avatarDr. Pine

Summary

The author reflects on their writing journey, acknowledging a recent failure to write daily, but also recognizing personal growth and admiration for their wife's discipline and success.

Abstract

In a candid reflection, the author shares their mixed emotions about their writing journey, which has been both rewarding and challenging. Although they have earned money from writing, they admit to failing to write every day as they had intended, specifically on day 13. This failure has led to a profound appreciation for their wife's ability to set and achieve her goals, which the author finds admirable. Despite not meeting their daily writing goal, the author takes pride in their personal development, noting a shift from jealousy to genuine happiness and pride for their wife's achievements. The author also references a previous article where they acknowledged past shortcomings as a partner and emphasizes their commitment to improving their relationship. Encouraged by their wife to focus on the positive, the author concludes by inviting readers to follow and subscribe to their work.

Opinions

  • The author views their writing journey as an incredible experience despite the challenges.
  • They express self-criticism for not maintaining their daily writing challenge.
  • There is a deep sense of admiration for the wife's discipline and goal-oriented approach.
  • The author has overcome feelings of jealousy and now feels genuine pride in their wife's success.
  • Personal growth is recognized as a significant achievement, particularly in the context of their relationship.
  • The author values their readers' support, suggesting a hope for continued engagement with their audience.

I Failed

I tried to follow her, but I couldn’t

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By all means, my Writing journey has been incredible. I have been writing for less than 2 weeks and I’ve already made $43.84. I can now pay for a lunch for two at our favorite Thai place!

However, I failed.

My wife encouraged me to write every day, like she does. And I thought that was a nice challenge. But on day 13, I failed.

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I couldn’t find the time, I wasn’t motivated, I wasn’t sure about what I wanted to say.

And that’s when I realized how amazing she is. How she is capable of setting herself a goal and accomplishing it. Admirable!

But I didn’t fail at everything. I did something amazing myself.

Back in the day, I would have been jealous and resentful that she’s done it, that she has made more than 10 times in the same amount of time.

But I wasn’t. I’m happy for her. Proud of her.

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I know I haven’t always been a good partner. But I see I’m improving. And that is my win.

Wife keeps insisting I look at the bright side of life, so here it is!

If you liked my story, please consider Following and Subscribing!

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