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I Feel Sexy Being a Curvy MILF

Feeling hot comes in all shapes and sizes

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I can’t remember the last time I was a size 2.

I think maybe when I was 14 years old? Even then I was a freshman in high school, starving myself to stay as small as my group of girlfriends. There was that one time while playing soccer that I passed out on the field in front of my teammates and family. That was the last time I let society dictate what I should look like.

I’m one of the lucky ones. I learned from a young age that there are many forms of beauty and that we’re not all made to look like the tiny models in the magazines that were prevalent in the 1990s and early 2000s. While I’m a big believer in the idea that all women are beautiful, we thick girls are just having our time now. Let us soak it in a minute.

I weigh 180 lbs. I am 5'6" and typically wear a size 10–12.

I can walk 5 miles without getting winded, lift 75 lbs in 3 sets of 25 and I’ve hiked more mountains than I can count. I work out four times per week. Oh yeah, I’ve also carried and birthed two 9 lb babies.

I have a chronic illness that makes it hard for me to lose weight and keep it off. I’ve tried every diet on the planet, and yet my weight has remained the same for the past six years. I’ve finally come to the realization that this is where I’m intended to be. My doctor tells me that my blood pressure is good, my cholesterol is where it needs to be and overall I’m in great health.

What is the point of this all?

I fucking love being a curvy MILF.

Participating in the swinging lifestyle, acting as an occasional hotwife, and being a true bisexual woman have made me more open with my body and sexuality than most. I’ve had nothing but good experiences with others when it comes to my curves and their level of attraction. The fact is, with most of these communities, if someone isn’t interested in having sex with me then they will just politely decline.

However, in more cases than not, my curves are embraced.

I enjoy getting dolled up in lingerie that ranges from medium up to size XL. I take sexy pictures of myself to send to my potential playmates. With good lighting and poses, I can pull off the same shot a woman of half my size can just as easily.

When it comes time to have sex, I’ve had compliments on my DD’s and wide hips. One boyfriend even said they were “perfect to grab onto” while fucking me doggy. A slap to my pale white ass ricochets across my whole body, creating a tidal wave across my pink skin. I have a body made for sin, and sin I do.

This is not to say that tiny or slender women are not sexy, too, because fuck they are. In fact, one of my favorite girlfriends is a size 0. She is beyond beautiful and just the mere sight of her naked body does filthy things to my mind and body.

Embracing our sexuality is hard enough without the stigma associated with body shaming. When people choose to take their clothes off and participate in sexual intercourse they do so in the belief that their chosen partners will find their bodies sexually appealing. If more people (women in particular) would embrace their curves and hone in on their deepest sexual desires then the world would be a better place.

I, for one, love being a curvy MILF. I don’t look at the title as a bad thing. I think of models Kate Upton, Chrissy Teigan, and Ashley Graham — who have made curves beautiful again. Also, all of them are also moms.

Us thick ladies won’t be everyone’s picture of carnal desire, but if you can’t worship at our throne then we don’t want you anyways.

© Keeva Black, 2021.

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