw out your man just yet, but do expand your options. A toy like the Ora can add a unique experience to your masturbation sessions.

It might not beat the real deal, but it’s the next best thing. It doesn’t get tired, it doesn’t fuck up the speed and rhythm, and you won’t even feel guilty if you don’t reciprocate.

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