How to Be an Irresistible Online Dating Queen

Are you tired of being passed over by men online? Do you feel like you’re not getting the attention you deserve? Are you ready to start attracting the right kind of guys?

Congratulations!

Online dating can be a great way to meet new people. But it can also be a bit daunting.

How do you stand out in a sea of profiles? And how do you make sure that you don’t attract the wrong type of guy?

Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. Here are our top tips for being an irresistible online dating queen.

1. Write an irresistible profile

Your online dating profile is basically your resume for the dating world. Sure, you’re technically applying for jobs (i.e., dates), but that doesn’t mean it can be full of fluff and lacking substance.

You need to make sure that men are actually interested in meeting you. If you’re looking for love online, your first step is to ensure that you have an impressive and informative profile.

Not sure what makes a good online dating profile? Here are 5 ways to stand out from the crowd:

· Keep it short but sweet. Most guys don’t want to read a novel when they’re looking for someone to date.

· Be clear about what you are looking for. Sometimes guys get the wrong idea when girls list “friends” as one of their interests. If you don’t want them to think you are just looking for friends, make sure your profile clearly shows what you are interested in.

· Don’t use too much detail about the type of guy you want. When guys see that you want someone who is tall, dark, and handsome, they might not bother to read your profile. But if they think it could be them, they will read every word.

· Share a bit of your personality. You might have some really interesting hobbies or interests that you want to share with the world. Don’t be afraid to brag just a little.

· Add recent pictures of yourself. This is an absolute must-do for all profiles. No guy wants to be browsing profiles without a clue of what the person looks like.

2. Develop your flirting skills

Once you have your profile all set up, it’s time to learn some moves.

As with any form of dating, online dating can be a little awkward at first. Don’t fret if you feel shy or you aren’t sure how to flirt online.

Here are a few tips for flirting in your messages:

· Keep it short and sweet, but be playful. Guys don’t want to read an essay from a girl when they message them for the first time. They want something that is easy to read and shows your personality at the same time.

· Figure out what he’s saying, but don’t play it too safe. If you don’t know what he means, pretend that you do. This will keep him engaged in the conversation.

· Be open to talking about anything and everything. When you message someone for the first time, it’s a great idea to keep an open mind. You never know what could be interesting or fun.

· Show your sense of humor. Even if you aren’t the funniest person in real life, try to use some jokes and sarcasm to show that you’re witty and fun.

3. Use the RIGHT sites for online dating

Not all online dating is created equally. When it comes to finding your perfect match, it’s important to pick a site that is right for you.

But how do you know which one is best? Here are a few of our favorite places for finding love online.

o Christian Mingle — This site was made just for you. Whether you are looking for someone who shares your faith, or would rather date someone with similar values, this is the place to go if religion is important to you.

o OK Cupid — This site is great for those who are looking to date all types of people. You can even use their partner magnet feature to match your celebrity lookalikes.

o Badoo — If you’re looking for something that’s a little different, try out this international dating site. Meet guys from all over the world who are looking for love.

o Tinder — This is one of our favorite choices when it comes to online dating. You can meet single guys literally anywhere by simply swiping right. It’s quick, easy, and free.

o Lovestruck — If you are looking for a place to meet local singles, this is it. Lovestruck makes it easy for you to find guys who are as close to you as possible. You can’t beat that.

4. Make your first date a success.

Making the first date work will mean the difference between meeting Mr. Right and never hearing from him again…

o Choose somewhere public. This will make your date feel safe and ensure that you guys will have an easy time getting to know each other.

o Keep it simple. The first date should be all about enjoying the moment, not hearing about how great he is in bed. There’s plenty of time for that later on.

o Talk about him, not yourself. The whole point of the first date is to get him talking. Make him feel comfortable by asking questions about himself and his life.

o Keep smiling. You’re out on a date with someone that you are obviously into. Showing your excitement will make him feel good while talking to him.

o Follow the 3-date rule. This is a great way to ensure that you don’t get yourself into something that you are going to regret. If you can make it through 3 dates with someone without having any major problems, then he may just be worth keeping around.

5. Keep communicating after the first date

So, you’ve made it through the first date and everything went perfectly. Congrats on making it that far. Making sure that your relationship is at its best after the first date is all about follow-up.

o Send a follow-up text the next day or so after you leave. Let him know that you had a great time and hope to see him again soon.

o Say thanks for the date. When someone takes the time out of their day to spend it with you, sending a simple “thank you” will let them know that you appreciated their time and effort.

o Keep up with his social media. If you enjoy following his Facebook and Twitter as much as we do, make sure to keep up with the people he’s interested in. This will give you an insight into his life even when you aren’t together.

o Keep your options open. Don’t be afraid to go on other dates that your friend may set you up on. You never know where those other first dates will take you.

And if all else fails, coffee and a movie are always a good choice.

The bottom line is…

Finding the right love online is all about experience. You may have to try out a few dating sites before you can find your Mr. Right, but it will all be worth it when you finally do.

Make sure that you pick a site that feels like home and just enjoy yourself through the whole process. Good luck with your search.

Thank you for reading. Do you agree? Disagree? What other advice would you give to the average dater? Comment below and let us know.

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