His Quiet Inspiration
He shows but doesn’t tell
Inspiration: the action or power of moving the intellect or emotions — Merriam-Webster
Something that can’t be seen or measured, but most definitely felt and very much a force. We may not be able to express exactly why or how a person is so inspirational, but like Justice Stewart’s characterization of hard-core porn, we just know it when we see it. In this case, feel it.
Vix is an awesome photographer, cook, baker, hiker/camper/nature enthusiast, frugal shopper, online seller, foodie, and environmentalist. Really, he’s all that. Whatever he does, he makes sure he elevates himself to near-expert level. I know if I ever need advice or recommendation on any of the above, I can count on him.
Most of our conversations revolve around food. Him schooling me on methods of cooking, differences in ingredients, down to what cookware to use. The best is when he catches me on a grocery trip run. Those times, I shop around, lost in my phone conversation with him, comparing prices and planning meals.
We swap photos of our dishes, talk about how we made them, and what can be better for next time. Inevitably, his pics and dishes look (and taste) so much better, because, near-expert.
I cherish these moments; I get to share my progress with someone who’s genuinely excited with and for me. It’s important that I cook well for myself, and having that support really encourages me forward.
All that above is great, but what I really love about my interactions with Vix is his ability to inspire without words.
And to me, that’s what prompts action. I’d wager that would be the same for others as well. Because who really wants to listen to someone tell us what we need to or should do?
Vix cares a lot about the environment, and so aims to leave as small of a carbon footprint as possible. But he doesn’t go around preaching others on their level of water usage or waste production. He just does what he can, by making use of gray water, or repurposing plastics and other materials.
He’s great in the kitchen, but he doesn’t engage in boastful behavior, nor show contempt if someone botched a relatively easy meal. Instead, he just cooks/bakes, either by himself or with others, and readily teaches, sends links to videos, and offers praise.
He’s also an avid nature enthusiast, and primitive camping is his preferred style. Yet he doesn’t scoff at those who may not be as used to the elements. He understands, and sends words of encouragement after someone takes an hour building her first campfire, even though it takes him a fraction of that time.
Even though he’s mastered a lot of the things I’m starting out in, Vix’s humility and lack of need for ego-stroking inspires me to be better in my craft, to be more generous in spirit, and be unafraid to mess up. Through his actions, he is expanding my horizons and helping me hone in on the best version of myself.
As I keep moving forward, I have in the forefront of my mind that I want to make sure I take my soul with me. Too often we see people become successful and forget they once used to be green. I don’t want that to be me, regardless of success. I am lucky to have Vix as a friend; he is giving me a front row seat to how one can be silently great while not manifesting doubt on his greatness because results speak louder. One day, I hope to pass that on.
This is proof that quiet inspiration is much more effective than overt proclamations.
