How to Impress a Girl — The Best Tips and Tricks Revealed
Do you want to impress a girl?
You’re in luck.
This article will teach you everything you need to know about impressing a girl — from how to dress, to what to say, and when and where to touch her. Follow these tips and you’re sure to make an impression that she’ll never forget.
If there’s one thing we’ve learned over the years, it’s this — girls are complicated creatures who can be difficult for men (and even women) alike.
But if there’s another thing we’ve learned: they love surprises.
So why not surprise them with some of our advice on how best to impress a girl?
We promise, she won’t be disappointed by your efforts. And neither will you. Because now all your problems have been solved. Thank God someone is finally doing something about this problem.
Girls are always looking for someone who can make them feel special. But it takes more than just saying the right things or buying them flowers.
Read on if you’re ready to learn some great tips on impressing a girl today. Follow these 21 tips and tricks and you’re sure to make an impression that she’ll never forget. It’s time for your game plan on impressing girls.
#21: Dress the Part
Women love to look at men who dress great. But you might be wondering how to dress great.
So here it is — always wear clothes that fit right and make you look good. If your pants are too baggy, get new ones. Your clothes should fit you like a glove.
While you’re at it, make sure your clothes match. You don’t want to look like you just threw on whatever was close by. And try not to overdo it with accessories either — girls love a man who can dress himself from head to toe.
#20: Strike the Right Tone
When you first start talking to a girl, it’s important to make the right first impression.
And that starts with how you talk to them. Don’t be too loud or quiet, but casual and laid back. And remember, there are no dumb questions. Just don’t ask anything you could have answered via Google in about 5 seconds.
#19: Don’t Stalk Her
We’re not saying don’t pay attention to what she’s doing. Just try not to be too obvious about it.
If you constantly check up on her or make a big deal out of following her around, she’ll either think you’re a psycho or won’t trust you at all. It’s a fine line to walk. So just pay attention and don’t get creepy about it.
#18: Be Genuine
This might seem like a no-brainer, but you’d be surprised by how many guys will try and change who they are completely in order to impress a girl.
Don’t do that. Ladies love a man with some mystery. So, if you’re going to change anything about you, make it something small. And don’t show a fake personality either. Just be yourself. The girl will love you for it.
#17: Be Confident
It’s hard not to notice a confident guy when you see one. Girls also find them sexy.
So why is being confident so important? Because confidence is hot. There’s just no other way to put it. Nobody wants to date a wussy, so don’t be one!
#16: Be Willing to Go Out of Your Comfort Zone
Sometimes girls like guys for who they are, but sometimes girls actually want you to make an effort beyond your comfort zone.
So if she asks you out on a date (or even wants to go somewhere specific), do your best to make it happen.
After all, girls are attracted to guys who step outside of their comfort zone every once in a while. So if you want to impress your girlfriend, be willing to go somewhere new with her on occasion…or at least give it the old college try.
#15: Stop Talking About Other Girls
Talking about other girls in front of your girl will only hurt your chances of impressing her.
Because no matter how innocent your intentions are, it’s going to come off as you bragging. And nobody wants a guy who is always bragging about himself. It gets old quick. So, try and keep other women out of the conversation if you really want to impress her.
#14: Be a Gentleman
If you’re looking to impress a girl and show her that you’re the real deal, open doors for her and be polite.
And we mean all the time. This is especially true if it’s your first date. It will show her that she deserves respect and makes you different than other guys out there.
#13: Ask for Advice
Confidence isn’t the only thing girls love in a guy. They also want to feel like you see them as an equal and not someone you need to impress.
And one of the best ways to show that is by asking her advice on things sometimes. Just don’t overdo it — it won’t be as impressive if she feels like you’re just asking her because you want to use her.
#12: Don’t Just Talk About Yourself
It’s always nice when a guy is interested in hearing what’s going on in your life.
But there are some guys who take it too far by asking way too many questions about you — or worse, simply bragging about their lives instead of showing any interest in yours. Not cool. So try and strike a balance between asking questions and talking about yourself.
#11: Smell good
Girls are naturally attracted to men who smell good, so make sure you take a shower beforehand and put on some nice smelling cologne.
