How to Impress a Guy — The Ultimate Guide

The secret to impressive behavior.

You’ve been eyeing that hot guy for weeks and you finally worked up the courage to talk to him. You want to make a good impression, but you’re not sure how.

Don’t worry. We’ve got you covered. This is the ultimate guide to impressing a boy, so read on and learn everything you need to know.

There’s no question that impressing a boy can be tough. But with the right tips, you can make it a breeze.

In this post, we’ll share some of our top strategies for gaining his attention and making him fall for you.

So, whether you’re just starting to date someone new or want to take your relationship to the next level, read on for all the advice you need. By following these tips, you’ll have any guy eating out of the palm of your hand in no time.

1. Make Yourself Feel Comfortable

If you’re feeling nervous around your crush, he can sense it. And that makes him feel uncomfortable, too.

Of course, you don’t want to come off as completely relaxed either because then he’ll know that you don’t care about impressing him. You need to strike the right balance.

That’s why the first thing you need to do is make yourself feel more comfortable around him. And if he’s giving you butterflies in your stomach, that might take some time.

But don’t let that discourage you. Take things slowly and give yourself plenty of breathing room so you can gradually work up your nerve.

As soon as you’re comfortable with him, the rest will be smooth sailing.

2. Look Your Best

When it comes to impressing guys, it’s all about first impressions. You want that “wow” factor if you want to catch his eye and pique his interest.

And while some guys may like a more natural look, most guys prefer girls who take the time to look good. If you want him to notice you, it’s a good idea to wear something that shows off your best features and downplays your flaws.

Add some makeup, do your hair, and dress in clothes that fit well — even if they’re not revealing — and he’ll be sure to notice you.

3. Make Him Laugh

Everyone wants to date a funny guy because life is more fun when he makes us laugh.

So, one of the best ways to impress him is by making him laugh. And not just a little chuckle here and there either — we’re talking about a full-on laughing fit that leaves both of you breathless.

In order to make him laugh, you need to engage his sense of humor and show him how funny you can be.

Of course, it’s not enough just to make a joke because that never works. You have to think about your sense of humor and what makes you laugh … then share those things with him.

Come prepared with some good jokes about your favorite TV show or an amusing story from work. And don’t be afraid to make fun of yourself, because that’s always a good way to get him laughing.

4. Be Adventurous

If you want to impress a guy, it helps if you can keep things interesting and avoid getting stuck in the same old routine.

And one of the best ways to do that is by being more adventurous. Instead of hanging out at your place or his, go somewhere you’ve never been before. Or check out a new restaurant or bar that neither of you has tried yet.

Or maybe there’s something he wants to do that you’ve never done before — like surfing, rollerblading, or kayaking.

You can also plan a picnic in the park on Sunday afternoon or watch a quirky indie movie that you’d both enjoy. The possibilities are endless, so just think of something new and hit it with both barrels.

5. Show Him You’re Smart

If you want to impress a guy and hold his attention, you need to show him that you’re smart. And sure, it’s great if you can prove your intelligence by discussing various topics intelligently.

But even if those aren’t your strong points, don’t worry — there are plenty of ways to impress him by showing your smarts.

For instance, you could get your hands on an old copy of his college newspaper and read it over the weekend. Then, when you see him next, ask him some questions about it to show that you’re invested in his life.

If there’s a new TV show or movie that he seems to like, take the time to watch it so you can talk to him about it the next time you see him. And don’t be afraid to ask for clarification on any points where you feel a little lost.

Or, if there’s an upcoming election or public referendum, read up on it so you can have intelligent conversations with him about the subject.

6. Flirt with Him

Every guy wants a girl who makes him feel special and desired.

And when you want to impress a guy, flirting is one of the best ways to do it. You don’t have to be an expert, but spending some time practicing will put you in good stead for the future.

So start by paying more attention to him — not just what he says but how he says it and his body language as well.

And when you do speak to him, make sure that your voice is low, soft, and seductive.

Then touch him regularly — making sure not to go overboard or seem too aggressive. Gentle touches on the elbow or forearm are perfect for this purpose because they aren’t so forward.

And don’t forget to smile often because guys love when a girl smiles at them.

You can also flirt with him in these subtle ways:

· Make eye contact and give him lingering looks before looking away.

· Touch your hair or play with an earring while you’re talking to him.

· Giggle at his jokes and act shy when he compliments you.

· Tease him in a friendly way, but don’t cross the line into nastiness.

7. Surprise Him

You can also impress a guy by surprising him every now and then with thoughtful little tokens of your affection.

So, the next time you think of something he’d like, buy it for him and keep it until the right moment. It could be tickets for an upcoming concert or show, clothes that are his favorite color, or even a gift card to his favorite store so he can pick out something himself.

Or you could send him an email or text message telling him how much you appreciate something he’s done — even something as simple as holding the door open.

Or, if you want to go for broke, take a page out of Disney’s book and buy a box of chocolates, flowers, or wine.

8. Be Interested in What He Has to Say

If you want to impress a guy, it’s important to be interested in what he has to say. So, ask him about his day and really listen as he talks.

If there’s a story that he likes to tell over and over again, learn the details of it so you can ask specific questions that show you’re paying attention. And instead of just saying “that sounds amazing,” ask him about a specific aspect — like how it felt to be riding on the back of a motorcycle or what the view was like from the top of that skyscraper.

9. Support Him and His Dreams

You can impress a guy by showing your support for his dreams and goals. After all, a big part of being in a successful relationship is supporting each other.

So the next time he tells you about an idea or some plans that he has, tell him how great it sounds and offer to help him as much as you can. If there’s something practical that you could do for him, like checking his budgeting spreadsheets or organizing his notes, offer to do it.

Or, if he’s dreaming of a new career or path in life, tell him you think he’d be good at it and give him some ideas about how he could achieve his goals. He’ll appreciate the encouragement.

10. Cook Him Something

One of the quickest and easiest ways to impress a guy is with a home cooked meal. In fact, if you’re new in a relationship and cooking isn’t your strong suit yet, this is the perfect way to step up your game.

So next time you have some free time on the weekend or even one night during the week, give cooking a go. Get out your apron and turn on some romantic background music because you’re going to cook a meal fit for a king.

And if cooking isn’t your strong suit, don’t worry. You can make something simple like baked pasta or his favorite dessert from the local bakery. And chances are he’ll appreciate the effort either way.

And the bottom line is…

If you want to impress a guy, don’t try too hard. Instead of focusing on the little things that need fixing — like your outfit or grooming habits. Put your energy into doing things that will make him happy and feel loved.

And most importantly of all… Keep it real. If he knows he can count on you for a hug when he’s feeling down, some good advice when he’s struggling with a problem or a simple “I love you,” he’ll be impressed by your relationship every day.

So, what do you think? Do you have any other ways to impress a guy that we didn’t mention? Or any tips for how to make your romantic relationships even more amazing?

Share with us in the comments below. And make sure you share these tips with all of your friends so they can impress their men too.

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