Women Desperately Want To Know What Makes Great Sex For Men
It seems men are not the selfish sex-hungry creatures we think they are.

Understanding men’s sexual desire can be quite complicating. You worry whether he is enjoying sex with you or if he is thinking of someone else while he’s on top of you.
There are times I have withdrawn just before climaxing because I suddenly got a different vibration in his moaning.
Was he faking it? Or was he actually enjoying himself?
Women are confused as to what men consider amazing sex.
The long-standing stereotypes that men are always interested in sex, happier to be the pursuers, and focusing only on the physical, become complicated for women when the man behaves precisely the opposite of this popular belief.
When we discuss male sexuality, we tend to focus on the dark and toxic side- of entitlement and aggression. This only reinforces the myth and stereotypes.
So, if you are a woman who likes to fish for the truth, then hold still, because you are about to be surprised.
What does sexuality mean for men?
Some people don’t like sex or just feel sexual attraction and sexual desire for people they already have a close emotional connection with.
If we are to understand what great sex means for men, then we must first grasp the importance of one’s sexuality.
Our sexuality plays an important role in how we respond to sex. Sexuality is not just about who you have sex with or how often you do it.
Sexuality is about your sexual feelings, thoughts, attractions, and behaviors towards other people.
You may find other people physically, sexually, or emotionally attractive, and all of these things are part of your sexuality.
Sexuality is deep and personal and it’s an important part of who you are. Discovering your sexuality can be a very liberating, exciting, and positive experience.
Some people face discrimination because of their sexuality. Their family or friends have mistreated them because of their sexuality.
Children of racial extremists can suffer other effects from their parents’ bigotry. They become sensitive to that type of adult, and can show some kind of extreme emotional hatred towards people.
These individuals hardly enjoy sex because their mind often drifts off toward their mental issues.
What drives a man’s sexual desire is feeling connected, wanting to be close to his partner — and not just physically.
Like women, men are emotional beings. They want to be heard. They want to be close to their partner. They want to feel loved.
And when a man is comfortable with his sexuality, his emotions and his attitude toward sex are positive.
The emotional connection makes sex great for men
We have this idea that men are always interested in sex. But when a man doesn’t have an emotional connection with you, his sexual desire tends to decrease.
When sex dies, men often withdraw. They can become depressed.
One problem women don’t understand is that when a man feels disconnected from a partner, sex can be his way of trying to get things back on track. Since sex represents an emotional bond with him, he can still try to initiate it.
But the woman just thinks: “You only care about yourself. All you think about is sex.” Women don’t understand how emotionally torn the man is.
If a man wants to have sex and his partner agrees but isn’t mentally involved, then he thinks he should hurry. Which leads to bad sex that none of you are excited about.
For men, many things can represent great sex. While some may find emotionally connected sex great, others may find something new — like a new sex position, a new toy, the way you smile, or just taking the lead in the bedroom exciting.
However, there is no more potent aphrodisiac for a man than a partner who is as committed and as enthusiastic about sex as he is.
And if a man enjoys sex, you can feel it in his actions towards you. He will respond to your desires intuitively and intentionally and give generously to make you orgasm and enjoy your time together.
He will feel an insatiable hunger to express himself with his body — the way he moans, breathes, and moves his body will prove it.
If a man likes to make out with you, he will feel free and loosen up. He will not be clumsy, aloof, or robotic. He will be genuine, maybe even a little nervous or overly excited and honest.
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