Summary

Pushpener Yadav, a novice writer, reflects on the stress of unmet goals and the societal pressures of success, while also sharing his determination to pursue his dreams despite the challenges.

Abstract

As the year draws to a close, Pushpener Yadav expresses his stress over unachieved aspirations, particularly lamenting the lack of money as a critical resource. He contemplates the societal norm of equating success with material wealth and the desire for a simpler life. Despite the struggle and negative comments from others, he remains ambitious and is determined to prove his doubters wrong through his success. Yadav has set multiple goals for himself, aspiring to be a writer, entrepreneur, coder, and teacher, and believes in the importance of trying multiple endeavors in one's limited lifetime. He views success as not only personal triumph but also an inspiration for others to dream bigger. Yadav likens negative comments to mosquitoes, trivial and short-lived, and emphasizes the importance of focusing on one's goals rather than the distractions of negativity.

Opinions

The author feels stressed due to unfulfilled ambitions and the lack of financial resources.
He questions the societal pressure to dream of an affluent lifestyle and expresses a sarcastic desire for a simpler life.
Yadav acknowledges the stress that comes from pursuing one's passion, especially when faced with skepticism and harsh criticism from others.
He believes that success is the best form of revenge against doubters and that achieving one's dreams can inspire others to follow suit.
The author has multiple aspirations, reflecting a common human desire to explore various roles and achievements in life.
He views negative comments as insignificant and transient, akin to mosquitoes that one should not be overly concerned with.
Yadav is optimistic about his future, confident in his ability to overcome current struggles and achieve his goals.
He concludes with a message of encouragement, urging others to work towards their dreams and offering his blessings for the new year.

How it feels to be stressed

I think it’s not good. And Happy New Year in advance.

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Today is December 26, 2021, and there are only a few days left in 2022, and a new year is about to start in just a few days. And I am a little bit stressed because I am not able to achieve the things that I want to achieve in 2021.

Why?

I don’t know the reason. Sometimes I feel like I am not trying the right way or I do not have the right resources to go where I want to go. And most importantly, I don’t have the most critical resource, “money.”

We all know how important money is to financing our dreams and passions because our passions are mostly about expensive vacations, having cool gadgets, and fancy cars. Therefore, all those things are very costly to acquire.

I don’t understand why I don’t dream of a simple life!

A life with fewer desires and goals, a simple one, having a decent job and always struggling to buy stuff that is out of my budget, and if I try to buy it, my bank account is going to crash. I’m just being sarcastic here.

No one wants that kind of life because it sucks. I don’t know why, but it sucks. I have experienced that, or maybe I am living that right now, and I don’t like it much.

So, like any other greedy person, I want myself out of this present life. Oh, not greedy. I am just ambitious. Like everyone else, never mind, but this is how things are in my life right now.

I know it sounds depressing, but I am enjoying my life because I think these are my struggling days and they are going to be over soon.

So, what is your life like right now? You can tell me in the response.

Why am I struggling with my life?

I think it’s because I chose something that I like. And when we choose something we like, everything starts getting messy.

People start saying things like, “It’s not going to work, and it’s not a good idea because no one likes to read these days, and SEO is a tough thing to deal with, and your grammar sucks.”

These are some things that I am mentioning, but people say more horrible things than these, they also believe that, in the end, you’re going to be a loser.

So all these things that happen to you while you are working on your dream goal are kind of stressful because they put you in a situation where you don’t have words to say and explain how you’re feeling.

Most of the time, you want to reply to these people with something like “get the F*ck Off” or something else. But that is going to be harsh, so you keep your mouth shut until you make it. Because success is the best revenge, after all, lol.

So what did I choose as my goal?

I think there is more than one thing. I want to be a writer, an entrepreneur, a coder, and a good teacher. It seems like too many, but we all want to do more than one thing because there is only one life and we must do it all.

And believe me, most of us want to do many things in our lives, and a lot of us are trying. This is kind of good because without trying, you’re not going to know whether it is possible or not to be someone you want to be.

Also, when you become what you want to be, your life changes. Kids who think that the things you’re doing do not work out. One day they are going to follow in your footsteps.

Which is kind of great because you’re going to save a lot of kids and allow them to dream bigger.

So it’s a win-win for you and others as well.

Why?

Because people don’t believe you until you have done it. Also, everyone blows down to the rising sun. And it’s a fact.

How do I deal with hate and stupid comments?

I think it’s true that I don’t care about mosquitoes. It doesn’t matter how many mosquitoes are in the environment; you don’t worry about them.

It’s not because you have a mosquito repellent or a mosquito killer machine; it’s because you know mosquitoes don’t have a long life. Some live for one day or two.

So it doesn’t matter how many are out there, they are all going to die.

That’s why it’s better to focus on your goal instead of focusing on the mosquitoes’ buzz.

I hope you get my point.

So now let’s talk about me.

Well, I am Pushpener Yadav, a novice writer who has just begun his journey, and I am sure I am going to make it.

Why you are disappointed inside

Let’s talk about why most of us are so disturbed.

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Staying in bed longer is not going to change anything

I am being sarcastic here.

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Conclusion:

If you have a dream, then get your sh*t together and work for it because you’re not going to get a second chance.

Happy New Year in advance. I will bless all of you with all my love and success.