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e your love and care. But the need for the same from the other poisons your relationship.Your dependence on others to feel worthy is your chains. Seeking approval for your decision, looks, or feelings is demeaning.You are free, so is the other person.Expectations strangulate the beautiful flowering of your heart. Love takes the back seat as you sulk in loneliness.<h1 id="c1b8">You Cannot Fulfill Others When You Are Not Fulfilled Yourself</h1>Imagine a beggar asking you for some money. You can spare some change when you have enough for yourself. But when you don’t have money, how can you give it to him?You can not give what you don't have.Similarly, if you feel love, it is because you have it inside you. You share the love that other person blossomed within you.The good news is that if you have loved someone else, you have that love inside.But you falsely assume that the love you feel is because of the other person.No!It is always inside your beautiful heart. Explore it more.<h1 id="c1c7">Support Your Heart to Nurture Your Love and Share It Infinitely</h1>Look at the sun; it gives sunlight infinitely to everyone. Look at a child who hugs everyone, irrespective of anything. Look at a flower whose fragrance spreads in every direction.You are that sun, child, and flower, all combined.You don’t have to ask for love from someone else. You are a limitless ocean of love.But to reach the infinite ocean, the false stories of separate streams of water had to be dropped. The story falls in love.Love can start from a feeling. But when imbibed deeply, <a href="https://readmedium.com/how-to-discover-your-inner-being-of-divine-love-383dcd0f4ce2">you become that love</a>.Love knocks down all the curtains. The veils of fear and judgment drop. It freely loves others and gives them freedom.The vulnerability gives rise to the purity of love.Love never plays hide and seek. It bathes your every pore. It is the mind that built walls around it. Love dissolves all barriers and embraces what is.<h1 id="dad0">Become Your Best Friend and Your Perfect Partner</h1>You already are worthy. Nobody needs a relationship or partner to prove it.<p i

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d="971a">The reality is some other may trigger your love. But you cling to them to extract the juice of love and life. This possession and expectation act as poison.The truth is, you spend 100% of your time with yourself. But you rarely enjoy your company.Chances are, you fidget when <a href="https://www.happierhuman.com/feeling-alone/">you are alone</a>. Checking social media, watching videos, and playing games are your escape ways from yourself.Distractions, work, and people rob your time. But when alone, you crave for them.<ul><li>Take a moment to pause and look at who is your favorite person.</li><li>Now notice how they make you feel.</li><li>Analyze why you are incapable of feeling it by yourself.</li><li>Take steps to be your best friend and your perfect partner.</li></ul>Stop the habit of running outside for fulfillment.<a href="https://readmedium.com/3-simple-mindful-techniques-to-deepen-your-relationship-with-life-cb3720acc676">Be present in the ‘now</a>,’ whatever it is.Stop running and stay center inside you. Then every place is your home and every human is your people.<h1 id="5078">Takeaways</h1>Love is your expression. It is not a feeling but a way of life. Be daring to explore its real essence.Dear beautiful souls, you don’t need external fulfillment.They can satisfy you temporarily. But to find that permanent fulfillment, explore your divine heart. Never back down on helping others. Support your heart.Spread your love to everyone. The world is undergoing turbulent times. Only love can heal this turmoil. Open your heart and be a part of the world’s healing. After all, we all are interconnected. Love binds us all.Love is a rose flower in your being but prepare your being. Dispel the darkness and the unconsciousness. Become more and more alert and aware, and love will come of its own accord, in its own time. You need not worry about it. And whenever it comes, it is always perfect. — Osho© Copyright <a href="https://ruchilove.medium.com/">Ruchi Thalwal</a>, 2022Want to heal from your traumas and stress but don’t know how? <a href="https://ruchithalwal.ck.page/f05058f288">Download my FREE guided healing meditation and get a free weekly tip towards a healthy and peaceful life.</a></article></body>

How Your Relationships Are Teaching You to Move Forward in Self Love

Self-love is the source of all our other loves. — Pierre Corneille

Are you seeking some meaningful relation to fulfill your life? Are you extra careful due to the past hurt? Do you hate being lonely and sometimes are jealous of your friend’s life?

