How to Make a Man Cum Just By Listening to Your Voice

Dirty talk secrets to boost orgasm.

Lately, my sex drive has been on a high. I’m not sure if it’s a change in my diet or age, but whatever it is, I’m loving my inner bits. So be prepared to see more sex topics because I will be sharing my dirty tips from now on.

For those of us who aren’t ashamed to share our sexual fantasies, you will be surprised to know how powerful phone sex can be in making a man obsess over you.

Dirty talk is something that can overwhelm a lot of people, and if you’re someone who wants to know how to get your man to moan and become sexually addicted to you, sit tight.

Dirty talking can enhance and intensify your sex life. You can yell and yell all kinds of filthy and filthy profanity while you and your partner tear up each other. “Fuck me harder”, “I want to taste your sperm”, “I love your cock!”

But, you can also use a variety of other weird and dirty phrases that make sex more sensual and satisfying.

Whispering in his ear, “Don’t stop, I love it” or “You feel amazing” will work very differently but will still have great results.

Why do you need phone sex when you can easily get penetrative sex from anyone?

Aside from long-distance relationships, online dating can be dreary without an intimate connection.

Boring phone calls and texts will make you want to cut off from your date when you are getting to know them.

More often than not, you’ll realize the most romantic thing they say is “how was your day?” or “what did you eat?”

When you meet someone new, you might just want to hook up without developing feelings for them.

Maybe you’re not looking for a relationship, or perhaps you just want to explore some new kinks.

Either way, you both know what’s up and want to build the attraction without physically touching each other.

Phone sex is a great way to feel that intimate connection and keep the spark alive with your S/O.

Send him a kinky text prior to the phone call

Innocent texting is an awesome way to turn a guy on slowly and then proceed to the real deal.

Guys really can’t help but fall for it every single time when it comes to romantic text. If you plan to ride him tonight, send him a text in the day to stimulate his hormones.

Guys like to hear they turn their women on. When you send him a text out of the blue saying:

“I can’t believe how sometimes I feel out of control when I think of you. Every inch of your body is so hot. I could stare at you all day, and I still wouldn’t have had enough.”

He will want to know how you moan when he fucks. But if you want to really get him running to the bathroom, tell him “there’s something missing in my life… It is you deep inside me.”

This line of thought will arouse him more than it arouses you.

Thought out the day he’ll constantly be wondering what you meant, what you were going to do to him if he was there. He’s will be looking forward to the details.

When you do call him that night, you bet he revisit your text and stir the conversation in your favor.

Build up his arousal

Remember that every person is different. Some get turned on by things like seeing you wearing revealing clothing, while others find things like watching porn to be a huge turn-on for them.

Getting a little down and dirty with your choice of words can put him in the right mood.

Start slow when getting sexual with your man. Instead of directly asking, “what are my wearing?”

You can say, “I want to watch you using me as your own personal plaything. I’m so turned on by enjoying myself while you’re watching me undress. Guess what color my panties are?”

When you can drag it out and slowly build up to getting sexual with your man, you are building a lot of anticipation.

That anticipation will rattle your man’s brain, and he’ll wonder what you’re planning for him.

All this thinking, imagining, and wondering will seriously turn your man on and make everything you say to him even more pleasurable.

Find out what his fetish and kinks are

When learning how to make a guy orgasm, you’ll find that it’s far easier to make him cum when you do things that really turn him on.

If you really want to turn him on and make him orgasm quickly, then you need to find out what his fetishes and kinks are.

Take your conversion in the direction that will make him think about how good it’s going to feel once you unzip his jeans and press your lips against his skin.

You can tease him on how you’re going to suck his cock and cover his body with bite marks and hickeys.

Saying something in the tone of “I love how your skin feels in my mouth. It tastes like creamed chocolate banana. Would you like a strawberry flavor or vodka for my next round?” can spark his imaginations and keep his mind racing more than your presence.

Or you can go for something kinkier like “if you could only have regular, oral, or backdoor action for the rest of your life, what would you pick?”

The idea is to know what turns him on the most. Once you do, you can drive his mind to imagine you doing that to him.

Knowing what he likes in sex will be helpful in giving your man stronger orgasms.

Give him a blow job

A penis is by far the most sensitive part of his body. So if you want to know how to give your partner an orgasm over the phone, then you must pay attention to your choice of words.

Your plan is to build an intense sensation to the point he jacks off. He needs to feel your touch on his cock, gently rubbing it up and down (technically, he will be the one holding and rubbing himself).

Your words stimulate his brain to act in accordance with his imagination. Saying things like “I want you to grab my breasts, squeeze my nipples gently” will create an erotic imagination while he works his cock.

The top of his cock is where most of the nerves end. In other words, it is the part he enjoys pleasure the most. So be sure to choose words that describe what you envision doing with it.

When he starts moaning, you can say things to intensify his pleasure like “I’m on all fours, I want your cock riding me from behind.”

Of course, you want to talk dirty in a way that turns your man on, but don’t forget that you need to be having fun too. So many women forget this.

Don’t hold back your excitement.

Guys like to hear their women moan and scream during sex. He will feel the excitement in your voice, which will turn him on even more.

If you try a particular dirty talking technique a few times and you never get the reaction you were looking for, just forget about that technique and try something else.

Through this process of trial and error, you will see what works and what doesn’t. Slowly you will build an encyclopedia of dirty talks and strategies that will keep your man obsessed.

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