How To Give Cunnilingus Like A Pro Even If She Hates Oral Sex
Tips on how to lick a girl out and keep her forever.
Cunnilingus gets a bad rep from women. Some feel disgusted getting eaten down there.
I was telling my friend, Hanna, about the wild erotic night of passion I had with one Jamaican dude checking me out. The guy knows his game and he played it well. It’s not often you get a man who knows his way around a woman’s vagina and brain.
This guy got me licking my juice like a lollipop right off his finger. The warmth, tingles, intense pleasure, anticipating his next move, clinching my thighs and locking his head in. I love getting eaten, licked, sucked, and nipped and if his fingers can reach my G-spot, I’m definitely keeping him.
And guess what?
It’s not just women who enjoy cunnilingus. Men enjoy it too. The feeling of going down on a woman- licking, sucking, touching, and rubbing her clit until she starts to get wet.
The way her hips move, her breathing becomes heavy, her hands squeezing her breasts and pulling your hair. She moans louder until she pins your face in between her thighs, arcs her back as she puffs out a big junk of cum is the best feeling ever.
If you have never pleased a woman orally, and you eventually do, you will know you’ve been missing out on one of the most erotic things in life.
Why do some women hate cunnilingus?
While I described my pleasurable moment, Hanna didn’t seem to share my excitement. All the while I was talking, she had her face scowled like a baby’s pop. She was noticeable disgusted and I felt embarrassed and irritated too.
I didn’t know she was one of those women who hate cunnilingus. I had assumed she was and totally misunderstood the sexual clues she gave men. That puts me in a bad spot. I got to be an example of those who generalize that all women like oral sex and those who don’t, have a problem.
Oh well!
After a long conversation about why my friend doesn’t like cunnilingus, it turns out she hated her natural scent. She never had oral sex in her first relationship and subsequent dates never made her feel loved when they did it.
I’ve observed that most women do love getting fingered but won’t allow the man to lick or suck their vaginas. Now if that is the case, it leaves me with a conclusion that these women have some prejudices about oral sex.
Their hatred for cunnilingus isn’t the tickling, or discomfort but rather the stories their minds are accustomed to. Some women think their veejees smell, so they are embarrassed to have a man taste it. Others worry they might pee or poo on the man’s face, or their period will come out in the nick of time, or that the shape of their clit is ugly. These fears and securities are the reason some women hate cunnilingus.
To help Hanna understand the pleasure her clitoris possesses, I introduced her to another friend of mine. A sex worker with special skills in sexual education.
According to my escort friends, most women want their vagina licked and sucked but they are raised to believe it is wrong, perverted, and/or feel they are dirty “down there” and they get uncomfortable with the intense nipping and sucking.
The first thing my escort friend did was to dismantle Hanna’s sexual orientation creating a block in her mind and body. Then she gave Hanna an erotic massage to calm her nerves. For three days she worked on Hanna’s mind and body and with each massage session, Hanna climaxed.
When Hanna got more comfort with erotic massaging, my escort friend progressed to yoni massaging, using her lips and tongue to stimulate Hanna’s clit so she can enjoy the full effect of erotic massage.
Hanna felt unbelievably free expressing her sexual fantasies and need to be sucked and eaten. She started to see her body in a positive light. using it as a weapon for attraction, something she never did.
Cunnilingus builds stronger intimate bonds
Women may have evolved to be more attracted to men who regularly have oral sex with them.
One study found that women who received oral sex regularly were more likely to be faithful, and oral sex represented an important strategy for men to keep their wives happy.
Another study said that women who liked receiving oral sex were less likely to cheat. In other words, if you perfect the act of pleasuring a woman’s veejee she will make you her last bus stop.
Our pleasures are often the sole focus of other people’s pleasures. That’s why cunnilingus is such an intimate and beautiful way to have sex. But it also puts a lot of pressure on the person receiving it.
The woman may think that you are bored there, or that it takes too long for her to cum. The heavy burden of emotional stress associated with performing cunnilingus has led many women to refuse to believe men when they say oral sex is only for women.
So if your girlfriend has any doubts about cunnilingus, let her know that there is no other reason you are doing it except for fun.
Tell her you to enjoy the feeling of giving her oral sex and the closeness it gives your relationship. Let her know that eating her “down there” is a way for you to help her enjoy her body and show her how much you love her.
Steps to giving your woman head to make her yours
Good oral sex is unlike anything else. You feel the sensations not only in your vagina but all over.
You feel dizzy. Your toes tingle and your belly warm up in anticipation of the orgasm you know is coming. You feel pleasure in every part of your body.
Most women probably won’t like it, and men may always want to rush things. But oral sex has been shown to have several health benefits and ensure long-lasting relationships.
So, without further ado, let’s move on to the five best practices for making your woman moan in excitement.
Play with her nipples
Whether large or small, firm or soft, real or fake, breasts are a joy to look at, not to mention touch.
Start by gently stroking or massaging the top, bottom, and sides of her breasts. Take turns gently kissing her neck, earlobe, and collarbone. That will help build anticipation and make her want more.
If the nipple is erect, gently swipe your tongue a few times around it before slowly and gently taking the nipple into your mouth.
Stroke her thighs
Touching the inner thighs without venturing into the vaginal area will create an extraordinary temptation that is sure to arouse her.
Use your hands and mouth to caress and kiss the insides of her thighs, closer to her clitoris, but pull back before you go all in.
Kissing her thighs, letting your tongue touch her skin, and pulling away will make her squirm, squeal, and giggle.
Caress her clitoris
When you play with her clitoris, don’t apply pressure at first. Instead, rub her clitoral hood or hold your fingers far enough away from it so they don’t come into direct contact.
Start with such light pressure that almost feels like you’re teasing her. As you get more excited, increase the amount of pressure you apply.
The amount of pressure you put on her clitoris is almost always the most important aspect when it comes to pleasurable clitoral stimulation.
Lick in a circular motion
Before you master how to give cunnilingus, you need to get used to the clitoris.
The clitoris feels very much like a pea and is located above the labia (the fleshy “lips” of the vagina).
Start by licking around the clitoris, don’t go straight into the clit. You have to build anticipation.
Once you’ve teased her enough and she responds that she’s into it, use your tongue to lick their clitoris. You can move your finger back and forth or you can move it in a circular motion. However, it’s a good idea to experiment with what she likes best.
Use your finger
Slowly insert a finger into her vagina. Move in and out, curling your finger toward your stomach to reach your G-spot.
Massage it gently, and if she likes the pace, her body will tell you from the way she tickles. Then slowly work your way up to a harder and faster pace.
The clitoris is very sensitive and if you touch it too hard for too long, it can become overstimulated and cause discomfort or pain.
Experiment with the pressure to see what she feels most comfortable with, and lightly kiss her clitoris.
Parting thoughts
There is no “one way fits all” way to eat a woman because different people enjoy different things.
Knowing what works for her should be explored with a little creativity and a lot of honest communication. That means trying different things and asking your partner what she likes or dislikes.
Cunnilingus can give physical pleasure and orgasm, so it must be sexual behavior.
Some women think that oral sex is very intimate and means that two people are very close to each other. Others see it as less intimate than vaginal intercourse.
Each of you must decide what value you attach to any sexual behavior. The most important thing is that you two stay true to yourselves and do the things that make you feel good.
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