Being in love feels wonderful. And being in love with a perfect partner feels heavenly.

We all want a perfect partner, tailor-made for us. But what does ‘perfect partner’ even mean?

We judge people according to our past and others’ reciprocity. Not knowing that we are mirroring our fears and observations upon them.

All our lives, we search for a “perfect” partner who would complement us, make us feel lovely.

But then what happens?

Worldly reality kicks some sense in your dreamy hearts. Fear of being alone gives rise to possession and expectations.

Nobody Is Obliged to You to Make You Feel Anything — Not Even Your Partner

Most people enter relationships to feel love. Others marry for long-term companionship. Some plan to have kids.

The longing for fulfillment from others never ends. You try to complete yourself by some means. It can be from a partner, kids, or anyone.

Most relationship blunders start when one expects others to fulfill their demands/requests.

If you feel it is your partner’s duty to make you feel worthy, then it is time to look deep inside at your expectations.

You burden the other person with expectations. They fall from the perfect category to the incompatible one when they don’t meet your expectations,

A relationship is lovely when you come together to share your love and care. But the need for the same from the other poisons your relationship.

Your dependence on others to feel worthy is your chains. Seeking approval for your decision, looks, or feelings is demeaning.

You are free, so is the other person.

Expectations strangulate the beautiful flowering of your heart. Love takes the back seat as you sulk in loneliness.

You Cannot Fulfill Others When You Are Not Fulfilled Yourself

Imagine a beggar asking you for some money. You can spare some change when you have enough for yourself. But when you don’t have money, how can you give it to him?

You can not give what you don't have.

Similarly, if you feel love, it is because you have it inside you. You share the love that other person blossomed within you.

The good news is that if you have loved someone else, you have that love inside.

But you falsely assume that the love you feel is because of the other person.

No!

It is always inside your beautiful heart. Explore it more.

Support Your Heart to Nurture Your Love and Share It Infinitely

Look at the sun; it gives sunlight infinitely to everyone. Look at a child who hugs everyone, irrespective of anything. Look at a flower whose fragrance spreads in every direction.

You are that sun, child, and flower, all combined.

You don’t have to ask for love from someone else. You are a limitless ocean of love.

But to reach the infinite ocean, the false stories of separate streams of water had to be dropped. The story falls in love.

Love can start from a feeling. But when imbibed deeply, you become that love.

Love knocks down all the curtains. The veils of fear and judgment drop. It freely loves others and gives them freedom.

The vulnerability gives rise to the purity of love.

Love never plays hide and seek. It bathes your every pore. It is the mind that built walls around it. Love dissolves all barriers and embraces what is.

Become Your Best Friend and Your Perfect Partner

You already are worthy. Nobody needs a relationship or partner to prove it.

The reality is some other may trigger your love. But you cling to them to extract the juice of love and life. This possession and expectation act as poison.

The truth is, you spend 100% of your time with yourself. But you rarely enjoy your company.

Chances are, you fidget when you are alone. Checking social media, watching videos, and playing games are your escape ways from yourself.

Distractions, work, and people rob your time. But when alone, you crave for them.

Take a moment to pause and look at who is your favorite person.
Now notice how they make you feel.
Analyze why you are incapable of feeling it by yourself.
Take steps to be your best friend and your perfect partner.

Stop the habit of running outside for fulfillment.

Be present in the ‘now,’ whatever it is.

Stop running and stay center inside you. Then every place is your home and every human is your people.

Takeaways

Love is your expression. It is not a feeling but a way of life. Be daring to explore its real essence.

Dear beautiful souls, you don’t need external fulfillment.

They can satisfy you temporarily. But to find that permanent fulfillment, explore your divine heart. Never back down on helping others. Support your heart.

Spread your love to everyone. The world is undergoing turbulent times. Only love can heal this turmoil. Open your heart and be a part of the world’s healing. After all, we all are interconnected. Love binds us all.

Love is a rose flower in your being but prepare your being. Dispel the darkness and the unconsciousness. Become more and more alert and aware, and love will come of its own accord, in its own time. You need not worry about it. And whenever it comes, it is always perfect. — Osho

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