And, if she compliments the way you smell? She’s totally into you. So, by all means take a shower before your date to make sure she loves the way you taste.
#10: Take Her Hand
When things are going well during your first date, don’t be afraid to reach out and take her hand in yours.
In fact, if you can initiate a hand hold without coming across as too desperate — congratulations! Because she’s totally into you. So don’t be afraid to take a risk and try something bold on your second date — it pays off in the end.
#9: Listen to What She Has to Say
The most basic thing you can do when trying to impress a girl is listen to what she has to say.
After all, nobody likes a guy who only talks about himself and never takes her feelings into account. So make sure you actually pay attention when she’s talking and don’t pretend like you’re not interested in the conversation — because that’s obviously a big no-no.
#8: Be Supportive.
If there’s one thing every girl wants in a relationship, it’s support — especially if you’re trying to impress your girlfriend. So, the next time she tells you about her upcoming project at school, just be supportive of her ideas no matter what they are.
After all, girls are naturally sensitive, so your support will make her feel even closer to you.
#7: Compliment Her, Even When You Don’t Mean It
Okay, so maybe it’s not the best tactic to use when trying to make a girl like you — most girls don’t like guys who lie to them.
But it doesn’t hurt to give a girl a compliment when you don’t mean it. After all, she’ll appreciate the kind words — even if they’re not true. So just compliment her when you can and when you feel like it, even if that means pretending sometimes.
#6: Be Patient
When a girl is interested in you, she will usually take her time before giving you an answer to your advances.
So, if she says that she isn’t ready for a relationship — believe her. She just needs more time. And giving her some space is always good in the meantime. So don’t be too pushy when it comes to impressing girls. You’ve got to be patient!
Everyone has their own dating timeline — and there’s nothing wrong with that. So, trying to rush things along will only come off as desperate, which is never good. Just be patient with your girl and let things happen naturally.
#5: Don’t be Afraid to Get Chivalrous
Chivalry isn’t dead, so don’t shy away when a girl needs your help!
So don’t sit in the passenger seat or open doors for girls out of fear that they’ll think you’re cheesy. I’m sure they will appreciate the kind gesture — and maybe even date you as a result.
#4: Don’t Talk About Your Exes Right Away.
It’s only natural to want to talk about your past relationships when you first meet a girl, but try and avoid it if you can.
Instead, ask about her past relationships. That way she’ll be able to tell you what she wants in a guy, which will help out when it comes time for you to impress her. And who knows? Maybe your previous relationships will come up in conversation, but don’t bring them up first.
#3: Be Adventurous
It’s always nice to have someone willing to take you on some adventures — no matter what kind they are.
So be adventurous with the girl you’re trying to impress. Maybe you can try some zip lining or go on a hike during the day time. Or you could just suggest going to the beach — everyone loves a day at the beach! So be adventurous with her and see what happens — she’ll love it.
Girls love being outside, so if you can take her on a hike through the woods or let her show you everything she knows about camping, it will definitely impress her. And who doesn’t like trees?
#2: Don’t Try to Be Someone You’re Not
Really, this should probably come as a no-brainer. It’s obvious when someone’s putting on an act in order to impress people, so stop it already!
Nobody likes being around fakers, so don’t bother trying to be someone you’re not for the sake of impressing someone. Be yourself and you will impress her more than you ever thought possible!
Be honest. Because all you need to do in order to impress a girl is just be yourself. It’s the best way to grab their attention and ensure that they like you for who you really are.
And the NUMBER ONE way to impress a girl is…
#1: Make Her Laugh
All girls love guys who can make them laugh — it’s just a fact of life.
So, if you want to impress a girl, try and do something that will make them laugh. But don’t go too over-the-top with it. You don’t want to hurt yourself. Just be yourself and try your hardest to make them laugh.
If you can do that, you’ll impress her more than anything else in the world. And who doesn’t like laughing?
Now get out there and try your hand at impressing girls.
Take away
So, if you’re looking to impress a girl, just use these tips and be yourself. It’s the best way to go and you’ll be sure to make her laugh in the process. And who knows — maybe she’ll even want to date you as a result. So, get out there and start impressing girls today.
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