5 Signs You Are a Sex Goddess

The secret path to a man’s heart is more than just his stomach.

They say the easiest way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. That means if you want a man to love you, all you have to do is cook him a good meal and he will love you forever.

As a sex goddess, you know there are many ways to a man’s heart and not just with food. And today, we are going to prove just that.

Sex requires some emotional and physical commitment to be fun and knowing what your partner wants (both physically and emotionally) before, during, and after sex is what makes it amazing.

Thanks to our sister's oxytocin and vasopressin we know how exciting sexual pleasure can be.

These two brain receptors regulate complex social cognition and behaviors, such as attachment, social exploration, recognition, and aggression, as well as anxiety, fear conditioning, and fear extinction.

By knowing about a man’s emotional triggers, you can maneuver the sensation in his body and brain to give him maximum pleasure, which is a sex goddess’s secret weapon.

How to know if you possess this secret weapon and how you can learn to be a sex goddess will be our primary focus of this article.

Without further introduction, let’s get on with the five skills that prove you are a sex goddess.

You have mastered the art of erotic massage

Massage is not just for relaxation. It is a great way to maintain that physical connection with your man while prolonging his arousal.

Massage is also a way to honor a man’s sexuality. From a young age, boys turn to their penis for comfort, pleasure, escape, or relief from their desire. However, behind that pleasure are some guilt and shame too.

Sex goddesses know this emotional side of a man, so they give extra attention to their penis because it means a lot to them.

Men like nothing more than a girl who works their erogenous zones before or after sex. Their body is sensitive when aroused, and can be painful. But a massage before and after sex helps to relieve the tension rushing through his veins.

Sex goddesses know how to unlock the erogenous zones that will keep the guy in a state of ongoing pleasure, not pain.

They know how to touch a man with creativity and curiosity, and use their hands to create the widest range of sensations.

You can arouse a man with a kiss

When it comes to kissing and sex, there is no reason not to enjoy it as much as your partner does, whenever and wherever.

Kissing lowers your level of cortisol — the hormone responsible for managing stress can also cure depression.

However, kissing does more than beat stress. The trifecta of “happiness hormones” — oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine — get released when you give or get a smooch. And all those kisses will also leave you feeling closer and more affectionate with your partner.

Sex goddesses use kisses to lure their men into their domain. A good kiss can lead to arousal, which more often ends ups with sex.

Those who give good kisses are far more likely to be deemed worthy, while bad kissing is usually seen as a deal-breaker. As a sex goddess, you top the chart on pro kissers.

You know how to choose a rhythm for each occasion

Slow sex is romantic. But, there are times, especially towards the end of sex that things can get faster and harder. For initial seduction and foreplay during sex, speeding things up and moving fast is a buzz kill.

For some men, prolonged kissing and romance can greatly increase their arousal, which is often indicated by the amount of semen he pours out.

While for others, a quickie enhances the sensation and peak of orgasm. Sex goddesses know when to go slow, fast, or just mix the rhythm of sex.

They have kinesthetic intelligence because they know how to move at a pace that suits the man’s needs.

A big part of sex is just the way you move. Practice moving in slow motion, try to feel all parts of your body at once and glide them over things very slightly.

If you’re strong enough to lift and hold yourself up off of your partner instead of laying, full body weight on top of them, it’s much more enjoyable for your partner.

You know how to flirt and get him to open up about his desires

There are two ways to communicate — either verbally or non-verbally. You can either ask directly what he likes or prefers or if that’s uncomfortable, be very aware of their reactions to the moves you make in bed.

As a pro in the flirtation department, you know how to reach a man’s heart indirectly with your great sense of humor.

You also know how to observe to figure out what he prefers in bed — if he’s into slow and soft sex or quick and wild tempo. His stories about his life experience or simply asking “faster” or “slow” can give you a clue as to what he likes in bed.

But remember you cannot force a person to like or to try a sexual experience simply because you want to, or because you yourself enjoy it. If he doesn’t like anal, you have to respect that.

So switch things up and gauge reactions and find out what turns on your partner and what doesn’t.

You know your way around the fashion world

Yes, some women neglect to look the part when it comes to physical attraction. The think beauty is all about facial structure and skin tone. It’s not!

One of the things that distinguish a sex goddess from a reserved woman, is that they know how to dress to kill. They know the colors that pop out their natural skin tone and they know the styles to wear to attract attention to themselves.

And no, you do not have to wear a see-through dress or flaunt your cleavage to seduce a man. If you feel comfortable and confident, then you will turn heads in whatever you are wearing.

Adding a pair of killer heels to your packaging is a sure-shot way to improve the appearance of your body. Heels make your breasts and hips thrust forward appealingly, making you look seductive and attractive.

The trick to amping your sex appeal is with the right attitude. Be yourself, and your sexy will show.

No matter what you wear. Your sex appeal will take a significant hit if you feel sorry for your body, or uncomfortable in your skin.

Take away

No one is born with the expertise of anything. Sex is a craft; and just like any other craft, one improves with study and practice.

Whatever your personal feelings about sex, the fact remains that the more you practice sex with one or more partners, the better you get at it.

Because sex is seen as a taboo, if you are a conservative woman, you don’t want to be ‘too good’ because then you’ll raise suspicions about how many men you’ve slept with, but you also want to be ‘good enough to please your partner and keep him satisfied.

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