How to Give a Cervical Orgasm

And deliver some deep, intense pleasure

He thrust into me and I couldn’t understand why it felt so intense.

He went deep and the sensation was almost overwhelming. I was worried it would become too much. I thought I might have to ask him to stop.

But it felt so fucking good that I needed him to keep going.

The orgasm was powerful and left me feeling worn out and panting.

I tried to explain to him what had happened, but I couldn’t find the words. All I could say is that it felt like a deeper orgasm, a more internal pleasure than I normally experienced.

I’d had plenty of G-spot orgasms, but this was something else.

It took me a long time to figure out that those strong sensations and that deep pleasure were really cervical orgasms.

It’s not like I had never heard of them. I knew they were a thing. I was just convinced I would never experience one because I had a really difficult relationship with cervical stimulation.

My libido took a serious crash in my early twenties. I went from having a very active sex drive to practically losing it overnight.

That completely changed the way I felt about sex. It wasn’t fun and easy anymore. I still wanted to have sex. I missed having sex. But getting in the mood so I could have it felt like a chore.

When I did manage to get turned on enough to fuck, it was never as pleasurable as it was before. Sometimes, it was downright painful.

There was as much foreplay as before. I was wet. Getting fingered felt really good. But I’d get nervous as soon as my husband slid his cock inside me.

As long as he gave me shallow thrusts, I could enjoy it. But I knew that if he went too deep, the feeling would be way too intense. I would wince from discomfort whenever his cock hit my cervix. If he tapped it hard enough, it was downright painful.

It was such a frequent problem that I developed vaginismus as a result of it. I read about other women enjoying cervical orgasms, but I couldn’t stop associating cervical stimulation with pain.

The problem, though, wasn’t actually my cervix. It turned out the real issue was my arousal.

It took years and years for my sex drive to recover. I still haven’t managed to fully get it back. But it’s at least high enough to make sex pleasurable again.

At first, I still needed shallow penetration. But eventually, I could take it deeper and harder.

And I wanted to take it deeper and harder because it felt incredible. Like, really fucking good.

The stimulation I got from a deep dicking and a hard pounding was intense. But this time, that intensity wasn’t a problem — it was part of the pleasure.

For years, I believed that those overwhelmingly powerful climaxes were just really strong G-spot orgasms. I still couldn’t think of my cervix as a source of pleasure.

I had to change my mind, though. I couldn’t deny just how different those orgasms were.

For one thing, the pleasure was concentrated deep inside me, not from the G-spot. The orgasms were also noticeably more intense than any I could get from my G-spot. And they gave me a full-body pleasure that I couldn’t experience in any other way.

The way I reacted to them was also entirely different. A good G-spot orgasm will make me feel like I’ve lost control over myself. But these orgasms were making me feel possessed.

When I’m going through a cervical orgasm, I let loud, low moans out of my throat. I twist and flail in ways I can’t predict. I get strong muscle contractions throughout my entire body.

Once they’re over, I feel spent, tired, exhausted — and deeply, thoroughly, blissfully satisfied.

I used to do everything I could to avoid cervical contact during sex. But once I realized it was responsible for those incredible orgasms, I started doing more things to make it happen.

If you want to blow your lady’s mind by giving her a cervical orgasm, here are the things you need to do.

Get Her So Aroused She Can Barely Breathe

I’m not sure if every single woman is capable of having a cervical orgasm. I have no idea. But what I do know is that she won’t stand a chance of having one unless she’s very turned on.

So, before you start trying to poke her deepest bits, take the time to get her really worked up and ready.

Touching her clit when she’s not aroused is just going to feel intense in an unpleasant way.

Rubbing her G-spot will get her off when she’s horny and enough blood has rushed to it. The rest of the time, it will just feel uncomfortable.

It’s the same with her cervix. Unless she’s fully aroused, stimulating it won’t make her feel good — it might even be painful.

And I do mean fully aroused. Even if she’s turned on enough to enjoy clit and G-spot stimulation, it might not be enough to make her cervix receptive to pleasure.

There isn’t really a trick to get her there other than to spend a lot of time doing the right kinds of things.

Flirt with her and seduce her so that she can get in a very sexy mindset.

Give her lots and lots of foreplay. Make her come with your fingers a couple of times. Eat her out for so long that your neck starts to get sore.

Talk dirty to her so she gets really turned on. Show your enthusiasm so she gets excited. If she’s into it, edge her to get her extremely horny.

How long it takes to get her all the way will depend on her sex drive, her overall mood, and all sorts of other factors. But if you want to stimulate her cervix, be ready to put in enough time so that it’s actually enjoyable for her.

Go Deeper

To hit the cervix, you need some fairly deep penetration.

Just how deep you need to go will depend on who you’re fucking. Everyone’s body is different and an extra inch or two of depth can change a lot.

If your cock is long enough, hitting her cervix is simple. All you have to do is thrust all the way in and you’ll reach far enough.

If you need a bit more depth, though, there are a few things you can do.

The position you’re in will make a big difference. Doggystyle makes it easier to reach the cervix — and you get to grip her ass and slam your hips into it, too.

Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl can work pretty well, too. When she’s bouncing on your cock, she can play around with angles and find the one that hits her the deepest.

And I find missionary really fucking good for deep penetration — especially if she can hold her legs up during it.

Using a sex wedge makes a big difference, too. When I’ve got one propping me up, it feels like I’m getting fucked an inch deeper. When you’re trying to reach her cervix, that can be just the boost you need.

Bang Her With a Dildo

If you can’t get quite as deep as you want to, using a dildo is a really good way to give her a cervical orgasm.

Even if you can reach her cervix with your cock, playing with a dildo can still be a lot of fun. If she can take it, you can use a dildo to bang her harder and faster than you could with all your hip strength.

I recommend using a dildo that has a bit of softness and bend to it. They’re usually easier and more comfortable to use than the more rigid ones.

I’d be careful with girth, too. Lots of longer dildos are also massively thick. Some women are into that, but for a lot of us it just feels like a big challenge with too little payoff. So make sure you use a dildo with modest girth unless she loves feeling stretched out, too.

Finger Her to Heaven

Stimulating her with your fingers is another really good way to give her a cervical orgasm.

Again, the goal here is to go deep. You might be able to do that just by sliding your index and middle fingers inside her, keeping them straight, and thrusting deep.

If you still can’t reach it, you might need a little more.

Two fingers is enough for reaching her G-spot. In fact, it’s preferable, because it usually feels better than trying to stuff more inside her.

But that’s exactly what you might have to do if you want to reach her cervix.

You don’t need to fully fist her or anything like that. But sliding your ring finger or every finger but your thumb inside her will make it easier for you to reach deeper and give her cervical stimulation.

Using most of the fingers on your hand can be a lot, though. So, make sure you work your way up to it. Start with two fingers, then ask her if she wants you to use three. Go slowly so she can get used to the extra thickness and don’t be shy about using plenty of lube — the more girth you’re giving her, the more she’ll need it.

If it’s too much for her, pull back and go back to using two fingers. If it’s getting her off, though, keep tapping and rubbing her cervix until she comes hard and her pussy squeezes your hand.

Stimulate Around the Cervix

Some women still find direct cervical contact to be too intense, even when they’re extremely aroused.

If that’s the case, you can still give her a cervical orgasm by stimulating the area around her cervix.

Rub the edges with your fingers instead of tapping it directly. Or work the angles with your cock or dildo so that the head is thrusting next to it instead of directly against it.

It can be just as pleasurable, and she might even prefer it to having you hit her cervix directly.

And if rubbing around it is still too much for her, that’s okay. You can still give her lots of mindblowing orgasms by pleasuring her G-spot and her clit — ideally at the same time.

The More Pleasure, the Better

I don’t want to put cervical orgasms on a pedestal. They’re some of the most intense ones I can get. They can feel incredibly and deeply satisfying. But they’re not actually essential.

Other kinds of orgasms can be just as mind-blowing and pleasurable. I’ve never been disappointed because I’ve only had clitoral orgasms and no cervical ones.

But I get really excited by variety and I love being able to experience different kinds of pleasure, especially on the same night.

So, give the cervical orgasms a shot. Turn her on, go deep, and try to get her off.

If it doesn’t work or she’s not into it, it’s no big deal. But if you pull it off and make her go half-unconscious with pleasure, then you’ll have one more way to play and keep things exciting.

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